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hello! so, i know how to customize your profile/privacy settings to how it is that you can control who views your posts or who posts on your wall. Currently, I have the privacy setting on where only I can see who posts on my wall. However, I want to make it so that only friends can view it... BUT, there are certain comments that only I want to see. Is there a way that I can make it so that that ONE comment is only for me and that not all my friends can see it. Thanks!
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my question for you is why would you post the comment if only you want to see it?just don't post it at all
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Hey there all. I need some help. I have been in a bad relationship for quite some time now... about 3 years. My family started to hate this guy and the hatred was so strong and they basically had no real reason. They just said that they hated him. So, I started to discredit that hatred because I just thought that they were trying to make my life miserable. I basically lied starting back in August and told them that I had broken up with him. I felt bad about it, but you have to understand that it was day in and day out talking about him and how much they hated him. I just felt like it was the only way to get them to stop.
I recently moved and now, without their influence, I have been able to see for myself how bad he really is. He treats me like garbage. He's aggressive. He makes fun of my beliefs and values. He takes money from me. He orders me around. I offered him food and he says "I don't want that crap." Most people would just say "no thank you." I think that I was in a daze when I first started dating him because I had just lost a close family member to cancer. So, I didn't really see what was right in front of me. There were red flags from the very beginning. If I would have valued myself a little more three years ago, I probably wouldn't have started dating him at all. I would have seen it as a bad choice. Now, that I have come out of that "shock"from the loss, I can see things a little more clearly. The person who passed was my cousin, and we were very, very close. He was only a year younger than me. He was my best friend and passed from cancer. So, it wasn't just the loss that effected me, it was seeing him ill for so long. Recently, I was even diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder likely do to this. So, I feel that now is when I'm coming out of this adrenaline rush that I had going on when we were taking care of him.
Before, I wasn't even sure that I wanted to break up with him. I thought that I was doing it for the wrong reasons: my mom/family. Especially given the nature of the way that they said it. But, now I have seen for myself. I've never broken up with anyone before. I've only had one other serious relationship and it ended in another way. I don't even know how to face him. I'm afraid that he's gonna start crying... and then I'm just gonna feel bad and stay with him. I've come to realize that he has a bit of a dangerous temper and he is aggressive. Since my cousin passed, I had been going to therapy and obviously, this came up. The therapist believes that he is a narcissist. I'm afraid of telling him in person. I know it's the "right" thing to do, but I can't look him in the eye. I just wish I could wake up tomorrow and it could be over. This has had me so stressed that I've often thought... I wish the Lord would just take me so I could just avoid it. But, I know that this is something I need to do. I'm not happy at all. I'm miserable in this relationship and I don't want to be in it anymore.
Lastly, I should bring up that my birthday is on Sunday. I'm turning 24. Last year, he didn't get me anything for my birthday and didn't even come see me. This year, he's suddenly interested in "making up for it" and has a whole day planned. I'm not interested in spending the day with him. But, I'm worried about breaking up with him before then because I fear that he could hunt me down and ruin it. Please advise! Also, please advise on the best way to break up with him and how to get over that fear.
Thank you. Blessings.
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I think you need to discuss with him your concerns and how you feel about the relationship, maybe he would want to go to anger management or therapy to fully understand why he acts in this manner or if he is too stubborn (like most guys are), HE will break it off with you for "accusing such a thing". Either way, you are doing something to help yourself and have a peaceful birthday and a better life for yourself.
Let me know what you think about this!
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Thanks for the advice. And I also just wanted to let you and your friend know that I am not a whore. I am almost 16 and haven't even had a boyfriend. I just wanted to clarify this. (link)
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i never said you were a whore, that was my friend and i disagreed with her completely, i hope my advice helped at least make a clearer understanding of your situation.
