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I dont like my boyfriend and he is literally upsessed with m


Question Posted Saturday April 5 2008, 5:34 pm

Ok everything started off great with my boyfriend.Then he got super annoying and thinks that I am perfect in every way which sounds great. He is the most annoying person ever though. He always acts obnoxious. and then he accidentally called me his ex girlfrineds name. Then I heard he liked another girl then denied it. he left flowers on my doorstep. now i definatly feel bad dumping him. what do i do? By the way im 14 and im a girl.

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Jeanne answered Sunday April 6 2008, 3:14 am:
It's funny how that works, isn't it? Every girl dreams of having a guy who worships them and thinks they're the greatest thing on earth. Then when we get one, we find it annoying! I wonder why that is?

Maybe it's because we feel we should be saying and feeling the same way about him... and if we don't, we feel guilty. Or maybe it's because when a guy makes you feel like the superior one, it automatically makes him seem inferior. And of course we don't like that, because relationships work best when both people think of each other as equals.

I don't know... but if you aren't happy with this guy, then there's no point in staying with him. Yeah, it stinks to break someone's heart, but he'll get over it... and probably quicker than you think. Guys fall hard but they bounce back pretty fast.

And just let this experience be a lesson to you. Next time you're head over heals about a guy, be sure not to act towards him the way this guy has acted towards you. As you've already seen, it can be annoying!

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karisue answered Sunday April 6 2008, 1:49 am:
if you didn't like him the first time, chances are if you take him back, you won't like him again the second time.

if you think he's annoying now, then you're still more than likely going to think he's annoying in another week.
it sounds to me as if you were just trying to think of a bunch of reasons to get rid of him because you no longer had feelings for him.

but next relationship you get, don't believe what you hear. people spread rumors on just about anything.

you're 14, live life. quite stressing over the little things, such as boys. you'll have plenty of time for them later.

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xojessii answered Saturday April 5 2008, 11:36 pm:
just follow your heart.
if you really like him talk to him about getting back together.
but don't go out with him out of pity it will just make things worse in the long run.

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