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::IMPORTANT:: condom broke?? =\ what to do now!
okay well last night my boyfriend and i were having sex... we've been together for almost a year and love each other alot... my mom knows we're sexually active, and is okay with it because she knows we both love each other. okay so we were doing it... and we felt like a pop... so he pulled it out, and sure enough, it was broken. and i don't mean like a little hole, like actually broken- like it snapped and rolled back down his penis. it only went inside of me maybe 2 times (thats what he says, but i don't even think it was in once) and yeah the condom was completely off... it was hanging on to his penis by that little ring. so my period's due in a couple weeks, and i don't know if i should get an emergency contraceptive. my mom says don't; it's not necessary... my boyfriends freaking out, and i really don't know WHAT to do. also, he didn't cum inside of me or at all, but there was precum. i think it broke cause the condom was too small... he did have trouble getting it on. so does anyone know what i should do? THANKS SO MUCHH!!! ♥
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you could take a 'morning after' pill if you are really scared about what happened but i doubt that precum would get you pregnant. you could wait for your period but if anything happened it might be too late
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most likely the condom did break because it was too small. for future reference be sure to always take extra precautions before having sex. for instance, making sure the condom comfortably fits, checking for tears or rips beforehand, making sure it hasn't gotten overheated or out of date, etc. that way you won't have any problems like this in the future.
if you feel taking an emergency contraceptive will make you feel more comfortable or if you feel personally that you may become pregnant, go ahead and take it. it can't hurt anything, in can only help.
also, if your mom is ok with you having sex [mine is also] have her put you on birth control. it's free at the health clinic.
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Just relax! But if you are really stressing over this, visit your doctor. There are pills that you can take in the first 72 hours that can prevent pregnancy. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny
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well im from st.louis and you can go to planned parenthood, and get an abortion , they can give you these pills, or if them don't work you have to get the fetus sucked out of you.
DONT tell me there is no such thing :]] cause i went there and almost had it done myself.
bottom line is there is nothing to worry about , i was just trying to give you good advice , and if you dont like it then up yours :]]]]]
x kaylaa
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Listen to your mom. She's the most experienced person in the situation. Wait for your period-- if it doesn't come, tell your mom and boyfriend, and take a test. Relax, though. Sometimes stress can mess up your cycle, and freak you out more.
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