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I have been conflicted about my feelings for two girls for the longest time and I've officially admitted to myself that I like and care for them both a lot. I don't want to be with either one because I don't want a relationship but I care about them both and just want them to be happy. But I don't know how to tell them I care. I'm not the best with showing my emotions. (link)
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One of them you don't even talk to really, the other one has a boyfriend, so just be friends with both of them. They both mean a great deal to you so, they should know you care. Talk to them, specifically do nice stuff for them occasionally no matter how hard it may seem. Check in on them and just be there for them. Ask them how they are, meet up with them, spend time with them. Just do little small things that you would want done for you. Respond!!!!
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If my bf breaks up with me and I kiss and give blowjob to another guy drunkenly and again me and my bf get along in relationship would it be considered as cheating? Should I tell my bf about this accident? (link)
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so, to answer your question, it is not considered cheating because you were not in a relationship at that moment, but he should be aware of what has happened if you want to have a stable and mature relationship. You have to be honest with him and communicate with him if you want a future with this man. Enjoy your day and let me know how it goes! buh bye!!!
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Okay, so I'm a 15, almost 16 year old girl. I moved schools this year and I made multiple friends. There are both girls and guys in my group. So, in the beginning of december, two of my close guy friends started talking to me a lot more, lets call them Joe and Harry. So they would text me and we'd all skype pretty often and it was pretty good. I liked the fact that I had some close guy friends that I could turn to if need be. So after a bit I started liking one of them, Harry. I never told anyone about it, still to this day.
So, about a week ago, my friend told me to come over to her house because she need to talk to me. When I went over, she told me that our group is in a fight, and it was about me. So apparently Joe had liked me for a while and just assumed that the rest of the guys knew. But then one day another one of the guys lets call him Josh, said he liked me. So Joe was mad at Josh for liking me when he liked me. Then Harry started talking to me as friends and then the skyping started. I was completely oblivious to the whole liking thing.
So now both of the guys know that I know they like me. So Joe has just completely stopped talking to me, whereas Josh is constantly around me. I don't like either of them more than friends. I don't know what to do about it, I don't wanna ruin our friendship.
And also what about the Harry situation? He's an awesome guy and he talks to me from the morning to late at night. But I feel guilty talking to him because of everything thats happening. I am really stuck, please help me. (link)
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Take advice from the master: Talk to "Harry" about liking him and the whole situation and see what he says. Tell this "Josh" and "Joe" that you are not interested in either of them more than friends, but you would still like to talk to them. No matter how hard it is this is the only way to do it. Let me know what you think about this proposition.
P.S. my friend here thinks you are a whore (i disagree)
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Today, I asked my friend to ask my crush out. When she did she told me he said no, but I asked her how he said it, she said he was really nervous. He kept saying um and he shut his locker really hard that he got his shirt caught in it and then said no and smiled. Is this a good thing to a bad thing? Does he like me, or just trying to be polite? (link)
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from personal experience, you don't get someone else to ask out your crush, you have to have the confidence to ask him out yourself
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Hi there,boy Im in hot water.
This guy I like likes looking at other women.We followed each other on Instagram.And every time I log in,it shows me what people I follow liked pictures,and how many. Well,about 90% of his posts are all sexy and suggestive photos,I was sick of seeing crap! Especially when he has me to stare at.I have brought this up many times.So I told him I wasnt sending him anymore photos to his phone.
I said ''you get sexy photos for free,and see them all the time why should I bother? Just the last straw''
And he responded ''Oh my god...you're right.This is the last straw''
And then I said''Dont be upset'' And sent some other messages
And he said ''I'm not talking to you right now. Stop blowing up my phone''
He unfollowed and blocked me on his Instagram.
So,how bad is this? Os he leaving me? Am I ever going to hear from him again? Or did I jut blow it? Anything? Is there anything I can do?
Or is it a done deal? I said I was sorry. And I am.I love him very much.
