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"i make mistakes, it's what i do. i speak without thinking. i act without knowing. when i drink, i drink so much that i can barely walk. i'm a fantastic lover though. & an amazing friend. God knows i mean well."
i'm kari sue rose. obviously.
i'm a graduate at pound high school & i'm 19 ;)
i'm an upcoming sophomore at uva-wise, where i want to pursue a career as a college professor.
i am a manager at little caesar's & it takes up a good percentage of my time, but i love where i work.
i tend to read a lot.
actually i read too many books at a time.
& once i start writing i don't know when to stop. i'm head-over-heels for this one specific guy that i've been with for heck & ever[jonathan mark gibson] he's my world & i love him.
i'm not a fan of profanity, especially when girls do it. it's not impressive & it's not attractive. there are better words in this world dear.
& good grammar = thumbs up :]
i'm insanely girly, slightly high maintenance. but i'm easy to please. my nails are always done, but mainly because i'm almost a licensed nail technician :)
i think laughter is the cure for everything. i'm loving life. & i'm living my senior year up ;) oh and by the way, i'm honored by your hatred.
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i think i may have found "the one" but how can i be sure? (link)
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there aren't any right or wrong ways to determine if you have found "the one"
most of the time, you are going to date tons of guys/girls in your lifetime & think half of them are the one. being that i don't know your age or gender, i don't really know your situation, or even how many relationships you've had before.
when you have found 'the one' everything in your body knows. you have NO doubts, what so ever. you know in your heart, mind, & soul that they are the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. everything about that person seems perfect & flawless. you can't go a day without wanting to see them, hug them, talk to them, or anything.
& most of the time, the feelings have to be mutual.
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I've never really have made out with a guy before. This weekend me and my boyfriend are going to hang out. He was waiting for me to make a move which I overheard him telling his friend. And I want to make a move and make out with him. Any tips or anything that will help me out?
Thanks!(:
I will rate(: (link)
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when you & your boyfriend are alone, maybe watching tv or sitting on the couch or anything, casually lay your head on his shoulder or his chest. if he's any form of a boyfriend, he's more than 90% likely to put his arm around you.
whenever he does that, he's basically giving you permission for anything.
with your head on his shoulder or chest, wrap your arms around his waist & look up at him. if he's not looking back at you, just kiss his cheek. but if he's looking at you, give him a small peck on the lips. & then smile, and then kiss again. & this time, make it longer.
making out may seem hard when you think about it, but once you're in the moment, everything comes naturally to you.
people say you can base your entire relationship with a person by your first kiss together.
i hope i helped
:)
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Hi,
I'm 14/f, and I have these sudden urges to have sex (i've never done it before and i don't want to) but i feel that i need to do something to my vagina. I have tried masturebating, fingering, touching me up, shower head, but it just doesn't work what can i do to satisfy me????
thank you everyone in advance. (link)
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masturbating, i promise, is the solution to this problem.
the reason it's not working is mainly because you don't know your pleasure zones yet.
your clitoris is your answer.
http://www.gurl.com
the website above has tonsssss of information on masturbating & being horny.
browse around, it'll teach you everything you need to know. it'll even show you how to find your clitoris :)
just trust me on this one.
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my boyfriend.. who i love so much. and been best friends with for 6 years but we have only been dating for about a year. hes had wayyyy more relationships than me, and with one girl he decided to make a sex tape. he keeps it. i told him i didnt like that. i dont get why he has to have it if hes not with her and he doesnt watch it. yet he brings it up all the time in jokes and stuff. so its not out of mind. im afraid if this relationship goes further he wont get rid of it. should i even want him to get rid of it? i just dont understand why he still has it. and its not like were engaged ot anything.. wev talked about it. but were not currently. if i do ask him to get rid of it when should i and what should i say?? i dont want to ruin our relationship over a stupid tape but i feel he should just be over it and theres no reason to keep it. any help please, thanks so much. (link)
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if he loves you & is over her, then he should get rid of the tape & is insanely immature for wanting to keep it.
he shouldn't be holding a part of their past, especially while you guys are dating.
& he may tell you that he's not watching this video, when really you have no idea what he's doing when you aren't around.
you need to tell him that you don't appreciate him still holding on to that.
that's definately something he needs to be getting rid of.
& if he refuses, then i'm sorry dear, he's just not being respectful of your feelings or anything.
& he may just not be the person for you. if any guy truly loved you, he would repsect your feelings.
