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Confused


Question Posted Saturday August 6 2005, 5:42 pm

OK my ex boyfriend calls me everyday to talk about his day. He slips in a sentence about me and him then he talks about his girlfriends. Yes that is plural. He has more than 1. He asks me to rate him on how hot he is on a scale from 1-10. I rate him a 7 and a half. He has a nice body but he's not niice to me when we date. This guy, does he still like me or not? I rate! Sorry so long. We had a relationship for 2 months before I found out he cheated on me.

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Britty_x3 answered Sunday August 7 2005, 4:35 am:
i think he likes you...
and hunn i wudnt go back out with him =/
hes a player
players arent good for anything but friends
and everyday he askes you to rate him?
thats sorta weird because doesnt he know that its gunna be the same answer as yesterday?
well i mean im not sure
this is a confusing one
and if he cheated on you...thts even worse
just stay friends
try and let him know..by having more then 1 girlfriend..hes hurting the other ones..
thats soo not cool =/ id hate to be one of them girls...

i hope i helped you

if u wanna ask em anythign else
drop it in my inbox...

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punkrockprincess answered Saturday August 6 2005, 11:18 pm:
It seems like he still likes you. BUt it depends on if he's just a big flirt. If he's a big flirt, then he's probably just testing you to see if you would ever take him back. But if I were you, don't get back with him. He cheated on you. You deserve better than that.


♥ Maria

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Courtney answered Saturday August 6 2005, 9:53 pm:
If he's cheating on you with other girlfriends, and that is plural, then he doesn't like or love you. The fact that he asks you how he looks really shows his arrogance and the fact that he does have others show that he doesn't feel that you're worthy. So get over him. You could do a lot better and worse than him. It's just all about your choices. And when you think about it, it's sort of comforting. Unless you're hazardous to yourself then not so much. Oh and the time that you two were together doesn't matter b/c he has "others" and you deserve a lot better than that. It's not about the time but it's about if he's treating you right. Oh and break up with him first before he does it to you. Maybe that will die down some of the arrogance.

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ESMEDINzBABE answered Saturday August 6 2005, 9:12 pm:
Yeah i think he still likes you if he calls you and talks bout stuff!! But i think he wants to know if you still lik him and he askes you this by asking you to rate him on how hot he is!! Ok i hope i helped!! But if he askes you back out i think you should turn him down cuz once a cheater alwayz a cheater!! Ok i hope i helped if you have any other questions feel free to ask me!! *~*MUAH*~*

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snowbird answered Saturday August 6 2005, 7:32 pm:
I hate to sound harsh but why are you still with him when hes has other girlfriends? Just dump him!
And he sounds very full of himself when he is asking you to rate him.

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advicemaster answered Saturday August 6 2005, 7:29 pm:
I think this guy is just a player and hope thats everyone likes him. I really don't think he likes you (sorry) i think he just plays around and will cheat and cheat and cheat on every girl. Well i hope you understand... Hope I Helped..Please Rate

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Helpful answered Saturday August 6 2005, 6:57 pm:
He didn't cheat on you if you weren't married or engaged. He's allowed to have other girlfriends. IT sounds like he still likes you and wants to be around you. Hope it works out!

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zvezda162 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 6:49 pm:
hes morman....talk about 6 wives (girlfriends)...lead him on and then trash his ass infront of everyone...talk about cocky....

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x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 6:38 pm:
he probably doesn't have real feelings for you..he just wants to be a pimp...he thinks the more girls he has the better...stay away from ppl like that...you should let him know that after someone cheats on kme i normally wouldnt even talk to them on the phone..so he gets the hint you wont get back withi him!! you deserev better!! x0x *caitie*

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rockstarxlove answered Saturday August 6 2005, 6:34 pm:
Does it even matter if he likes you? He's sounds like a jerk and a player. Why would you want to get involved with that again? He cheated on you too. That right there is reason enough to not even care about him. I wasn't there when you had the conversation and I wouldn't be able to tell if he likes you. But If he cheated on you before, he obviously didnt REALLY care about you. Maybe he does now, but if i were you i wouldnt waste my time thinking about him. And thinking about if he still likes you. I know i probably sound mean. But i think you deserve better than him.