So,is it over,and does he need his space? (link)
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you have to learn what is a healthy relationship and what isn't. This seems like a relationship where you did the right thing. You should express to him that it's not right for him to look at all these other women in that manner when he should appreciate what he has right in front of him. You have to let him go. No matter how hard it may seem, he's not worth your time. You may love him, but he is not the guy fro you if he pulls that type of behavior. The best thing to do is act like you don't care so he sees what he's going to miss and how he messed up. If you give in to his immature ways, he will het you again. Act like you are happy he is gone and that you're better off without him.
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Ive been with my boyfriend for several months now. He's in his mid 20's I just turned 30. I love him to pieces and I know he loves me. Our communication is good and honesty is there. But we hardly see each other because of work schedules. And he doesn't have a car right now. So we see each other very little,and I have to go to him. I don't want to break up but its tough not seeing him but a few hours a week and usually its from 11 pm to 11 am and we've both worked all day so we are tired and fall asleep. Advice? (link)
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You have to decide if it's worth it. If you love him enough to hold onto him, hold on tight. If you find yourself not willing to put that extra effort to treasure the rare moments you have with him, you know it's not meant to be.
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So Me and my now ex boyfriend haven't talked for 3 days straight. I tried texting and calling and he wasn't answering so I finally went to his house tonight and confronted him. Surprisingly he answered the door and I asked if we could talk and he said he was busy and didn't wanna talk about it and slammed the door in my face. All I wanted was closure and for him to say he didn't wanna be with me. I then came home and looked at my snapchat stories and a girl I'm friends with had a snapchat story with him in it. I'm really frustrated with everything.
I'm the kind of person who likes things to end on a good note. I don't understand what I did or what's even happening. It's killing me. All I wanted was at least 5 mins of mature talking and idk what to do. Plz give advice. Thanks (link)
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I know you want closure and things to end smoothly, but that's not always how it's going to be and you have to accept that. Maybe he's too immature to end the relationship on a good note and that's not your fault. Just let it go and try to move on and think of him as a lesson, to not date someone like that again. Also, it may be really awkward and uncomfortable for him to talk to someone he use to have feelings for.
I hoped this helped!
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My boy friend and I have been dating for around 4 months now.. And we are in a long distance relationship. Things have been good between us since then.
I had some important exams last week, and my schedule was pretty crazy and I couldn't talk to him much... The communication was minimal.
After my exams ended,I feel things are not the same with us.
He has an exam on the 5th so I decided to give him some space like how he did when I had my exams.
Then we had this conversation :
Him : why do we hardly text these days?
Me : you have your exams coming up and I wanted to make sure that I give you space like how you did when I had my exams.
Him : I find it extremely odd that you are giving me space when I haven't even asked for it.
Me : I will not unless you ask for it.
After this conversation, things were okay with us and we spoke like how we used to previously..
But today, he didn't text me unless I did it first and asked him how his preparations were.. He said they were okay and I asked him if he had a busy day.. He said no... I was wondering why would wouldn't he text me if he wanted more communication?
Im confused .. Am I over reacting here??
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Wow, I'm finding very interesting situations and there is not an easy solution but this is what I think; it makes sense that you would give him space so he could focus on his exams. Long distance is very hard to do, very hard. You are going to have a lot of moments like this where there is miscommunications because you aren't in the same area, the same place, so it just depends if you like/love him enough to hold onto the relationship. I can not make that decision for you, but I can bring up the possibility of choosing. Whatever you do, I hope it works out for you. Choose what's best for yourself no matter how hard it is. If you think it's worth fighting for and holding onto, hold onto it and don't let it go. If you find yourself not wanting to keep trying, let him go.
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I feel like my life is one for the scales, with one great outcome comes a terrible situation, and vice versa. Lately, things have been pretty low with my boyfriend- I've noticed that every thing I accomplish, he either shrugs it off (like it's a feeble feat.) or pulls out this talk that ultimately reiterates his insecurity that "I'm going to leave him and find something better." I recently landed a great job that I'm extremely proud of, and when I told him, he mocked it and complained about all of the "new guys I'm going to meet." When I made the dean's list this semester, he told me that when I go off to a better college (I'm in community college,now) that I'm "going to meet someone better than him." This has been the biggest problem of ours since our relationship started.
