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Hey! Im Nicole. This is my second advice column. I really ♥ to give advice. I am rated pretty high here too, even though ive only answered about 260 questions. I have pretty much answered every type of question && i can certainly give you some advice. It may not always be what you want to hear, but i'll give you wat you need to hear. Also if your having trouble with finding something on the net, i am really good at that! haha. well please feel free to ask me anything! id be really glad to help you!

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okay so tomorow im going to this girls house, we have liked eachother for 3 yrs and are going out, i am gonna get there at like early in the morning while she is still asleep, i was going to make her breakfast in bed but she doesnt realy eat breakfast cuz she has a weak stomach. I really want to do something sweet so she wakes up to a wonderful surprise and realizes how much i care about her, any great suggestions would be nice...thank you!

Hey, well what i think you should do is like leave her a note with a poem or something, and leave flowers and stuff leading her to like something she likes. Buy her a little something and leave it at the end of the trail of flowers. And then give her a hug & a kiss! i think that would be super nice! =) well good luck.

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hey im trying to raise money to go on a trip to europe so im basically doing anything i can to get money and i was wondering how much do platos closet usually pay you if u sell your clothes to them? i have a lot of american eagle clothes that i never wear anymore that are in pretty good condition! please help thanx!

The amount they pay is based on brand-name, condition, style and demand. I have no idea how much they would give you exactly but thats what they say.

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I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."

I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.

I can't believe this. :(

He might just be doing this to make you jealous. Or maybe she told him to, or something like that. Probably not, but anyways... he's a jerk. Don't waste your time on him. He's def not worth your tears. Move on, and make HIM jealous! haha, oh and next time you see him, if i were you i'd slap him. haha, well hope you feel better about this soon. need any more advice, or if you need someone to talk to, leave on in my inbox.

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I just got my braces a few days ago and I was wondering if I could make out with another boy with braces? Would that make the wires attach to each other? HELP MEEE!

There is always a chance that could happen. But honestly there is MANY people with braces who kiss people, and i dont think its much of a problem.

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hey does anyone know what lmao stand for?

laughing my ass off.

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hi pplz. i think i like this boy but i'm scared to tell him. what can i say to give him hints that i like him. he's supposed to come down tomarrow. to talk to me and stuff and watch a movie. but i still wanna tell him b4 hand that i like him..please help me

Just simply tell him. Before hand, make sure its a good timing, and that he doesnt have a girlfriend, and that he kinda like you too. Ask him if he likes anyone, and then go from there and tell him you like him, cuz he will probably ask you too.

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okay,

im 13 and i am this

hieght::: 4'9
weight::: 60 lbs

a few questins that has to do with that.

1) is that NORMAL?


2) i wanna gain, but i only eat sugar and meat. i just stay the same. i eat alot of fast foods, and i stay the same!

3) i want to gaim 5 pounds by school starts.. aka 3 weeks. can that happen?


please answer..... DONT SAY


1) lift weights.


2) eat veggies


and all of that stuff, like, you know.

ill rate higher then 5!

OK well that is definetly way underweight. You should be atleast 35 more pounds at your age. I think you should excersize like crazy. Muscle weighs more than fat and it will probably look better if you do that and you'll gain weight. Um besides what you said about lifting weights & eating veggies im not sure what else you can do. You probably just have a really fast matabolism. Talk to your doctor about what to do.

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what does "jocking" and "hot linking" mean on xanga icon sites?

You took the icons directly off of their site, and put them on yours. In other words, you stole it.

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Ok theres this kid i know, and we met at camp. were always making eye contact and at the dance he waited til the last song to ask me to dance.. i kno i like him, but im not sure if he likes me.. i wanna talk to him more but when i talk to him i get all shy and stop talkin. Wat are some good topics to talk to him about and do u think he could possibly like me?
please anything!
i rate 5's!!

Think of it this way, he DID ask you to dance. So obviously he might like you somewhat. Anways to answer your question.. a couple things you can say are.. a simple hello, haha, well its a start. Just talk to him about something you know he likes. You could find out from his friends or something. And then talk to him about that. Just try to build up your courage. Good luck.

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Hey, I'm going to blockbuster soon with my mom and everytime I go I can never find anything I want to watch. I'm a girl, and I like chick flicks, what can I say. Romantic Comedies are usually my style, but I feel like I've watched them allll. Can anyone reccomend any good movies, they can be older or recent..doesn't matter. Thanks, and PLEASE DON'T SAY 'THE NOTEBOOK'. Haha.

* my best friends wedding
* just married
* sweet home alabama
* win a date with tad hamilton
* a walk to remember
* how to lose a guy in 10 days
* raising helen
* a cinderella story
* summer catch
* legally blonde 2
* titanic
* whatever it takes

thats all i can think of right now, but all those are pretty good. you could just go there and look around, im sure you will find some chick flicks that look good.

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OK my ex boyfriend calls me everyday to talk about his day. He slips in a sentence about me and him then he talks about his girlfriends. Yes that is plural. He has more than 1. He asks me to rate him on how hot he is on a scale from 1-10. I rate him a 7 and a half. He has a nice body but he's not niice to me when we date. This guy, does he still like me or not? I rate! Sorry so long. We had a relationship for 2 months before I found out he cheated on me.

