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How to deal with a bad breakup?
So Me and my now ex boyfriend haven't talked for 3 days straight. I tried texting and calling and he wasn't answering so I finally went to his house tonight and confronted him. Surprisingly he answered the door and I asked if we could talk and he said he was busy and didn't wanna talk about it and slammed the door in my face. All I wanted was closure and for him to say he didn't wanna be with me. I then came home and looked at my snapchat stories and a girl I'm friends with had a snapchat story with him in it. I'm really frustrated with everything.
I'm the kind of person who likes things to end on a good note. I don't understand what I did or what's even happening. It's killing me. All I wanted was at least 5 mins of mature talking and idk what to do. Plz give advice. Thanks
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I know you want closure and things to end smoothly, but that's not always how it's going to be and you have to accept that. Maybe he's too immature to end the relationship on a good note and that's not your fault. Just let it go and try to move on and think of him as a lesson, to not date someone like that again. Also, it may be really awkward and uncomfortable for him to talk to someone he use to have feelings for.
I hoped this helped!
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Ive been through this before as a teen. Only when it happened to me it was because i wouldnt willingly have sex with the guy so he just started ignoring me and i didnt find out until years later through a friend that this was the case. I hope it wasnt the case for you.
It sounds like he might have had a list of reasons for doing what he did to you. One of them might have included what i mentioned but maybe not.
If you want any real answers talk to some of his friends after a while that are still willing to speak with you and see if hes told THEM anything about his reasons.
In the long run, its better that you discovered that he was this kind of a person sooner rather then later after youve invested a very long period of time with him. It would have made this hurt even more then it already does now.
I TOO am the kind of person that always wants things to end on an AT LEAST decent note with people, but unfortunately life isnt like that. Sometimes no matter how mice you are, no matter how much rope you give someone, they will act like this because it is in their nature and they dont know how to be any other way unless they get a slap in the reality face. You may not be able to be the person thats able to give it to them, but i can almost guarantee you that if you were nothing but nice and they decided to diss you like this then you WILL be missed later down the road when life takes a turn for the worst and they think back on you and how nice you were and how they wish they could have someone like you to turn to now.
they will regret what they did weather they want to admit it or not. In the mean time dont give him the control over your heart like this, if you are like i was, i know your probably absolutely sick about this and just hurt. Just try to remember that HE is the one that did wrong here NOT YOU. Keep telling yourself that and try to move on a little at a time. this will pass.
good luck hunny
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Well you sound young so I'll go easy on you with the truth. The reason he didn't want to comfront you maybe because he doesn't care or he still has feelings and just want to get time over you. But forget about him because if he has the audacity to slam the door in your face after you pushed away your pride to come and see him,what more closure do you need. Clearly he doesn't deserve you and you should try and forget about him because he doesn't want to be with you anymore and is already moving. Stop going after the past he left now its time for you to move on. Stop making him feel that you need him more than he needs you even as hard as it might seem to do. There are other boys out there who are waiting to be with you thats just life it has it ups and downs just move on chick.
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