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I was wondering what you thought do you feel it is really that big of a deal nowadays to have a nude image of yourself online not a sexual one but like just of yourself nude on a beach or similar?
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If you're comfortable with it, then roll with it :) Depending on where it's posted, it could violate some sites' policies but I see nothing wrong with it unless YOU aren't cool with it. Let the managers of the site know if that's the case. I hope this helped :)
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I'm in year 8 and I got a level 5b in science and a 6c in maths (I'm in the middle set for both of these lessons but second-top set in everything else.) these are my levels for the rest of my subjects.
English- 5a
Re-5c
IT- 5a
Drama-5c
Geography- 5b
Technology- 4c
Spanish- 5b
Art- 4a
Social Studies 4b
History- 5a
Phys Ed-5c
Music- 4b
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Well they definitely aren't bad grades apart from maybe the level 4s. But being in middle set, I'd say you're on track to getting better ones by the end of the year.
You can always try to take your book home and read through what you did that day just to keep the information in your mind and that might help boost them a little :)
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Basically, i was with my ex for 2 years and 7 months. I was happy, sort of... For the first year it was fine, we argued a lot but who doesn't right? After the first year, he began cheating on me and being really horrible. But silly me kept going back too him. I never felt like i could have sex with him because he always cheated and it was as if that's all he wanted from me. We finally broke up proper because he slept with my best friend behind my back, and that was far too much for me too handle. It took me 8 month till i was able too move on too someone else. I really trusted this guy, he made me feel wanted. It felt amazing too have someone be faithful too me and only have eyes for me. We was only together for about 5 months, but within those 5 months i ended up losing my virginity too him, which my ex wasn't very happy about. Although, after i lost my virginity too him he become verbally and physically abusive and he made me feel so small. It took me 2 months but I finally left him. About 6 months after, I met another guy. He is my current boyfriend. We have been together for 6 months, I actually have faith that this relationship is going too last we have only had 1 or 2 arguments and he won't argue back with me because he respects me too much. I ended up having sex with him, i took his virginity. It was so hard for me too have sex with him though, as i have major trust issues. But if anything it made are relationship better and stronger after we had sex. I can actually truthfully say i am head over heals in love with him. A few weeks ago, my ex boyfriend of 2 years and 7 months rang me. He has just got out of jail, and he was explaining how sorry he was and how he wish he could go back in time and fix his mistakes because i was the best thing he ever lost. I met up with him too explain how i am happy with someone else, and it hurt me too say that. The thing is i genuinely think he may have changed, before he was very selfish and would go too such lengths too get what he wants. But this time he said "If you're happy stay happy, all i want too do it see you happy even if it hurts me. Why would you take a chance on someone whose let you down in the past, when you have everything you've ever wanted right now. But if you love me take a chance on love." It felt so weird hearing him say something like that. As i was walking away he said "Do i not get a friendly hug?" At first i said no. But then i thought why not? So i gave him a hug and within those few seconds all my feelings came rushing back... I don't know what too do. My feelings are stronger for my boyfriend but i feel so bad that i am even thinking about anyone else in that way when i have the most perfect boyfriend ever who would do anything for me and would never hurt me. Someone please give me some advice.. Am I a bad person for thinking about him in that way? (link)
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I'm not speaking for all guys but someone who cheats and didnt do much for you in the past is not someone you want to be with now. When a guy says he's changed - especially one like him - I don't think you should believe him. Also, I don't think you're a bad person, I just think you need a long and hard think about what you felt when you were with him and what you have now.
If the ex truly has changed and loves you, surely he can wait. If the relationship with your current boyfriend doesn't last as long as you'd hoped, then if you think it's right, go back. Don't be afraid to make him wait. People like him can wait as long as you want them to because he cheated on you. He chose to make those 'mistakes'.
