Im 13/f and i weigh 75.6 kilos (165.5 pounds)
i feel sooo fat. Im huge. i need advice on how to loose some weight! BIG time. pleaseeeeee help anything helps.
Stay away from soda and other sugary drink such as juice and tea. And drink lots of water...u might have to use the bathroom more but itll be worth it :D. Let me know how it goes! Hope my advce helps! ♥ Jenny
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So im trying to make a new SN for aim and i need some ideas.
I wanted something that reflected on how my life changed. one of my i deas were xxTimesxChangexx
But i want something more special.
I used to be really depressed and suucidle and now i am finnaly happy and free of the problems of the past. i have a wonder ful boyfriend and i am living life to the fulkest.
Any one have any ideas
Maybe this or something similar to it:
XoHappy2LiveoX
Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny
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ok, ive had problems shaving my underarms. ive already asked this question, and everybodys answer was helpful. But now nair, it doesn say that you can use it for your underarms, but can you?
I actually tried it a few weeks ago and it didnt work. I wouldnt try it. Next time you shave try looking into a mirror when you shave because that way you can see what you are doing. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny
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okay well last night my boyfriend and i were having sex... we've been together for almost a year and love each other alot... my mom knows we're sexually active, and is okay with it because she knows we both love each other. okay so we were doing it... and we felt like a pop... so he pulled it out, and sure enough, it was broken. and i don't mean like a little hole, like actually broken- like it snapped and rolled back down his penis. it only went inside of me maybe 2 times (thats what he says, but i don't even think it was in once) and yeah the condom was completely off... it was hanging on to his penis by that little ring. so my period's due in a couple weeks, and i don't know if i should get an emergency contraceptive. my mom says don't; it's not necessary... my boyfriends freaking out, and i really don't know WHAT to do. also, he didn't cum inside of me or at all, but there was precum. i think it broke cause the condom was too small... he did have trouble getting it on. so does anyone know what i should do? THANKS SO MUCHH!!! ♥
Just relax! But if you are really stressing over this, visit your doctor. There are pills that you can take in the first 72 hours that can prevent pregnancy. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny
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what song is this? its on 88.1 .. but not everyone has the same station. its poprock-ish and has some piano in it. it's something like...
when the storm starts shaking the ground, i hope that your ready now, i hope your ready for the..
it says, "i hope your ready now" alot.
October Fall- Caught In The Rain
Its a really good song! Hope I helped! ♥ Jenny
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well, i've been having my period since i was 11 (i'm now 14) and i've skipped a month or two every now and then. But i haven't had a period in 4 or 5 months now. Any idea why that might be? I'm not sexually active at all, so that can't have anything to do with it.
suggestions??
Your body might still be adjusting to having your period. If it were me, I would wait another 2 or 3 weeks, and then if it still hasnt come, I'd go to the doctors. Its probably nothing but your doctor can give you birth control or another kind of medicine to help regulate it. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny
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haha. most of us know how addicting myspace can be, and I had a myspace account for a while and now in high school they ban me from myspace because of drama that happenend with three of my enemies which involved alot of cussing and drama. I want to know the best way to approach my parents and get hem to let me have a myspace account because I'm an addict! :) ;)
If you really want one, you could always ask a friend if you could set one up at their house and use it when you visit them. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny
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Okay, so whenever a couple or a few of my friends get together and do anything, I always get VERY jelous. Like just now three of my friends all had "out for ice cream at kimballs" on their away messages. But it just makes me sooo jelous. What can I do?
Try explaining to them that you feel left out and that you would like to be included in their plans. Also maybe you could try going out with some of your other friends. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny
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my bestfriend is a boy. and i just started liking him. and realizing how me and him would be good together. we went to the movies the other day with a big group of people from school. at the theater we went to , there are couches/chairs and what not..so me and him shared a chair, for one person. and we were cuddling i guess...i had my head on his shoulder and he had his arm around me. =) we were like this the whole movie. and he would rub my arm, and poke me. it was nice. but...i dont know if it was just a best friend thing, or if he could like me. because everyone says he likes me, he just wont admit it. so i mean it felt like it something more than bestfriend...but could it have been? idk. should i ask him? just totally ignore it, and go on being best friends?..or what?
thanks.
