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I don't know who I like
OK, I like to of my friends. They are both really nice and sweet, and I am going out with one of them. He is so nice and sweet, and I really love him. But I think I also love my other friend. I can't stop thinking about either of them. I don't know if I should take a brake from going out with the first one or not. I mean, if I had to loose either my life or he lose his, I would rather lose mine. But I also feel this way about the other guy. I don't know, I am just so confused. I love them both, and I know the guy I go out with loves me, but I don't know about the other one. I mean, and this is hard for me to say even though I know it is anonymous, but I am going to try to say it to its full (this might end up getting kind of long). OK, they both used to like each other, and last night I found out that they had seen each other without clothes using their web cams. And I am ok with that; it doesn't affect my relationship with either of them. I just don't know if I like the guy I go out with or the other one. I mean, I have never had any dreams about my boyfriend, but last night I had a dream that me and the other guy were having sex!! And I know that I would never do that. But the thing is I don't know if that means I should continue dating my current boyfriend, or try to go out with the other guy. I honestly love them both, and don't want either of them to ever get hurt. I just don't know anymore. I have so much going on right now that I probably couldn't tell you if the sky is above our heads or below our feet. I just really need some help right now. I would normally talk to my bf or the other guy about this kind of thing, but this time I can't. I think it is also important to mention that I am a guy.
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First of all...Wow. That's really confusing, but one thing caught my attention. You don't know if the other guy like you. Do you really want to chance breaking up with a boyfriend who loves you for someone your not even sure likes you. You said you love them both, but you can't love them the same. (Let me point out it really isn't fair to your boyfriend to feel this way about another guy, while you're dating him, but you can't help who you love right?) Alright....Close your eyes and think....Which guy can you not live without? Which one can you see yourself being with longer? Which one could you give up if you had to give up one? But don't break up with your boyfriend or "take a break" until you're totally sure who you want. Good Luck!
::Jasmine::
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