hey everyone... Im just a girl that loves to give advice...and hopefully im good at it...dont get mad at what i say tho because all I do is tell the truth on how i feel
Gender: Female
Location: Maryland...the best state EVER
Occupation: middle school...it sucks majorly
Member Since: July 23, 2004
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I was doing Capoeira (brazilian karate) and I hurt my leg and it's getting worse. What should I do? (link)
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there's this guy that i've been good friends with since the 2nd grade. but this year we've gotten closer (prob. cause he was dating my best friend for a while) now i seem to be feeling stronger feelings for him. more then friendship. it was a month after i started feeling this way when i told him how i felt. he gave me the "i'd like us to be friends" line. of course, i broke out in tears. and for about two weeks, i cried myself to sleep every night. we still talk normally but idk, i guess i really thought he might actually feel the same. i'm 14/f and i'd like to know what i should do. should i get over him? should i try some things to attract him? -- if so, what? idk...please help me. i'll rate quick!
-Head-over-Heels- (link)
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i think you need to get over him...easier said than done i know...but you probably are better off friendsif you broke up could you really still be friends??? sometimes a friendship is better than a relationship
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my friends and i frequently get headaches at the most inopportune times, upon which we dont have aspirin or anything. what is an effective way to lessen a headache considerably using only your own two hands? (link)
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if you pinch in between your thumb and pointer finger on your left hand there is a pressure point or whatever and its connected to your head and if you pinch it it helps get your headache down...but a simpler way is to just carry medicine in your pocket or purse...
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ok i live in st.louis and like i don't live in the city i live like a half hour away and i was wondering if i live this far from the city why do the girls here only like guys that do drugs and flunk outta school and do just really stupid stuff like that? and is it like this every where else or did i just get screwed into livein here? (link)
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everywhere girls like the "bad boys"
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I look at a lot of the questions and then the answers they get..a lot of them have to do with sex..and a lot of the answers are saying it is okay as long as you use protection and you really "love" them. These are usually teens, like me, too! I agree with having safe sex and stuff but my main concern is the actual action of sex. Sex should be something special you share with the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. At this age, it is very unlikely that you will stay together forever, no matter how well your relationship is going. Are there any people on this site waiting for marriage? Does anyone agree with me?
*Flabbergausted*
i like that word =P (link)
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i deffinitely agree at this age you will probably brake up with the person and then it isnt special at all i am waiting for marriage 100%
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hey i'm 13 years old in a month, and i still havent gotten mi period, and most of myy friends have... i'm kind of skinny, and really short... should i be worried about not getting it yet, or is it normal? (i'm also kind of worried about not getting tall... i'm like 4 foot 10/11)
-short stuff- (link)
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dont be worried about your period you will get it just because your friends have it isnt a big deal...you will get tall also
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Where to begin? I was seeing this girl off and on for 9 months. She was "using" this 55 yr old arab guy for rides and stuff. I didnt condone of the usery but I didnt feel like it was my place to tell her how to live. After about 5 month into the relationship I moved to miami( we are in VA). She came to visit for a week and it was like a honeymoon without the marrige. Everything was great. When she came back she told me she was pregnant. I sent money up there to her and had my friend drive her to the clinic. I sent her flowers everyday for a week afterwards. So I came back home and while we were spending time toghether through much over hearing the wrong conversations I suspected there was more to her and his relationship. I was right. In short the kid wasnt mine and I was being played the whole time. the break up was awful and I am emot. wrecked. I took her back only to find out she didnt give him up. Now my head is spinning and my heart in shattered. Any advice? (link)
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lose her (if you didnt already im not sure)she used you this time she took your money and made you believe you were the father when you werent which is awfulshe obviously doesnt really love you or you would be the only one im sorry to have to tell you that but its true she isnt good enough for you...you need to find a better girl that does love you and nobody else instead of some cheater
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ok, what is the best way to reject a guy without giving the "lets not ruin our friendship" speech and not making them hate you? THANKS :)
annie
xoxoxo
(15, f) (link)
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tell him that you want to just be friends because you feel thats all you should be and thatit would suck if you did break up and hated eachother
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i have recently been going out wit this guy i am totally in love with. he has cheated on me b4 but that was after i broke up with him. The first time we started going out everything was perfect and he told me he loved me and you could really tell he meant it. But we got in a huge arguement and he called me a bitch so i dumped him. He begged and begged me 2 take him bak but i wouldnt. Latley weve been goin out on and off and he cheats on me sumtimes. Is he doing this just to get bak at me or is he just not into me? (link)