Does it even matter if he likes you? He's sounds like a jerk and a player. Why would you want to get involved with that again? He cheated on you too. That right there is reason enough to not even care about him. I wasn't there when you had the conversation and I wouldn't be able to tell if he likes you. But If he cheated on you before, he obviously didnt REALLY care about you. Maybe he does now, but if i were you i wouldnt waste my time thinking about him. And thinking about if he still likes you. I know i probably sound mean. But i think you deserve better than him.

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Is magic real? Can you really hypnotize people? I saw this thing on tv where this guy made this girl float..sounds totally not real but if you saw it you would probably believe it. But anyways, is it actually real?

Well i dont think its real. But I never understand how magicians do the things they do. So for all i know, it could be real.

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i'm 15 and my boyfriend and i have been going out for like a year and a half. my question is:
if your boyfriend has been ignoring you for like a month, but hasnt like hinted anything about breaking up, whut does it all mean?
- confused

It could mean so many things. The only real way to find out is to ask him. He could be thinking about breaking up with you. He could be cheating on you. He could be really busy. He could be going through tough times that dont even concern you. But you will never know what it is untill you call him and ask him. good luck.

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my best friends name is cara and we`ve been friends since 7th grade we are in 10th now. my boyfriends name is scott. we all went to the mall when they met and she was flirtin with him and stuff. when my dad picked us up to drive her home and scott was coming back to my house, cara was putting her hand on the seat kinda near his hand and scott told me he thought she was trying to hold his hand. whenever im with her she always tells em how happy she is that im happy and with a ncie boy that loves me and i care about. she was tellin me to have scott to her house along with our other friends brittney, and tim. caras "crush" was supposed to go but he didnt end up coming. last night we were all sitting outback of her house and had a fire and when i got up from the picnic table i guess she tried to kiss scott?! and he thought it was me and he almost did then he was like what the hell are you doing? and she was like i had to tell u sumthin but now i forget.. the whole time we were sort of drinking but cara seriously did not drink alot, there is a big difference between a little buzz and being trashed. its so annoying and she flirts with him so much and i just hated how she hugged him when we were leaving.. what can i say??? thankss

Hey! What shes doing isnt right. Thats not something a "best friend" would do. Definetely talk to her about it. Tell her that it is your boyfriend and that she should stop trying to get with him. And ask her why she is doing it. If she says she didnt, than tell her best friends dont lie to eachother. And if nothing works and she will probably keep denying it. Than I wouldn't talk to her or keep being her friend. It's very messed up for her to do that. Oh and your lucky you have a boyfriend like you do. He didnt let her kiss him and he was loyal to you. That boyfriend is a keeper. But you really need to talk this over with your friend. And keep her away from your boyfriend. =), sorry this may not have been much help.

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OK, my hair is just about shoulder length, maybe a little bit longer. It's thick and reallyyyyy wavy and frizzy. If i straighten it at night, like right before i go to bed, shood i keep it up or down overnight? Which will help it stay straight?

well you should probably keep it down and not lay on your hair as much. Because either way your hair wont be perfect in the morning. You will probably have to straightn it in the morning again.

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Ok well i liked this guy and we went out for a month, he broke up with me the day after our 1 month, and now i cant get over him. i didnt like him much when we were going out..i was really going to dump him but after he dumped me i feel madly in love! hes my every thought, and whatever i do hes somehow there!! help!! i need to stop this before school starts...not that im going to forget..but it would help!

Focus on someone else. It really helps you get over the guy. There isnt much else to do to get over a guy, besides finding a new one. You can hang out with your girlfriends & check out hot guys. Do girly things to help you get over him. Its hard to move on, but i think you really need to.

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Who thinks that this site should be for helping people, not senslessly being jerks? Say I.

i!

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I have a boyfriend at this moment in time. We have been going out for almost three months. As of a few weeks ago I started realizing that I have feelings for my ex, and I'm jealous of my exes girlfriend. What should I do?

Well i think its only fair to take a break with your boyfriend. I think you should probably talk to your ex and tell him how you feel. Even if he has a girlfriend. It's better to tell him how you feel and see if he still likes you. But if there was a good reason you two broke up in the first place, remember that.

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My one year anneversary is coming soon, and i have no idea about what to do, i want to make it special and something that me and my boyfriend will never forget, i dont want the usually movies or dinner thing, we do that almost every weekend, so i want to do something we have never done, and please dont say have sex, because we want to wait until were married, please give me some sweet and romantic ideas, im so blank right now!!! thanks in advance...♥

signed,
need your advice!!!

Well you could do a special dinner. Like a picnic with candles & roses & stuff. Maybe on the beach? That would be really cute & fun. Make a poem or something like that. You could take a walk on the beach after and just enjoy it. Seems really sweet and cool to me. But i dont know what else you could do besides that. Congrats!

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ok this is my first time having my period n ive had it for 5 days already and my mom told me its only suppossed to last 3-5 days and the longest shes ever had it was for 7 days. please help me , clue me in on whats going on!!!!! thanks sooooooooooo much

sincerely,
troubled girly

Well usually it lasts 3-5 days but not always. Dont worry it may be a little longer because your just starting. It will be irregular for a couple of years i think. Sometimes it lasts a whole 7 days or maybe longer. It really depends, but dont worry about it. It's normal.

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