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BoYFriEd Troubles.. same old story
17/f
hey guys. ive been going out with my bf for almost 5 months now. after 3 weeks of talking we started going out. yes quick i know. i really liked him. after about a month drama started settling. ex's, best friend, arguments.. and eventually we broke up for about 1 month and recently we got back together. he says he's going to change, meaning he's going to try to put down his pride, avoid arguments, etc. and i promised i'd do the same. but it's like everytime we talk, something always happens and someone's feelings gets hurt. thing aret the same, not much fun in the relationship, less smiles lil bit more tears or hurt feelings, and everytime we;re apart we almost have no time to talk or its over txt. whats your opinion on this? what do tou guys think is going on? and how can i fix it?
thanks much =/ flirty
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my boyfriend & i have been dating for 5 months also & we both seem to be having these issues also.
i know you may love him & you may care for him, but when relationships start becoming this sticky & uncontrollable, your best bet is for a break.
although you said you guys broke up once, & got back together, yet things still never went back to normal. therefore, there may just be a big dent in your relationship.
all couples are going to fight. & the main cause of arguments are the exes & friends of the opposite sex. it sounds to me as if you guys are getting sick of eachother, because if you were truly in love then every time you spoke, you guys wouldn't argue, you would cherish the time you are spending together.
but if you really want to be with him, then you & your boyfriend are going to have to learn to set a balance on things. discuss where you both stand & how you both feel about all these arguments. you need to learn to make time for eachother, through the phone or in person, not just through texts. & you both need to express your feelings towards one another, and decide what is best for yourselves & the relationship.
but if things don't improve any time soon, then it may just be time for you to find someone else.
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Looks to me you two are growing apart. I mean I'm sure yall are crazy about each other but every story has an ending and this may be the case. I know you like him alot and all but you two need to talk things out and see how yall feel about everything and check yalls priorities because relationships are about love/arguements and fun, not JUST about argueing and crying all the time. There needs to be limits and if your unhappy all the time then what's the point. Their suppose to make you feel like a princess and make you happy. So talk it out and hopefully everything turns out okay. Good luck! :]
- Lacey -
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