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im not sure about that it could be both...but if hes cheating on you you need to lose him he shouldnt be treating you like dirt its not right
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A couple of my friends always tell me that im so gorgeous and they wish they looked like me n stuff... yeah, its flattering but it makes me feel uncomfortable and a lil guilty or something. should i do something? or what can i do so that i wont feel uncomfortable... thank u (link)
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that happened to me toyou can tell them that you dont wont them to keep telling you that and that it bothers you hopefully they will understand and stop
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my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't know if I'm ready what should I do? (link)
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tell him you arent ready if he breaks up with you because of that he wasnt worth it in the first place but if hes fine you know he understands where you are coming from and doesnt care if he has to wait
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im thinkin i want a guy thats a year or two older than i am because that way hes not so immature and hopefully not as prude... but then again.. i dont wanna be made fun of or called a whore for the stupid things ppl will assume.. so i guess i could go for a guy my age.. but isnt it more important what i want then what my friends think... please help! i rate well! x0x0x ~*a*M*y~ (link)
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go for the older guys they are more mature you shouldnt care what other people think just think about what you want...they only problem with the older guys is they might be ready for more then you are...if you get what i mean
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alicia i met some guy online and he's really hot, well i didnt meet him online he's my bestfriends cousin but i dun want to meet him in reallife cuz i dont know wat he'll think of me. im pretty but i dont want him to stop talkin to me becuase he thinks im ugly but im not, im just afraid that he'll tink that and never talk to me again
what should i do?? (link)
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you should meet him if he thinks your ugly, which you are not, and doesnt want to see you im sure hes shallow if he only cares about looks
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my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP (link)
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if you arent ready then dont do it if hes going out with you just to get sex then hes not a good guy so you should dump him he sounds like an ass anyway
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hey heres my problem...whenever i shave my bikini line i get lots of red bumps every where around the area i shaved, someone told me there ingrown hairs, but what can i do about it? I dont want laser hair removal and i really dont want to go get it waxed. Does anybody have any little tricks they want to share so i dont get these little red bumps? (link)
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i get then to and i dont think there really are any tricks to get them to go away...sorry
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hey, im 14 (gunna be 15 in February) and i dont have my period...i know u can get it as late as 16 and not to worry but i have boobs and im pretty developed, could there be anyother reason thats harmful for not getting your period, like having a disease or something? pleas help...ill rate ya good!!! thx (link)
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there arent any diseases and it doesnt really matter what you look like you might just get it later than other people its genetic really my whole famly got it early like at 11 or 12 so i got it at 11 it might be the same for you...ask your mom when she got it and if you have an older sister ask her if you dont know...most likely its a genetic thing not a disease
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I've been dating this guy for over a month now. Not very many people know about us because i know they wont accept us. I really want to tell people, but im afraid of their reaction.
Not many ppl like him cause he smokes pot and stuff like that. I was going to tell my older sister, but she said if its something shes not going to like .. dont tell her...
I sneak out a lot at night to see him. I'm talkin about 11:00 pm or midnight until 3 or 4 am. I dont get much sleep at night, and i have to get up EARLY (5:00am) for work.
What should I do? Should we just go ahead and tell people about us? or should we just keep dating "in the dark" Also, is there any other way we could see each other without being "caught" (link)
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if he smokes pot hes not the best guy to date...but its your choice... if you are going to date him then tell people its not good to keep a secret for a long time
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ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do.. (link)
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deffinitely DO NOT DO IT if your not ready tell him and if breaks up with you then you know hes a jerk if he doesnt and understands then hes an okay guy dont let him convince you to though because thats awful make sure he understands that you arent ready yet...
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My best friend likes this one guy, but secretly I like him, and I think he likes me! I read in her diary, which she let me read, trhat she was mad for him! What can i do! (link)
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tell her you like him 2 and see how he acts around you both and se if he seems like he likes you if he does don't do anything to obvious do discreet flirting and see if he asks you out then ask her if its okay...
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I had sex 5 days ago, and im still bleeding from it. at first i thought maybe it was just my period, so i treated it as that. my period only lasts for 4 days, so i dont think its that.
Is there something i could have had torn during sex that would cause me to bleed this long? (link)
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you might need to go to a doctor to see if anything is wrong...but it might be your period lasting longer than usual
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