Personally, I don't think you should have anymore to do with him but in the end, it is all your choice. I wish you luck, girl ;)
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Hey, so I'm a 13 year old girl... I recently went to the doctor about depressionn... I'm going to get two types of counciling, but she hasn't scheduled an appointment for me yet... I tried this thing where you wrap a hairband around your wrist and flick it, it was fine ... More of a distraction and I could control when I wanted to stop or start, I didn't like the fact that it left red marks on my arms though... 2 of my friends cut (that I know of) and I thought that it would be an okay idea to experiment, so I cut my leg multiple times, not deep or long... Just a scrape to draw a little blood... I know I have problems, and I'm not going to do this again (despite the fact that I want to). 2 of my friends know about this, but I promised my mum that I would never. Self harm and I feel ashamed and I don't want to burden her with any more problems, the depression was enough... I just don't know whether I should tell someone and I'm scared and lost and I feel alone... I was stupid I know, but I don't know what to do... Pls someone tell me what to do, and don't bother asking why I did this- that is confidentual... Thanks, lea wills xxx (link)
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I think you should tell someone you trust. Self harm is serious and I have done it a few times myself. Even if you stop, a bad day will happen and you will want to do it again. Eventually, you may get addicted. You mentioned a councillor. Tell them and they should give you more advice. I'm no professional. Hope this helps.
P.S. just because your friends do something, it doesn't make it right. Chin up sweetie :)
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I have known this boy since elementary school and we are seniors in high school now. I never really liked him in this way until this year.. I sit at the same table with him And 3 other classmates with whom we share a friendship with that's hard to explain. One of my girlfriends at the table knows how I feel towards him And she notices how we fight like a married couple. I really like him And he talks to me like I'm his wife or something. We argue all the time but I think it's just a part of our chemistry. My question is how do I know if he really likes me the way I like him or if he's just joking all the time. By the way he's only dated white And Hispanic girls in the past And I'm African American And so is he. (link)
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Honestly, you're still quite young to be after this sort of stuff. But I'm not going to judge.
Some may disagree with me but I think only time will tell whether he likes you or not. I'm sure one of your friends will be friends with him or following him on a social media you both have so grab his username if you don't have it already.
Talk to him in private over text or private messaging and he may seem quite withdrawn at first. But keep making more conversation until you both become friends. He should trust you more after some time and may confide with you on this subject. If he doesn't, it might be a sign he likes you and is too shy. If he does like another girl... its too bad and seems like you've been friendzoned. But love is a risk even at your age. And, hey, there are always other fish in the sea.
Eventually, he will slip up and say something like 'your pretty' or 'he'd be lucky to have you' but it depends on the type of guy. The person who I experienced everything I said so far is quite a shy, self conscious guy. If he's loud and outgoing, its harder to tell.
But you having arguments like nobody's business is a flirting tactic. I've done it. And the casual, soft hits every now and again. Not hard and angry though. Just jokey and try doing it back. Just break the touch barrier once your friends in any way you can.
But remember, just be yourself. Don't over flirt or anything because it can turn out to be awkward for everyone around. It's hard to tell if he likes you at the moment, but there is a little sign saying he might. But don't get your hopes up. He could just be teasing. Hope this helps :)
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how should i respond to his threat? he said he would distribute the pics in the net and my school's facebook page. please help (link)
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Try telling your parents or someone you trust about the incident. If you don't think they would know or are unsure of what to do or may just make it worse, it might be best just to ask for their support.
I suggest you take this to the police. Screenshot evidence of the messages he sent threatening you (or not if he said in person but evidence is always key to bringing it down straight away). If there isn't evidence, tell the police anyway. If you don't want the awkwardness or embarrassment, just tell yourself it's people yoand u'll probably never see again but will keep it confidential or your whole school which is more embarrassing and horrid anyway.
Since you are still in school, it is illegal to have any nudes on your phones/computers and will get wiped from the phone by the police and he will be in serious trouble. Don't quote me on this because I'm not sure but I believe child pornography is banned even when you're the same age and it is just pictures. Plus, blackmail is a whole other thing he can get done for.
I hope this helps and I hope you can get this sorted. But I also hope this may have taught you a lesson too. No sending sensitive (nudes I'm guessing, if not he can still get in big trouble just for blackmail) photos to others when you are just in school. Good luck.
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can a 14yrs old impregnates a 14yrs old girl (link)
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If she has started her period then yes she can. There is a low chance of her being pregnant if you used protection i.e condoms, the pill etc. But honestly, intercourse under the age of 16 (UK) or 18 (US) is illegal. If she is somehow pregnant, after taking precautions, at your age, maybe you should consider abortion.
Personally I don't believe in it but it could mess up your lives at such a young age. I wish you well.
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