We've been dating for 4 1/2 years and for most of the time, I feel like I've been molded and conditioned to believe in what he's said. He thinks that if I have guy friends, and if he has girl friends, then we are obviously being devious. I keep trying to tell him that I want to move on from this negative and debilitating aspect of what our relationship has come to be , that I want us to have healthy social relationships and meet people together, with no stress put upon me to feel like I can't meet new people, but nothing works.
He tells me that if he doesn't worry about things like that, then that also means he wouldn't care about me.
I don't want to hurt his feelings, but this insecurity he has of me meeting new people is making my outlook on meeting new people - sour. I really don't have much friends, due to burnt bridges (from this exact reason in our relationship) - and now that I'm finally trying to have a productive social life- he steps in once again, hammering these words into me, it makes me feel guilty just talking to my new co-workers at all. Especially the men. I know I'm doing nothing wrong, but this lack of social activity because of my care for my boyfriends feelings is making me feel- alienated.
I have a clean slate in our relationship, I'm very loyal and have never intended to make my boyfriend jealous with the friendships I have had. Actually, he has been the one in the past to cheat (mentally, not physically. )
Even just writing this, I feel like I am writing in defense, because I am just so used to assuring my boyfriend that nothing would ever happen in regards to me and my guy friends, or going out with my friends alone. But he continues to stifle me, to the point where I in turn end up doing exactly what he doesn't want me to do- Which is, hanging out with my friends alone.. The thing is, everything would be fine if he was open minded. But since he doesn't want me to make friends in the first place- when I do make friends, I feel like I can't tell him, or I can't tell him that I made plans to hangout with them. This set's the cycle going, because he is creating a wedge between my social life and him- and I feel terrible, but I also feel like this is all very unfair to me.
On top of this, every time we go somewhere and I do know someone, I will never hear the end of it.
For example, the other night we had gone to his friends house to hangout.When we got there, a guy friend I had known from middle school was there. I had happily reunited with this friend, because we hadn't seen each other in ages. A couple of days later - my boyfriend starts asking me all of these nonsense questions; along the lines of "Did you ever date him?" or accusations like "I bet you had a "thing" with him and just aren't telling me"
Another example is when I want to hang out with my guy friends that are gay. One would think, as narrow-minded as I have to put it for my boyfriend, that at the very least, he wouldn't mind me hanging out with a guy that also happens to be gay. But it's the complete opposite. He hates all of my gay guy friends(the ones I used to have, and the ones I have recently made) , because he thinks that I'm "going to undress in front of them and let them touch me" --
Yes- these conversations are THAT ridiculous.
It's just so acidic and hurt my feelings when he talks like this.It also makes me feel very uncomfortable- like he's perverting all of my friendships and interactions. It gets me very angry because I know that it's not like that, but they way he sees it is just so screwed up, that I feel bewildered and like I had done something wrong to make him think that way. If it wasn't so often, I would understand. But it is literally, almost every day. It's like he views the freedom of having friends (mainly of the opposite sex) as basically "seeing other people." --Which in turn, makes me question what values he holds in the relationships he has with women (and if I, in retrospect, should be the worried one because of this)
At the end of it all-
Somehow, his "caring" message doesn't translate to me, he is hurting rather than caring, and I can't fathom his logic in any sense. Should I be the one worried, is he possibly making me feel guilty for something he can't fess up to? I really need help trying to get my point across, trying to figure out what his deal is, and basically just any tips/tactics/ pointers you guys can throw at me for dealing with this.
I want to have my social life and friendship blanket again, and I'm trying to rebuild the confidence that I had lost (I mostly feel really alienated and awkward around new people as a result of this relationship, which I have been working hard at to change. --I'm usually pretty outgoing, but when I'm around him it's like I shy right back up because I feel slightly threatened by his outlook of me ) I feel like I cannot move forward in this aspect of my life, while my relationship is like this.