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my brothers friend is Really mean to me.
what does it mean?
hes only 1 grade older btw (link)
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some guys can just be plain out rude & obnoxious & they don't realize that they are being mean.
all boys are immature no matter their age.
but remember when you were in first grade & whenever a boy liked you, he would kick you or throw things at you? this may be another situation like that, where he may like you & feel you only notice him when he's being mean.
but then again, he could just be rude.
it's really hard to tell with boys these days.
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for a while now i have been getting really horny and all i want is for someone to eat me out. like i am almost tempted to ask some random neighbor hood boy to eat me out and i dont even talk to him. so should i go for it? or should i try to fight the feeling? and also how can i fight the feeling? (link)
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your best bet is to not allow some random guy to eat you out, he may be carrying tons of random diseases.
masturbation is a good form of helping this urges. try maturbating with a shower head, or letting the water run over your clitoris while you're in the bathtub, that may give you the same stimulations as being ate out would.
being ate out isn't completely enjoyable either, some boys are unsure of what they are doing & just barely do anything, and some may even scrap their teeth against your skin, ouch.
maybe finding a trustworthy & clean boyfriend can also help these feelings.
:)
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I am so in love with my boyfriend and i even made him a youtube video about it, and i say it all the time. But somehow i just dont think thats enough. is there any way else i csn show him i love him?
14/Fm (link)
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i'm sure he knows that you love him. if you've already done all this, then i bet he's proud to call you his girlfriend.
don't suffocate him with love sweetheart, it may push him away.
just uphold his confidence, tell him you love him, because words mean just as much.
although actions do speak louder than words, just kiss him in public. hold his hand. let him know how important he is to you.
which i'm sure he's already aware of
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what are some ways i can playfully flirt with a boy ? basiclly how do should i flirt with him ? any tips would be nice =) (link)
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smile at him when he walks by.
give him little glances during classes if you have classes together.
tell him you like his hair, shirt, pants, shoes, anything of that sort.
joke around with him, boys love girls with a sense of humor.
gently pat his shoulder or make small conversation.
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okk so if you giva a guy a hand job and it gets on your panties there is a possibility of you getting pregnant isnt there? except a veeery minor chance? but still a chance? thanks :) (link)
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it is a very, very, very low chance. but it's possible. there are 93458049584594853 millions upon millions of sperm in just one ejaculation & all it takes is one of those to impregnate you. if you give him a hand job, make sure he doesn't get off anywhere close to your panties (such as your lower abdomen, or even if he gets off on your chest, make sure it doesn't run down to your panties)
wash your hands after every hand job, and make sure he washes his too. just in case it got on his hands & he tries to finger you later.
sperm can only live in air for like 5 minutes, but it's still possible.
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I'm going to states for FBLA and I wanted to know if it was any fun? (NY) I am just really worried that I'm going to be miserable and want to go home. I'm reading the itinerary and I just feel really stressed out that I'm going to be late and busy the whole entire time. What should I be expecting? (PS- I'm not one of those people that has their heart and world revolved around FBLA so talking about FBLA doesn't always excite me..) (link)
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since you asked this question a while ago & no one has answered, i will try to answer it the best that i can.
i have never been to state FBLA, but i have been to state FCCLA in virginia beach.
when i went, i made tons of new friends & never once got homesick.
in fccla, i had to present a presentation in front of a lot of judges, which i don't know if that's anything like an itinerary, but whenever i did my presentation i made sure i was on time & had everything prepared & ready. it was really nerve wrecking but once i got it done i was able to win the trophy & everything :)
my heart wasn't always set on fccla either, but being there was a lot of fun. some of the things they discussed & talked about bored me like crazy, but i was able to pretend interest.
if you're going to new york, then you should have a lot of fun & meet new people. you shouldn't worry about being miserable.
trips are always fun.
just don't dread it, because if you set your standards low, then you won't enjoy being there.
i tried my best to help. & i hope i did
good luck
:)
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17/f
I really really like this guy at school. I haven't even talked to him yet coz i'm too scared haha.
I haven't dreamed in about 5 years until a little while ago and just lately I dream every night and I wake up quite frequently. Every single night I dream about him. What can this mean? (link)
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dreams are based on your subconscious mind. if you really, really like someone then of course they are always going to be on your mind, even in your dreams.
it's normal to dream about the person you like, i dream about my boyfriend almost every single night. i haven't had a dream without him in it & it's weird, but sometimes dreams don't even mean anything.
some people say that dreams are based on what you think about right before you fall asleep & some people say that dreams have hidden meanings.
if you want to get anywhere with this boy, you have to start small. just smile at him when you see him, or wave, or just casually say hey one day. & eventually work your way up.
if you both have a myspace or facebook or instant messaging, try contacting him through that. talking over the internet is easy for your nerves, and once you are able to carry on a conversation through something online, then you should be able to uphold a conversation in person :)
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Let's say you were with a guy for a lot of years. And everyone said you were one in a million and you guys would never fight and do stuff like finish each others sentences and all that stuff. But then you broke it off in a really terrible way and then 2 months later they found someone else (although they don't seem as happy with them.)
