female, 14, freshman. me and this guy are good friends, and apparently he likes me alot. i could deffinatly see myself liking him, or even going out with him too, but, (and im not trying to be shallow or anythingk!) he looks like a 6th grader or something. hes really short, shorter than me and just looks like a really little kid. so, im stuck here, and im not sure what i should do. any advice?
TeenageHearts answered Sunday April 6 2008, 4:49 am: Do looks and height really bother you ?
That shouldn't stop you from going out with him if you really like him,i bet you he's one of the most nicest guys,he'll grow by age he'll even be taller then you maybe if you really like him go for him. [ TeenageHearts's advice column | Ask TeenageHearts A Question ]
babykiwi1 answered Sunday April 6 2008, 1:33 am: you should not stop liking a person becuase of thier flaws. you should still talk to him. try putting yourself in his place. how would you feel if someone said i like you but your just to short! you would not like this. who knows you might have a great relationship with this person.
karisue answered Sunday April 6 2008, 12:49 am: if you like this boy, then you shouldn't worry about his height.
he's still the same person, regardless of his size.
sometimes it does suck to date smaller guys, but no one is going to make fun of you for it.
if you have feelings for him, in any way possible, then his height shouldn't bother you.
but if you think his height IS going to drive you crazy, then maybe he's just not for you.
it's okay to be shallow. if you don't like short guys, then that's just fine. there are tonssss of other boys out there.
plus you're only 14, you're going to come across millions of tall & short guys.
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