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I'm sorry to say this, but why are you with this guy? You do not have a healthy relationship and he shouldn't make you feel the way you do. He is being very controlling and he is not trusting you. He is making you only have certain friends and making you get rid of others which isn't right because you need other friends to stay sane, it doesnt matter the gender
He is obviously not trusting you which means you need to dump his ass. The whole point of relationship is to trust your significant and there is no trust from what he is saying so, you need to firstly talk to him and serif he even trusts you and go from there.
Hope this hel[s
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AGE : 17, GENDER : MALE. I met this girl in the begining of the ninth grade, I knew who she was but I never had talked to her until we got seated beside each other in class that year. We talked a lot inside and out of class that year and became good friends. In grade 10 we were at a party and one of her friends said she wanted to hook up with me. Long story short nothing escalated that night (both of us were to drunk). This was the point I actually thought I might have feelings for her. She started dating a guy a couple months later which didnt upset me that bad. We continued to talk a decent amount when she was in the relationship... He would often cheat on her and people would tell her but she was pretty indenial about it. He ended up breaking up with her after about a year. Towards the end of there relationship I started to get feelings for her again. When they broke up we hung out began to hang out alot more and texted everyday. It didn't really turn into anything else but being good friends. I started dating a girl from another school a little after that and when I told her she seemed really upset. We didn't really talk much after that for the next couple months until one night when my girlfriend was out of town. We talked for a while just catching up and what not. That night we both had some drinks and we ended up kissing for a few seconds (it was mutual and was the first time it happened). We didn't talk for a while because I still had a girlfriend and I didnt want to screw that up. Like 2 months later I realized my girlfriend wasn't for me and broke up with her. I didn't have feelings for the other girl at this time either. But once grade 12 started this year I began talking to her a lot again and realized how strong my feelings were for her. I guess the past 3 years we had some bad timing with everything but now we are both single. At parties we flirt a lot and she always wants me to stay with her a lot when other guys hit on her. I'm posting this to try to get some feedback on how I could tell her my feelings even though I think she might know. Thanks for reading! (link)
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I think after all your drama and up and downs, you should go for it before its too late. Either say something to her about how you guys seem closer and maybe she will agree or find the right moment to kiss her and see if it is a mutual like. This is the perfect chance to see because you are both available and its's stupid to be scared because it wastes time on something that could be beneficial for both of you.
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AGE : 17, GENDER : MALE. I met this girl in the begining of the ninth grade, I knew who she was but I never had talked to her until we got seated beside each other in class that year. We talked a lot inside and out of class that year and became good friends. In grade 10 we were at a party and one of her friends said she wanted to hook up with me. Long story short nothing escalated that night (both of us were to drunk). This was the point I actually thought I might have feelings for her. She started dating a guy a couple months later which didnt upset me that bad. We continued to talk a decent amount when she was in the relationship... He would often cheat on her and people would tell her but she was pretty indenial about it. He ended up breaking up with her after about a year. Towards the end of there relationship I started to get feelings for her again. When they broke up we hung out began to hang out alot more and texted everyday. It didn't really turn into anything else but being good friends. I started dating a girl from another school a little after that and when I told her she seemed really upset. We didn't really talk much after that for the next couple months until one night when my girlfriend was out of town. We talked for a while just catching up and what not. That night we both had some drinks and we ended up kissing for a few seconds (it was mutual and was the first time it happened). We didn't talk for a while because I still had a girlfriend and I didnt want to screw that up. Like 2 months later I realized my girlfriend wasn't for me and broke up with her. I didn't have feelings for the other girl at this time either. But once grade 12 started this year I began talking to her a lot again and realized how strong my feelings were for her. I guess the past 3 years we had some bad timing with everything but now we are both single. At parties we flirt a lot and she always wants me to stay with her a lot when other guys hit on her. I'm posting this to try to get some feedback on how I could tell her my feelings even though I think she might know. Thanks for reading! (link)
