Hey there. I'm 18, and my birthday is January 8th, 1988. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I'm short.
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im 12 and i weigh 126 but i am like 5'5 and i have a bra size of 36b. at school all the guys like me beacuse they think i have big boobs and they make fun of all the girls who dont have any..but you see i want to loose weight..if i do will i "loose" my boobs to beacause i heard if you gain waight your boobs get bigger so i would think if u lost weight your boobs would get smaller . is that true? (link)
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If you lose weight, your boobs will get smaller,but not by much. They will get more perky
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hey! ok so me and my boyfriend have sex frequently and sometimes we dont use a condom...but i tend to queef a lot and i was wondering what that might be from? or if its normal? or if theres anyway to prevent or minimalize it...he doesnt seem to mind it but it annoys me and makes me self concious in bed...any help would be great! thanks:-) (link)
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Don't worry. That's normal. I haven't eperienced it myself, but I know that sex can cause air pockets up there and that is what causes queefs.
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im 21.ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months. we havent had sex yet. he really wants to do it but im scared that it will hurt. what if i marry someone who doesnt want a wife who isnt a virgin. will sex really hurt the first time? if i only use a condom will i get pregnant? how does to pill work? if my parents find out they will kill me. please help. (link)
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Hey there. Losing your virginity is a big thing, and it does hurt, but only the first time. Maybe you should just get it over with. Now, your 21, and have been dating someone for 6 monthes now. Mayeb you'll marry this person. If you don't end up with this guy, and end up with someone else, if they really love you, they'll marry you virgin or not. PLus now a days not a lot of men are out for that. If you only use a condom, there is a very small chance you can get pregnant, but yes, you still can. With the pill you take it at the same time every day, and it will prevent pregnancy. And about your parents, just make sure they don't find out. By the ways your sounding though, your not ready. OS maybe you should wait till marriage.
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What is the right age for a male to start getting erection and be able to burst?? I am thirteen years old but I still cant have any erection...But all of my friends (same age) say they can have erection...Some even say they have been having erection since they were 11 or 12?? Maybe this sounds gay but I have actually seen them having erection in the mall or in the school shower...Is this bad? I am so worry about it...Is it possible that I won't be able to have any erection throughout my whole life?? (link)
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Hey there! Don't worry. The horomones in your body haven't been activated in that area yet. You'ss be able to have an erection! Don't Worry!
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what happened when a guy gets an erection? can he get one from making out? (link)
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Okay, when a guy gets an erection, his penis goes up and straightens and becomes hard. Yes, he can get one from making out, he can get one from the mere thought of sexual interaction. And yes, it is noticable. lol
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my boyfriend wants to finger and i was wondering does it hurt ? do you bleed? and do u use two fingers or one? it seems like it would hurt if you used two ? and what should i do about "shaving" down there i don't want to get embarrased but eerytime i shave down there its all stubbly and it get rashy and i get razor bumps! HELP PLEASE! (link)
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Well, it totally depends on how many fingers he puts in, and how tight you are. It could a little, but not as much as sex would. You bleed if your cherry hasn't popped yet. It doesn't really matter how many fingers he uses. He can use all of his fingers if he wanted to. You should probley discuss that, like, since it's your first time, say you want him to only use 1, and if you want, tell him 2 during or after he does it. When you shave there, soak in the bathtub for an hour of so, use a new, sharp razor, don't press too hard, and use a shaving cream with moisterizers or aloe. Also, put baby powder down there to prevent infections and the rashy look
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ok ive never been fingered before but my bf want to finger me but im like self contious about it bc idk how my pussy is suppised to look ..its got like spots on it...and can ur cherry pop from getting fingered (link)
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Hey there. Everygirl is self conscience about that area. The spots are normal. And it depends on how he fingers you. If it is hard and vigorous, then there is a chance that your cherry will pop, but if he doesn't it probley wont. If you don't want your cherry to pop ... all over him, use tampons. If you already do, then there is a good chance that has already done it for you.
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okay so im 14 and im ready to more with guys than just make out and i was wodnering like .. i know a lot of girls shave .. and i was wondering like how much to shave and like what it shoudld loook like i guess.. not to be sick but im just wodnering .. cuz i dont want to get embarassed please just give me some advice (link)
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Okay, your suppossed to shave it all, so there is no hair left. don't sahve too hard, because then you will rash.
