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help....my name is lola and i strip in a strip club. ive been in porn movies and different clubs. i have a hard time finding a guy who can just accept my job and love me for who i am. if i ever do find a guy they turn out to be real asses or just treat me like im a nobody. Just b/c i show my body doesnt mean i dont have feelings. idk it just seems like something needs to happen. porn is the first job i ever had and ive been making good money. should i quit my job and start over or just follow along with porn. if i start over again it would be rlly hard and it would be a long time before i make money again. i dont know what to do anymore i need help...
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well........ porn where u have sex with other guys well like ur guy can get jealous n stuff so like yeah
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hey lola. cool name. Maybe you should find a guy who strips/does porn. A decent guy. The reason other guys don't except you for who you are because if yu were the guy would you like you having sex with another guy. if you find a guy who shares your professional likings, and you guys got serious, you can do porn together. And stripping is okay because it's not cheating or anything. If it's real love, the guy will accept it.
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well if those are your jobs.esp. porn guys are going to get jealous. they will like it but only if you do it with them see what i mean? like guys always get jealous no matter what!! i think you should probably start over if you wanted to find a new guy a real/true guy or just continue what ur doing and look for the rite one. Hope i helped!
x3 spiCy x0 hoTt
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Stop being a stripper go to work at HOOTERS! Much better job
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you just have to think about which is more important.. your job & money.. or finding someone!.. me.. i would start over and try and get my life on the right path because.. you could really get hurt doing both of those jobs
xoXo*-Katie
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start over hunny, the hardest things are usually the best and most worthwhile for you. find a talent besides this that's inside you or a passion for something. follow your heart and someone will find you. best of luck.
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consider which is more important to you..your job..or finding someone to settle down with. If you truly love your job then stay with it..but then again..if you really want to settle down with someone..quitting might be the answer. Its a hard choice..but keep in mind that money isnt everything..and even if you have to work in a place that doesnt pay so well..maybe its worth it. I mean you would more likely find a guy to settle down with. There are some things to think about there. follow your heart
-melissa
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if you really love your job then you should not have to start all over again just to find the right guy. there is nothing wrong with showing your body, its human nature and that what you ovbiously like doing. just wait and the right guy will come to you all in good time. just be patient. that guy will accept you for who you are and what you do no matter what. good luck
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My friend angel is a stripper and she works in a strip club and has a daughter. She i think had the same prob. but she just dated around for fun then the right person came around and they both loved eachother equally. So you just have to wait. Maybe what you could do is find another job. Like a 2nd hand job. Spare money wouldnt hurt either and you could just let them know thats also your job and that you do have feelings. Happy Holidays!! **Please Rate** Trix
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its up to you. what do you want more, your job or to find a guy. its up to you
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get it out of your system and tell a guy you will date him if he accepts your job and you!!! tell him you want to be treated right and a relationship that is not all about sex or porn!!! ask him can you do that? merry christmas
indeed2
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Unfortunately for you, there WILL be a time when your boobs no longer hold their bounce, your vagina will grow tired, and no amount of plastic surgery will be able to heal your sexually betered flesh. Save yourself the time of growing old and bitter. Either kill yourself now, or go to school. :D
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