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ooo this is quite a roller coaster of events!! I believe you should either make more hints about liking her, tell her straight up, or find a moment to kiss her. I believe that you should bring up that time you guys kissed and how close you guys are and maybe she might bring up how you guys have gotten close again or if she gets quiet, you know. Best thing to do is find a moment to kiss her and see if its mutual
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So recently I got in touch with my father and we didn't talk much because I'm really shy and when I meet new people and it takes awhile for me to get used to them. For christmas he gave me a really expensive gift that I was not expecting and because of it I shielded away even more because it felt kind of like he was trying to buy his way into my life and I have now not talked to him for a couple of weeks not even daring to go on facebook because of him. Today I did dare and I shared a few things and kept the tab open while I went to do other stuff. When I looked back I saw I had a message from him and it said "What, you can't talk to me now?" and now I feel horrible but I also feel he is being rather rude about it and I don't know what to do and if someone could please help me I would be forever grateful. (link)
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I feel like i could give you more advice if I had more information like do you live close together or how long has he not been in your life, etc. it might help, but I can relate to your situation. I have a similar situation. I just recently started talking to my father on and it's a tricky situation for both of you. If he wants to be in your life, he needs to realize that it's not easy for you, maybe you're scared. He hasn't been in your life and this is new for you and you don't know how to react. You shouldn't feel upset about what he said. This can all be more developed if I know a little more information.
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My boyfriend and I are both 16 and we have been dating for a few weeks now and 2 days ago was his birthday. We hungout and had a great time and now it's 2 days later and I haven't talked to him since. I've tried texting and calling him and he hasn't answered either. I'm getting really worried something is up. I've contacted his friend and he wasn't with his friend the past couple of days. I'm worried this is his way of getting rid of me or breaking up. What is your advice or opinion about the situation? Plz and thanks. (link)
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I doubt this is his way of breaking up with you, if so, its very immatures but i also have to take in account you are both 16. So heres the three options:
1. He's ignoring you because maybe he didn't feel anything with you anymore and maybe it's his first relationship or he's not very good on breaking things off. If this is the case, then you need to go to his house if you know where he lives and confront him about it. If you don't know where he lives because it's too early in the relationship, just wait and be patient.
2. Maybe something happened to his phone. I know it would be quite some coincidence that it just happened to stop working after his birthday and maybe he has to wait to get it fixed. This also concludes with waiting it out.
3. Maybe he got a new phone and he has to switch.
All of these conclude that you need to be patient and just wait it out, don't jump to conclusions
p.s. there might be another reason but a very slim chance that it's true: maybe his parents moved him all of a sudden, very rare chance
let me know if this helped!
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Thanks, that really helped make me feel better haha. Well, our fight was kind of, it wasn't so much a fight, I kind of just got upset at him. My friends always say I fall for the wrong guys, but I try not to judge people off of initial rumors. And I had a crush on this guy, and he asked me one day if he could ask me something, and I thought he was going to ask me out on a date because we were becoming really good friends and we flirted a little bit and became close. And it was a blow to the heart because he started asking me about this girl he still likes (they had a summer fling), and he kept going on about how much he loved her and still loves her and wants a relationship. And then the next to weeks, he didn't care about how my day was going or anything, he was just so focused on this girl. I tried to support him and help him like a good friend does (even though it was hard), but he kept responding harshly like I was saying the wrong thing, but I was just trying to make him feel better and be there for him. And then we were on good terms again and he said he didn't talk to her anymore, and asked me to homecoming, and I had said yes (obviously) and all my friends thought I was just his rebound. And he told me to meet up with him one day, and he never showed up, and I saw him walking with that girl everyday, but he never even tried approaching me. And I eventually I just got really upset out of the heat of the moment and was like "Im sorry I can't be that girl, and I'm trying to help you and all your doing is treating me like crap and I don't get why you still want her when she's making you cry and I'm right here comforting you. Like, why am I not good enough?" type of thing. And after that we stopped talking. I told I'm I couldn't go to homecoming with him, and he said he was sad and he didn't want to go, but I felt like I would have just been a burden and he just didn't wanna uninvite me (because he had already asked me), but I knew he wanted to go with her. And in December even though he's done nothing for me but hurt me mostly, I couldn't help but think of all the good things and how he made me feel special and stuff. It's kind of stupid because I should be able to just forget about him, but it's like no matter what he did, I still like him and I can't forget about him. Its like all I want is for him to give me some kind of sign even though I know he won't. (link)
