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okay so


Question Posted Sunday April 6 2008, 1:52 pm

Let's say you were with a guy for a lot of years. And everyone said you were one in a million and you guys would never fight and do stuff like finish each others sentences and all that stuff. But then you broke it off in a really terrible way and then 2 months later they found someone else (although they don't seem as happy with them.)

Would you say it wasn't meant to be then?


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Additional info, added Sunday April 6 2008, 5:53 pm:
Even though, by the time you told them that you wanted to get back with them (after realizing that you truly did loved them) they told you that they found someone else? And then they said they wanted to get back, but also that they don't. It's been a month already, and while I'm not jealous I feel like we are wasting time by not being with each other.

Is it just not meant to be... I don't know...
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karisue answered Monday April 7 2008, 11:02 am:
since you broke it off, to me it seems as if you didn't want to be with him anymore, therefore he realized that & tried to move on. & you can't blame him for trying, & then when he finally found someone, you realized what you lost. & deep in the corner of your mind, you were jealous. i mean it happens, it's normal.

if it's meant to be, it will be.
with or without efort.

the best advice i can give you is to let him know how you feel about him, and listen to what he has to say, because if he's happy with his new girlfriend, then you are more than likely wasting your time on trying.

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i'm sorry for not telling you what you wanted to hear, but that was my opinion & you shouldn't rate me low because of what i thought.
if you had wanted better advice, then you should have given your question more details.

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roundtrip34 answered Sunday April 6 2008, 5:48 pm:
Well, it sounds like he really loved you, and you probebly got over him or somthing. He probely notces this, and he wants to go, and since he isn't over you. Then he will try to find someone else. To try, and get over you. Dont worry about it. It's a process for him to get over somebody.

-carlee

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