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Okay, so whenever a couple or a few of my friends get together and do anything, I always get VERY jelous. Like just now three of my friends all had "out for ice cream at kimballs" on their away messages. But it just makes me sooo jelous. What can I do?
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Don't get jelous, try to join in the fun :] Of course I'm not saying invite your self in their plans, but maybe YOU should start the plans and invite everyone else :]
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remember that nobody gets invited all of the time
it dosent mean that they love you any less
maybe try planning your own things, so that you know youll be ithere
but just remember, they still love you the same.
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It's normal to feel a little jealous and left out when these happen.. and it happens to everyone sometimes! Just try to remember that your friends probably aren't leaving you out on purpose; they just happened to be together or make plans with each other this time, but another time you will be included (and perhaps someone else will be left out, but not on purpose.) It's just impossible to do things with ALL your friends at the same time every time, so sometimes people get left out. The best thing to do is keep your feelings to yourself and be cheerful and happy when you see them. That will make them want to invite you next time. If you act mad or pouty about being left out, that will only make people NOT want to be around you.
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Try explaining to them that you feel left out and that you would like to be included in their plans. Also maybe you could try going out with some of your other friends. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny
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