13/f
It sounds like he definitely likes you! All you can really do is just ask him how he feels and explain how you feel. Plus since you guys are already best friends, you know you get along great with each other! Good Luck!!! Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny
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i dont want to make my mom upset because i am. My family is moving in 2 weeks, i tell my mom im alright with it because i dont want to seem over whelemed(sp). but i know my feelings will come out sooner or later. i find myself almost crying on the smallest sad or happy things. i dont know whats wrong with me. i really dont want to leave all my friends, im really about to cry. wat do i do?
Just explain to your mom how you feel. Shes your mom and she will understand. Chances are she might not be thrilled to move either. Just be honest with her. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny
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welll i just got my hair cut. and the lady didn`t layer it how i wanted. is there any ways that i can layer it myself. that are fast and easy ?
If it were me I wouldnt attempt to cut your hair. You dont want to make it worse. Simply go back to the place where you got it cut and explain the situation. With luck they will fix your hair. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny
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hi my names kristen, i live in nj.
okay i used to be best friends with this girl emily.. she started telling lies and telling people things that arent truem she turned into a real bitch. anyway we havent talked to since january, we've been bff since 4th grade but now we go to different high schools. and now tomorrow shes going to a party i am also going to, what should i do? i mean she completely and totally hates me, and i dont want her to start with me while at my friends party. what should i say to her if i see her? what do i do?
She definetly doesnt sound like a good person. In the future, just try to avoid her as much as possible. Stick with your real friends. The situation might even blow over. Just give her time. If she wants to be friends again let her come to you. If not then just let her go. You seem like to nice of a person to waste your time with her. If you want to talk, thenlet me know :). Hope I helped you out!!
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hi, im a 18 year old female and im in a relationship with someone,but it's not doing to well! and to make it worse i just found out that i was pregnant by my ex boyfriend who i am still in love with. i thought i would be over him by going with someone else but i realize i still love him so much and now i dont know what to do,because i have a boyfriend but he's not the father! and i still want to be with my ex. what should i do?
The thing you need to ask yourself is whether or not your ex returns the feeling. Talk to him and see how he feels. If he doesn't feel the same about you then there is a slim chance that you can make your relationship work. Also if he does feel the same then end your current relatinshp as soon as possible. You might also want to end it anyway because you dont want to waste your time with someone you dont really want to be with. Just make sure that regardless of your exes feelings toward you, you make sure he is there for you and your baby. Let me know if you want to talk more.:) Hope I helped!
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ok so one week i had my period. it ended, but came back only 2 weeks later. then the same thing happened again and im having my period now. i know that you're not supposed to have your period every two weeks, can anybody tell me if something is wrong?
First of all I went through the exact same thing. I would have my period for up to a month and then shortly after it ended, I would get it again.
There are a number of different factors that can cause this:
1.Stress- Your body might have to much stress. If this is the case, you should be back to normal after the stress is gone.
2.Weight- In some cases, if someone is overweight, it could be putting to much of a strain on their body.
3.Period History- If you, for example, just started getting you period, then your body might need to get used to it.
If this were me, I would give it another few weeks, and if your period is still coming so often, I would go see your doctor. He/she can give you some medicine to help regulate your period. Also in some cases, girls are put on birth control to help get reqular.
Hope my advice helps!
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15/f. I apologize, this is really long.
Well, I'm beginning (and have already BEEN) to be VERY depressed. And I mean, sometimes for no reason at all. I can't talk to ANYONE. My parents don't understand...and tell me "Oh...don't be ridiculous...there is nothing wrong with you. Everyone passes through this stage". etc. It's driving me nuts. There is too much pressure from school (having to get straight A's or else my parents will EXPLODE), I HATE my friends. They haven't ever done ANYTHING for me. NEVER. They never.......care. :( When I look at them...I see FAKE USERS. They talk crap behind me...which I can prove. I've been cutting myself...and I can't stop. I have NO ONE to talk to and no one to confide in. I don't know if I have some kind of mental illness...but I feel so freaking ALONE in this world. So very lonely. NOBODY and NOTHING ..(LOL) understands me. I feel like an outcast. I'm constantly judged by everything. music tastes, clothes, grades etc. I'm so different. ARGH. I want a therapist and I was wondering (after writing such a long paragraph) if I'm in need of one. :/ Any suggestions? Do therapists actually help? Thanks in advance.