♥ nicole

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Razhie answered Saturday August 6 2005, 6:29 pm:
This guy is a jerk. If I were you I'd be hoping agianst hope that he doesn't like me. He thinks he is a player and he uses you to stroke his inflated ego by telling him he is hot and listening to his exploits with his other chicks.

Stop letting him use you, unless you only want to be another one of his girls hanging on to him. If you want anything serious at all, let him go, he doesn't know how to be responsible or serious.

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Teen_Guru answered Saturday August 6 2005, 6:05 pm:
Guys like the one you just described have one thing on their pathetic little minds, what you can give them. You said he cheated on you, he has Girl Friends, and he is hinting he is “Still in love with you”. He sounds like a young immature and juvenile person, one that thinks he is all that. The best thing for you to do is to think about it, would some one who loved you go behind your back and cheat on you? If you answered yes your beyond my power to help. If you answered no, then how can you be sure he loves you NOW?

What you do with this info is up to you. I sensuously hope it works out for you. Best of luck

Let me know if I helped

~Teen Guru~

P.S. if you like more help on this issue or have another question, drop a line.

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looneytune1561 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 6:01 pm:
He might just be trying to get you jealous talking about his girlfriends since YOU broke you with HIM.He may like you and he may not but if he cheated on you, it wouldnt really matter.

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Alpha345 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 5:58 pm:
Wow, lol what a jerk. Is that all he wants to talk about on the phone, are his multiple girlfriends and how good he looks? He doesn't still like you, it sounds like he just wants someone to gloat too. He doesn't want to talk about with any of his girlfriends on this so he is trying to keep a bunch of relationships at once. So no...He doesn't like you, he just wants to gloat to you and brag about his girls. I wouldn't even worry about even thinking if he still liked you. You don't want someone like that to like you because you can get so many better guys than this jerk. Tell him to buzz off because he isn't worth your time at all. Not if all he is gonna talk about that on the phone with you and treat you like crap when you date. Try and find a better guy and tell this one to take a hike, you deserve better.

Hope this helps and you get a better guy to talk to other than this jerk.

-Ryan

P.S. If he is really starting to get you mad and won't leave you be, then let slip that you will just make a mention to his numerous girlfriends that they aren't alone and he is cheating on them all. That will shut him up.

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margarita_luvs_ya answered Saturday August 6 2005, 5:57 pm:
HELLO! Bootycall...he doesn't like you! Your just someone he can use and get some dude don't all for it break it off it was over when he started cheating on you not when you found out. This relationship is long over move on but its gonna take some time...Godd Luck.

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VanityScore answered Saturday August 6 2005, 5:57 pm:
To me, he doesn't sound like a boyfriend. He sounds like a pimp.

Don't fall for his games, and don't believe what he says. If he calls you again, just hang up. The harsh truth is, that he probably doesn't like you, he likes your body. Don't become one among the vast number of his many girlfriends(whores?).

In short, move on. You deserve better.

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MummuM answered Saturday August 6 2005, 5:47 pm:
Why don't you just ask him? It seems like he still might have feelings for you since he calls you everyday and talks about you and him. But I mean, he has more then one girlfriend? That should tell you something right there hun, he's a huge player. He could be playing around with your feelings too, by saying stuff about you and him being together when he doesn't mean anything he says. He could be just saying them things to say that another girl likes him. You guys where in a 2 month relationship and he cheated on you? Ouch! You don't need that kind of pain in a relationship. I always say, once a cheater, always a cheater. Since he's with more then one girl at a time, what makes you think he won't do that to you? I think you should find a good guy. A guy that will love you for you hun and would never hurt you, like this guy has done.
♥ Krissy

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