Would you say it wasn't meant to be then? (link)
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since you broke it off, to me it seems as if you didn't want to be with him anymore, therefore he realized that & tried to move on. & you can't blame him for trying, & then when he finally found someone, you realized what you lost. & deep in the corner of your mind, you were jealous. i mean it happens, it's normal.
if it's meant to be, it will be.
with or without efort.
the best advice i can give you is to let him know how you feel about him, and listen to what he has to say, because if he's happy with his new girlfriend, then you are more than likely wasting your time on trying.
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i'm sorry for not telling you what you wanted to hear, but that was my opinion & you shouldn't rate me low because of what i thought.
if you had wanted better advice, then you should have given your question more details.
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I can't see what I'm doing because nothing shows up on the taskbar except the quick launch and start menu at the bottom left and other icons and time on the right side of the taskbar. How can I fix this problem? (link)
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try hitting F11 at the top of your keyboard.
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Ok everything started off great with my boyfriend.Then he got super annoying and thinks that I am perfect in every way which sounds great. He is the most annoying person ever though. He always acts obnoxious. and then he accidentally called me his ex girlfrineds name. Then I heard he liked another girl then denied it. he left flowers on my doorstep. now i definatly feel bad dumping him. what do i do? By the way im 14 and im a girl. (link)
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if you didn't like him the first time, chances are if you take him back, you won't like him again the second time.
if you think he's annoying now, then you're still more than likely going to think he's annoying in another week.
it sounds to me as if you were just trying to think of a bunch of reasons to get rid of him because you no longer had feelings for him.
but next relationship you get, don't believe what you hear. people spread rumors on just about anything.
you're 14, live life. quite stressing over the little things, such as boys. you'll have plenty of time for them later.
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if someone asks you out as a joke (or you think its a joke probably but its not that obvious) what reply do you shoot back to the person so you dont look stupid in front of everyone? (link)
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just start laughing hysterically & walk off.
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in real life i would say i'm averagely pretty, but in a picture it doesn't show! I look really bad in pictures (especially ones i take myself) i would say that i'm not very photogenic...
My Questions:
1) How can i make myself more photogenic? (if thats possible)
2) what are some good poses that everyone looks good in? (i'm not talking about formal pictures, just like for fun when i'm with friends or just randomly take some of myself)
3) what are some good clothes to wear that dont make a neck look fat or to long or short or anything in the body for that matter? (like collared shirts, sweaters etc)
Anything more you can add feel free to! i need all the help I can get!
Thanks:) (link)
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there are sooo many poses for you to try.
in my photos, i hate my smile. so i try my very best to avoid smiling.
i angle the camera slightly above my head also.
& i try to take pictures outside in daylight, with the flash off.
having the flash on gives your skin a weird, lighter color than it actually is.
depending on the type of digital camera you own.
camera phones are harder to use to take decent pictures with because of the crappy pixels & such.
i also edit a lot my pictures with http://www.photofiltre.com (you should download that program & fiddle around with it)
it's hard for me to give you actual advice about taking photos of yourself, but browse around on my photos & maybe you can get some good ideas :]
http://s14.photobucket.com/albums/a344/__karixsue/Pictures%20Of%20Me/
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What does it mean when you like someone for a year???Cuz all of the other guys that ive liked i only liked for a month and then i stopped so why am i taking so long for this guy??Is it meant to be?? (link)
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some crushes may be stronger than others.
you may feel as if the other guys just weren't worth the wait, and yet this boy is.
it may be meant to be, but you will never know unless you tell him how you feel.
