i like my best guy friend. but.. i try not to like him because i know who he likes for once, he's my bestfriend[cant ruin that],he doesnt see me in that way, and he goes to me with his problems. i like him lots because he's soo sweet and nice. i need help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DepthofHeart answered Saturday April 14 2007, 11:24 pm: Oh, I'm sorry. I know from experiance how much being in your situation can suck. If you're sure that he will never like you that way then you need to get over him. You don't want to pine for a guy who's never going to like you. Plus you're right, if he doesn't like you than you shouldn't ruin your friendship by telling him. It sounds like he's a great friend. Here, read these. On the first one the girl actually has a similar problem:
Good Luck and just try to live your life normally , don't let this bring you down. There are tons of nice, sweet guys and you'll find a guy you like even better one day.
gsngirl7 answered Saturday April 14 2007, 11:22 pm: One of my friends is going through a very similar situation right now. All you can do really is tell him how you feel. You honestly can help feeling how you feel. It might be a little awkward at first, but tht will clear. He might even like you bsck but you wont know unless you speak up. Hope my advice helps! <3 Jenn [ gsngirl7's advice column | Ask gsngirl7 A Question ]
xXxPorschexXx answered Saturday April 14 2007, 11:15 pm: hey
you cant deny true feelings, ive tried and its horrible. But youve got to decide. You should try and think what it would be like with him. Would he treat you the same and come to you with his problems. You could try flirting and seeing what his reaction is and decide then whether it is apropriate to like him or if you would rather saty friends. its really up to you but hes your best friend and would you want to ruin it or would you want to keep what youve got because it sounds awesome. Try and look for other guys to have your eye on. I know it might be hard to start with but it will pay off.
i hope ive helped
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