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Thanks, that really helped make me feel better haha. Well, our fight was kind of, it wasn't so much a fight, I kind of just got upset at him. My friends always say I fall for the wrong guys, but I try not to judge people off of initial rumors. And I had a crush on this guy, and he asked me one day if he could ask me something, and I thought he was going to ask me out on a date because we were becoming really good friends and we flirted a little bit and became close. And it was a blow to the heart because he started asking me about this girl he still likes (they had a summer fling), and he kept going on about how much he loved her and still loves her and wants a relationship. And then the next to weeks, he didn't care about how my day was going or anything, he was just so focused on this girl. I tried to support him and help him like a good friend does (even though it was hard), but he kept responding harshly like I was saying the wrong thing, but I was just trying to make him feel better and be there for him. And then we were on good terms again and he said he didn't talk to her anymore, and asked me to homecoming, and I had said yes (obviously) and all my friends thought I was just his rebound. And he told me to meet up with him one day, and he never showed up, and I saw him walking with that girl everyday, but he never even tried approaching me. And I eventually I just got really upset out of the heat of the moment and was like "Im sorry I can't be that girl, and I'm trying to help you and all your doing is treating me like crap and I don't get why you still want her when she's making you cry and I'm right here comforting you. Like, why am I not good enough?" type of thing. And after that we stopped talking. I told I'm I couldn't go to homecoming with him, and he said he was sad and he didn't want to go, but I felt like I would have just been a burden and he just didn't wanna uninvite me (because he had already asked me), but I knew he wanted to go with her. And in December even though he's done nothing for me but hurt me mostly, I couldn't help but think of all the good things and how he made me feel special and stuff. It's kind of stupid because I should be able to just forget about him, but it's like no matter what he did, I still like him and I can't forget about him. Its like all I want is for him to give me some kind of sign even though I know he won't.
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That is a very difficult situation and he did the wrong thing by not communicating to you. You made the right decision to call off homecoming because he is not informing you of what is real going on with him. I'm sorry you have to go through this type of situation, but what you did was absolutely the right thing to do, so don't feel bad about your decision. At a certain point, it's going to be hard to handle and realize they are gone. The important thing to remember is do not go back to him no matter how much he apologizes or how much you want to because only bad things can happen from that. You have to stay strong.You will find somebody so much better for you who will care for you, communicate with you, and just be overall a better person to you. From what i can tell, you deserve way better. You may have to go through a mourning period and have that horrible regret feeling, but that's normal, let that happen, you will heal eventually
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