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F/15 wait for me!!
I have a really hard time being independant. When we ask each otehr what should we change about ourselves they always tell me stop being so needy and acting like a little baby. They're not wrong either. I guess being the baby in the family makes you like that? But i hate feeling bad everytime my best friend hangs out with someone else or being self-consious about standing in the lunch line alone or something. I wish i could just be happy on my own. Any help? (this is kinda ironic since im asking others)
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im the baby of my entire family, all the cousins and second cousins, i'm the baby. strangely i think it's made me an independant person. ever since i was little i always did things on my own, im an only child too. i still know what you're going through. i hate being alone on the lunch line or the bus ride home or going into a grocery store or the convenient store alone. i think it depends on the type of person you are. either you're a people person or you get put into the category of unfriendly loners but then you can also be independant and very self confident. i apologize if i sound corny but its 2am when im writing this. i think the key to being independant is forcing yourself to be. stay home alone more often. i like being home alone but i hate when im home alone and quiet, the quiteness makes it seem lonely, so blast some music. cook a meal for yourself, even if you can't cook. start doing things that make you happy. when a friend is hanging out with someone else of course you're going to get a little jealous but thats when you turn the situation around. become your own best friend and im not saying that you should ditch all your friends and sit at home all the time. just slowly start giving yourself "me" time. it'll make you realize there's a time for friends and a time for yourself. don't see "me" time as the time where you're going to be sad because you're alone. think of it as a time to forget the world, forget any drama and just do what you want. there's a difference between needing company and being needy. blasting some good music can help you seem less alone when you are alone. solving problems as your own best friend will make you seem less needy to your other friends. i hope you understand what im trying to say here, like i said its 2am so only half of me knows exactly what im saying but i think you'll catch my drift, if not leave me a message in the inbox and i will answer it more clearly at a more reasonable hour. i hope i helped a little...
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