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That is a very difficult situation and he did the wrong thing by not communicating to you. You made the right decision to call off homecoming because he is not informing you of what is real going on with him. I'm sorry you have to go through this type of situation, but what you did was absolutely the right thing to do, so don't feel bad about your decision. At a certain point, it's going to be hard to handle and realize they are gone. The important thing to remember is do not go back to him no matter how much he apologizes or how much you want to because only bad things can happen from that. You have to stay strong.You will find somebody so much better for you who will care for you, communicate with you, and just be overall a better person to you. From what i can tell, you deserve way better. You may have to go through a mourning period and have that horrible regret feeling, but that's normal, let that happen, you will heal eventually
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im a 14 year old girl. there is this guy i've liked for a long time and we finally started talking in September to october. hHe seemed to really like me too because he would flirt with me and compliment me a lot. We ended up having a fight and we didn't talk for like, a month. And then I texted him in late November and apoligized because i still liked him and I was thinking of him all the time. he acted like things were fine, but then early December he just stopped texting me. I tried talking to him in school, but he kept avoiding me, and he wont answer to my texts or social media tags, I've tried everything. About mid-December I texted him and was like "please talk to me", and I told him how much I liked and missed him. it's almost january and he never answered me back and he always brushes past me in school. I know he doesn't like me anymore and all my friends know he doesn't either. I just moved to a different school now, but I still can't stop thinking of him. I really like this guy, not like any other guy I've liked in the past (where I can just forget about them), even though he's ignoring me. I know I shouldn't, but I do. I know I need to get over him because he's not good for me, but I don't know what to do or how to get over him. I always think I have, but every night my thoughts wander to him and how I wish he just would text me. how do I get over this? please help! (link)
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Could you please explain what this fight was?
I can relate to having a crush on someone like that, I liked her a lot but then I was over obsessing so that's probably how he feels. You are obsessed with him.
How do you forget about him? Think of all the bad things that he has done for you and think that he doesn't deserve you and you are better than him.
My girlfriend's brother says he is a big fat ugly banana.
I must sincerely agree with him.
He does not deserve you at all since he does not bother reaching out to you in anyway after all your attempts.
You are a good girl and should move on.
Good luck, reply back!
gummy bear
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Hey all.
This is my first post.
My girlfriend has the tendency to get really upset when things do not go her way. We're both 18. They relationship is pretty much perfect and we're both very happy with each other.
For example, yesterday she wanted to play Just Dance and I told her I was not in the mood. She persisted and took it so seriously, and played Just Dance for 15 minutes afterwards without saying a single word to me. She realizes that she does this and she wants to change herself and we do not know how to.
Please help.
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I think if you gave her time and she realizes that she does these things and she broke down and told you that she realizes it, just give it time :) sincerely, gummy bear
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My cousin and her family have stopped talking to me and my family. We were very close and used to see each other every weekend. We have approached them and asked them whats the matter. And even offered to apologize if we have done anything wrong, but they do not want to discuss nothing and have just scrapped us out of their lives. Not sure on how to handle this situation??? (link)
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At a certain point, you may have to just stop trying. Yes, they are your family, but sometimes family members don't always work out the way you want them to. You can give them the option of telling you what's wrong, but if they don't want to tell you, let them be. I have a similar issue with my family and i have a very small family, but i just don't talk to them. It's not worth it. You can find other people to call your family, your extended family. Sometimes your real family are jerks and you have to create your own family.
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