If my bf breaks up with me and I kiss and give blowjob to another guy drunkenly and again me and my bf get along in relationship would it be considered as cheating? Should I tell my bf about this accident?
joydivine answered Thursday December 11 2014, 11:54 am: THIS MAY BE ALOT TO SWALLOW (just kidding)
BUT ON A REAL NOTE
MEN AND WOMAN ARE TWO TOTALLY DIFFERENT HUMAN BEINGS
NOT TO BE COMPARED ON THE SAME LEVEL OF THINKING EVER. FIRST OFF WOMAN ARE MORE UNDERSTANDING AND FORGIVING THAN MEN. WE ARE STRONGER AT HANDLING ISSUES, PAIN, AND CONFUSING CIRCUMSTANCES.
MEN ON THE OTHER HAND CANNOT. IF THEY ARE NOT SAVED AND LIVING IN SIN THEY MOST DEFINITELY CANNOT.
SO THE ANSWER TO MY QUESTION IS THIS. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT TELL HIM.
NUMBER ONE HE WILL NOT FORGIVE YOU NOR LET YOU LIVE IT DOWN IT WILL CONTINUE TO SURFACE EVERY SINGLE CHANCE HE GETS , AND HE WILL CHEAT , LIE , SCREW UP EVEN MORE SO IF HE HASN'T ALREADY AND IF YOU SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT HE'LL BRING THAT UP. THE POINT IS FORGIVENESS AND CASTING THINGS AWAY NEVER TO BE REMEMBER IS A GIFT ONLY GIVEN BY GOD SO IF HE'S NOT COMMITTED TO GOD THEN HE DOES NOT CARRY FORGIVENESS AND YOU WILL RELIVE THAT NIGHT OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN TILL THE BOTH OF YOU HATE THE SIGHT OF EACH OTHER.
AS FOR YOU FORGIVE YOUR SELF , CONFESS IT TO THE LORD AND ASK FOR FORGIVENESS, HE'LL GIVE YOU CLOSURE, PEACE AND CAST IT AWAY NEVER TO BE REMEMBERED. AND SWEETY VALUE YOURSELF MORE PLEASE, YOU WILL NEVER BE RESPECTED OR LOVED UNTIL YOU CAN RESPECT AND LOVE YOUR SELF.
GLAD I COULD BE OF HELP , I'M HERE FOR YOU ANYTIME MINISTER JOY DIVINE [ joydivine's advice column | Ask joydivine A Question ]
lightoftruth answered Wednesday November 26 2014, 3:48 am: So are you broken up or no?
If you guys are broken up, he's not your bf. If you guys broke up and aren't exclusive anymore, then it's not cheating because you're not in a relationship.
adviceman49 answered Tuesday November 25 2014, 1:13 pm: Very simple answer. In order to cheat on someone you must be in a relationship. If you break up and then at a later date make up. What happens in between is not cheating as no relationship existed between you. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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