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so me and my boyfriend just broke up around 2 weeks ago. and he asked me back out a couple of times, but i finally said that we should wait for a couple of months so we won't have as many problems as we did before. so then, we waited.. for about like.. 3 days so far, and then we put taken on all of our pages and stuff like that to know that we're single but not interested. and i have a best friend, who's a guy, named matt. and my boyfriend doesn't like it when i hang out with matt and stuff like that, but he didn't say that i couldn't. because i'm single, you know? and last night, matt has a little sister named tiffany who's also my best friend. and i knew both of them my whole life practically. and then we updated my xanga since i haven't updated for a year. and matt typed stuff on it.. and supposedly he teased me and stuff like that. and my boyfriend read it and texted me saying "i don't like it when you hang out with matt when you're at tiffany's house." and then he goes "I don't think i would want to continue on with you anymore.. sorry." and then he said that teasing was flirting, which i'm not sure if it is or not. and then later on he goes, "this is the last straw, i'm deleting you from my life." and he deleted me off of his page and stuff, and then his away message said "practicing with my band. i'm so pumped you wouldn't even know x]" and he texted me saying "your nothing to me now you can go ahead and do whatever the fuck you want. i promise that i'm for reals." and that hurt, because i would want him in my life.. i don't want to be nothing towards him. and i know that time helps me get over him, but i don't want to be depressed about it in the meantime. and hanging out with my friends works at times too, but not all the time.. i hide my sadness.
so please help me? i'm very tired of getting hurt, and i still really like him. (link)
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your ex got jealous. which is expected, since you were with another guy for a night.
put yourself in his shoes, if he was spending the night with his best friend who also had a sister, & him & his friend's sister were updating their xanga together & flirting around, you would be a little upset too.
in some people's eyes, teasing is flirting. & apparently he felt that same way.
if you & your ex were trying to work things out, you should have just been a little more respectful of his feelings.
but also, if you guys were trying to work things out, then you should have talked to him about matt & how you two are ONLY friends & you don't like him that way.
the best advice that i can give you right now, is to send your ex a long, apologetic message letting him know that you only want him & no one else. that you didn't mean to make things seem like flirting & that you are really sorry.
that is, if you are wanting your ex back.
but if you are only wanting to get over him, then find someone else. get out & about, don't let him drag you down.
time heals all wounds. it may not seem that way now, but i promise you that sooner or later everything will be okay.
trust me
:)
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17/f
hey guys. ive been going out with my bf for almost 5 months now. after 3 weeks of talking we started going out. yes quick i know. i really liked him. after about a month drama started settling. ex's, best friend, arguments.. and eventually we broke up for about 1 month and recently we got back together. he says he's going to change, meaning he's going to try to put down his pride, avoid arguments, etc. and i promised i'd do the same. but it's like everytime we talk, something always happens and someone's feelings gets hurt. thing aret the same, not much fun in the relationship, less smiles lil bit more tears or hurt feelings, and everytime we;re apart we almost have no time to talk or its over txt. whats your opinion on this? what do tou guys think is going on? and how can i fix it?
thanks much =/ flirty (link)
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my boyfriend & i have been dating for 5 months also & we both seem to be having these issues also.
i know you may love him & you may care for him, but when relationships start becoming this sticky & uncontrollable, your best bet is for a break.
although you said you guys broke up once, & got back together, yet things still never went back to normal. therefore, there may just be a big dent in your relationship.
all couples are going to fight. & the main cause of arguments are the exes & friends of the opposite sex. it sounds to me as if you guys are getting sick of eachother, because if you were truly in love then every time you spoke, you guys wouldn't argue, you would cherish the time you are spending together.
but if you really want to be with him, then you & your boyfriend are going to have to learn to set a balance on things. discuss where you both stand & how you both feel about all these arguments. you need to learn to make time for eachother, through the phone or in person, not just through texts. & you both need to express your feelings towards one another, and decide what is best for yourselves & the relationship.
but if things don't improve any time soon, then it may just be time for you to find someone else.
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this is going to be confusing so bare with me
i have this friend A whose a guy. i talk to him on the phone every night and hes one of my best friends. i can literally tell him anything. the thing is, i have liked his friend M for a while and he knows, hes been really supportive saying oh well you two should date blah blah blah. But i wasnt so sure. I didnt know wether or not i like A. I mean hes really really really cute hes nice funny and he cares about me. But i dont know M that well. besides those factors i decided to stay likeing M. well last night, my friend A told me he likes me. and now i dont know what to do. i dont think he wants to go out with me but im not sure. hes been acting really weird when i text him like always giving short answers and things. what do i do about A? i dont even know if i like M still. im so confused. why is A acting weird now?? sorry this is so long but i really need to know.
please please please tell me what you think of this situation! (link)
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deep in your heart, whether you see it now or not, you know who you like & you know who you want to be with.
A is probably only acting weird because he may regret telling you how he felt & only because he's unsure if you feel that same way.
give yourself some time.
sit down & think about both guys & then decide which you'd prefer.
in all honesty, this should be the easiest decision of your life. when you really, truly care & like someone, you just know it.
& by reading your question, i kind of get this crazy idea as to which boy you'd prefer to be with, and deep in your heart you know which boy i'm thinking it is.
:)
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