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hi my names kristen, i live in nj.
okay i used to be best friends with this girl emily.. she started telling lies and telling people things that arent truem she turned into a real bitch. anyway we havent talked to since january, we've been bff since 4th grade but now we go to different high schools. and now tomorrow shes going to a party i am also going to, what should i do? i mean she completely and totally hates me, and i dont want her to start with me while at my friends party. what should i say to her if i see her? what do i do?
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She definetly doesnt sound like a good person. In the future, just try to avoid her as much as possible. Stick with your real friends. The situation might even blow over. Just give her time. If she wants to be friends again let her come to you. If not then just let her go. You seem like to nice of a person to waste your time with her. If you want to talk, thenlet me know :). Hope I helped you out!!
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I went through something kinda similar to this. Basically, when you see her, completely ignore her. Like, don't look at her or anything, if she comes up to you, and is nice, be nice, but dont be like, really nice, just casual. if shes tottaly mean, then if you dont wanna make a scene, just walk away. if you wanna tell her what you think, then do so. i mean, what type of person is she anyways? the type that is going to stat problems? just try to ignore her and stay away from her.
i hope it works outt. (:
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if she says anything to you like "hey" or "what's up?" just say "hey" or whatever back then just walk away. unless you want to try & work things out with her. then talk to her a little.
but if not, then just don't talk to her. just kidn of act like you don't know she's there. get in a big group of friends & have a good time. maybe she won't notice you.
if she tries to start something with you, just ignore it. be mature about it & don't hurl any insults back. just be like whatever & walk away.
hope that helps. have fun at the party. [:
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Try ignoring her. If she hates you don't worry about talking or starting conversation just stick with your friends. You don't want to be a bitch to her either cause then maybe she'll start stuff and thats not what you want. If she says anything to you just try and not care about it. Before the party just picture anything bad she can do and try and react. Like plan it out in your head. I can't tell yuo what to say back because I don't know what she might say. Just don't say something really mean like something secrect she might have told you. Thats shallow and even if she says something like that to you you shouldn't be as lame as her.
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