I know exactly what you mean. I feel depressed a lot so I know how you feel. First of all, you need to stop cutting yourself. You might not want to but its for the best. Secondly try talking to your doctor. He or she can definetly tell you if you suffer from depression. And I would look into seeing a therapist. I think its great that you want to get help. A therapist can help you deal with feeling that you feel you cant talk to your parents or friends about. They wont judge you but they can offer suggestions and help. Hope my advice helps! If you ever need to talk just send me a message. Im a great listener.
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i like my best guy friend. but.. i try not to like him because i know who he likes for once, he's my bestfriend[cant ruin that],he doesnt see me in that way, and he goes to me with his problems. i like him lots because he's soo sweet and nice. i need help.
One of my friends is going through a very similar situation right now. All you can do really is tell him how you feel. You honestly can help feeling how you feel. It might be a little awkward at first, but tht will clear. He might even like you bsck but you wont know unless you speak up. Hope my advice helps!
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14/F
okay so i moved here earlier this year, -- i met some friends and through those friends i met my now, best friend, her name is Gina. Over the past couple of months me and Gina have been getting really close and all. Close enough that we have been sharing secrets and stuff. So we realized that we both cut. me more then her..but a few weeks ago she told me i was the only one who knew that she used to have an eating disorder for the past two years and she has had her withdrawels and relapses and stuff.. [you can deff. tell by looking at her that she does] Well now im more cautious of what she eats because i really care about her. The past few days ive been noticing she hasnt been eating or eats very little. today she brought cookies,cheesecurls,a sandwhich and a crunch bar. [her mom packed it.] and she gave away all the junk food leaving her with the sandwhich..she stared at it and threw it away. im really concerned for Gina. shes my best friend and i dont want to lose her and i want her to still feel like she can talk to me. what do i do?
You need to sit down and talk to her. Tell her that you have been noticing her eating habits and that you are worried about her. She will appreciate your concern for her even if she doesn't show it. Good Luck! Hope my advice helps!
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What kind of person would you go to to get help from cutting yourself? I'm talking about prfessional help. What type of procedures would they take. What kind of things would they ask you?
There are therapists that can help. Many hospitals also have people that you can talk to. If you need to find one, look for therapists in the phone book or contact your local hospital for more information, Hope my advice helps!
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I am 15, i think that might help, it might not. Anyway, one day I was talking on the phone with my mom, and I was talking outside. There is nothing wierd or wrong with that, right? Well, to my mom it was, because i like to talk outside a lot because sometimes I dont want my parents to know what i am talking about. Well, that day my mom calle dme on the phone. I told her I was outside and she said, "I hope you're not doing anything you're not supposed to." For my mom, doing something you're not supposed to is drugs or alcohol. I told her I wasn't but right before I got off the phone with her she repeated that statement. Some of you may think it is a silly thing to worry about, but it is for me because I lost some family members due to lung cancer form first and seconde hand smoke. But the thing that made me really mad was that I was on the other line with my friend, who I had only know for two years, and when I told her that she knew I wouldn't do stuff like that. I guess what my question is, is how do I make my mom beleive that I am not smoking?
Your mom might suspect this because she is worried about you. Try not to mention it again. If you keep bringing it up, then she might think you have a guilty conscience. Also if possible, try not to go outside to talk when your mom is home. Maybe you could go to your room or somewhere in your house. If she isn't home though you can go outside. You do have a right to privacy. Hope my advice helps!
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For the first time I tried weed.
i only took one hit though
i did it march 24th 07 and today is April 12th 07
Do you think its still in my system?
p.s. i havent done any drugs since
Yes it will show up on a drug test. Drug tests test for a number of drugs. They do test for it since weed is used a lot.
Unfortunatly yes, It usually stays in your system for about a month. Although because you only did a little bit, it might clear out of your system a few days sooner. Hope my advice helps!
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