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My bf sucks at making out what do i do?
22/f
my bf is great,but when it comes to making out he doesnt know how to. i try to take control and guide him but it doesnt seem to work. i dont want to tell him because i dont want to be rude but how can i work on this with him?
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Tell him bluntly.
And suggest that you will teach him how.
With practical excersises.
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How can he refuse?
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I think you should be honest with him and be like "hey lets work on our making out skills and stuff" because you should tell each other those things in a relationship, and you would be doing him a favor. But that way you could have a make out session and have you two tell each other what you like and what is good as you're doing it, to improve it, and he wouldn't feel as bad or maybe even bad at all because "you are working on yours, too."
Hope this helps~
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Sex, and making out is part of sex, is like everything else it is a learned experience. Copulating is something we all know how to do as it is in our DNA for reproduction purposes. Though what we do to lead up to that point has to be learned.
Obviously you BF is a late bloomer and did not have much opportunity to learn this in his teenage years. You are very wise though in not wanting to take the in not telling him though not for being rude but for damaging his ego; which in the male when it comes to sex is very fragile.
Now there are way to show him how to be a better lover and how to take this as far as you’re willing to go. Like everything else in life great sex starts with great communication.
You want to have a conversation with him that goes something like this. "Bob I really like where we are going and are love making is getting to be good but I want to make it great. Tell me if you like what I'm doing when we make out, if you like where I ouch you, kiss you and so on. I would love to hear about your fantasies and I will tell you what I like and my fantasies and hopefully we can play them out and have a better make out session maybe even great sex latter.
Words to that affect. Keep it positive keep it as to you asking and doing the telling so you can draw him out and let him allow you to teach him what you like. Whether it is this guy I named Bon or a future lover. Great sex, great relationships and great marriages are dependent on great communications.
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