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what makes a guy get an erection and when can they start getting them? (link)
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they can start getting them after starting puberty, and it usually occurs when they are thinking of sex
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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?! (link)
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lol, nothing is wrong with you. That's normal. Whatever floats your boat in my opinion
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Okay maybe i'm just over-reacting, but, me and my boyfriend have just recently become sexually active, and we had sex the first time without a condom, i know i know bad decisio, but it wasn't hardcore sex.. it was a put it in take it out kind of thing. Like an experiment. But non-the-less, it wasn't protected. But we've had sex about 3 or 4 times since then, in the last 3 months. I had my period after the first time we had sex, and I know for a fact none of the other condoms have broke. But, for some reason, I haven't had my period in over a month, going on two! I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said i wasn't pregnant, but i just cant' shake this feeling that I am!! Why haven't I had my period!? I know this is long, but I really need advice. Please help! (link)
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go to the hospital, or your doctor in the morning, because that is when it is easier to tell, and get it done there. At home ones aren't accurate. you should also get a pap test.
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Ive been with my boyfriend for along time and he wants to have sex and i dont no i love him soo much and he loves me i no he does and everytime we r together its soo perfect and he said hes not guna force me but he thinks this will lock r relationship and then we ll be together forever and ii rele think hes telin the truth...should i do it?
Sexually confused.. (link)
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hey there. Well, hmmm ............ lol. Okay, the key word in your problem, is that you THINK he is telling the truth. If you have any doubt, then don't do it.
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hey i need your help i just saw the guy that i lost my virginity too and havent seen for 5 months. He started flirting with me again and told me he never meant the stupid shit he said in the past. He then told me that i could call him whenever i wanted and if he ever hurt me again he would let me kick him where it counts. Then he said he loved me dont call me stupid or anything but i really love this guy. do you think he was just telling me that to get down my pants or somthing please help me i really am confused and it actually hurts realyl bad! (link)
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Hey there. Well, i don't know the guy. If he is a generally sweet, nice, honest guy then he wants you back in a relashinship kind of way. If he is the opposite of those things, you know, tries to go with the crowd, then he just wants into your pants. It's a whole personality thing
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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do??? (link)
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Hey there. Well, if you know your ready and you want it to be with your ex, then i say go for it
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how long after a girl has sex does it take for her to notice shes pregnant? hurry please! (link)
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About a month ... wait until your a week late and then take a test.
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My friend and I experimented with each other. Were both 13 and are both girls also. We kissed, french kissed, nibbled and felt on each other, but nothing "below the belt." I would just like to know does that mean were lovers if we don't have boyfriends? We never had sex before and we experimented, but not "below the belt." Does that mean were not virgins anymore? Help!! (link)
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Hey there. No, that doesn't mean your lovers. You were both just curious. Now if you continue doing it, then your lovers. And your both virgins still. The only way you can lose your virginity is actual sex.
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*CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME IMMA SO CONFUSED* ITS LONG BUT PLEASE DONT DELETE*
I have a guy friend and were really close.. hes 18 and imma 15 soon be 16.. but ne ways reclently he gots a gurl friend and they dated for like 2 months and last week i started talkin to *R* this guy from school when he found out he got really mad and wouldnt talk to me, when i ask em whats wrong he said i dont need to be datin.. well em and his gurl friend broke up tha other day and he was at my house last nite and we was in my bed room talkin and he goes you dont need to be talkin to em and all this shit.. i think he was flirtin with me casue he was bitin on me, huggin me and juss doin stuff like tha.. I really like em alot but i dunno what he thinks bout me, i mean does he like me or is he juss playin with me? imma so confused imma cryin!! (link)
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Hey there. Well, from what your telling me, he's into you. Maybe you should just ask him if he's playing or not. That's what I would do. JUst ask him, no matter how much i liked him. lol.
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Okay, well, I'm 13, and two days ago I went to the bathroom and saw some blood in my...well, underwear...and I didn't talk to my mom about it I just waited to see what happened in a little while after I changed. The next day I didn't get any more blood, I just got big amounts of discharge, and this has never ever happened to me before. My face also broke out, and I was craving chocolate and I was really tired. Does this mean I'm going to get my period soon? (link)
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yeah ... you may have already started it. Your first period is really short and very light usually. I didn't talk to my mom about it either. I had my period for 6 monthes before she found out. lol. And all those side effects are normal.
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On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks.. (link)
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if you feel it is right, then it is. But since you have doubts, you obviously aren't ready.
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help....my name is lola and i strip in a strip club. ive been in porn movies and different clubs. i have a hard time finding a guy who can just accept my job and love me for who i am. if i ever do find a guy they turn out to be real asses or just treat me like im a nobody. Just b/c i show my body doesnt mean i dont have feelings. idk it just seems like something needs to happen. porn is the first job i ever had and ive been making good money. should i quit my job and start over or just follow along with porn. if i start over again it would be rlly hard and it would be a long time before i make money again. i dont know what to do anymore i need help... (link)
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hey lola. cool name. Maybe you should find a guy who strips/does porn. A decent guy. The reason other guys don't except you for who you are because if yu were the guy would you like you having sex with another guy. if you find a guy who shares your professional likings, and you guys got serious, you can do porn together. And stripping is okay because it's not cheating or anything. If it's real love, the guy will accept it.
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