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what to do!
22/f
My boy friend and I have been dating for around 4 months now.. And we are in a long distance relationship. Things have been good between us since then.
I had some important exams last week, and my schedule was pretty crazy and I couldn't talk to him much... The communication was minimal.
After my exams ended,I feel things are not the same with us.
He has an exam on the 5th so I decided to give him some space like how he did when I had my exams.
Then we had this conversation :
Him : why do we hardly text these days?
Me : you have your exams coming up and I wanted to make sure that I give you space like how you did when I had my exams.
Him : I find it extremely odd that you are giving me space when I haven't even asked for it.
Me : I will not unless you ask for it.
After this conversation, things were okay with us and we spoke like how we used to previously..
But today, he didn't text me unless I did it first and asked him how his preparations were.. He said they were okay and I asked him if he had a busy day.. He said no... I was wondering why would wouldn't he text me if he wanted more communication?
Im confused .. Am I over reacting here??
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Wow, I'm finding very interesting situations and there is not an easy solution but this is what I think; it makes sense that you would give him space so he could focus on his exams. Long distance is very hard to do, very hard. You are going to have a lot of moments like this where there is miscommunications because you aren't in the same area, the same place, so it just depends if you like/love him enough to hold onto the relationship. I can not make that decision for you, but I can bring up the possibility of choosing. Whatever you do, I hope it works out for you. Choose what's best for yourself no matter how hard it is. If you think it's worth fighting for and holding onto, hold onto it and don't let it go. If you find yourself not wanting to keep trying, let him go.
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