Should you thank every individual person that wishes you a happy birthday on Facebook?
No, It would be easier to just update your status with a message like:
Thanks to all my friends who took the time to wish me a happy birthday! I appreciate it very much.
You can, ofcourse, change it up add something more personal or whatever
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Does anyone know how to tell when you are going to get your period? I am 13 and I haven't got my period yet. :( ALL my friends have their periods and I am the only one who doesn't? Why me??
Are you overweight, eat alot, stressed, or depressed? Those can all lead to delayed periods.
Most girls get theres around middle school. Just keep waiting by 15-16 though if you still havn't consult with an adult or doctor!
I know what it is like to weight, i got mine when i was 12, though. It isn't fun once you do!
Just remember to stay active, and exercise. Also eat healthy, and don't smoke or drink or anything. Try to live a stress, and depress free life!
Good Luck
C.D.
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does anyone have any ideas at all for what i could do with my hair. it is over halfway to my elbows and with kind of alot of layers and my bangs are pretty much blended now and my hair has a special wave haha not straight not wavy just weird so i pretty much straighten it every day. its now naturally back to many shades of browns n tinted red i guess? i cant curl it to save my life and dont like ponytails or headbands or hairspray bc im kinda wild haha. i usually wear just the bang area to the side clipped up in a bow or down, what else is there to do?
You could maybey try doing a bump, {like the bump it on televison} just pinch some of your hair, or you bangs if they are long enough and pin it back.
Try parting it mostly on the right side, it is a simple change but makes a big difference.
C.D.
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There's this cute guy I like. The thing is, we're not that close yet. Do you think I should add him on Facebook already or just wait for him to do it or until we're close?
xoxo
Add him for sure! BUT DON'T post abunch of annoying crap on there to impress him! like don't update your status just because you think it will catch his attention. Also don't make comments or push the like button on everything he posts! He will think your annoying and block you. Be cool!
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So I was in this amazing relationship back in July-August and I loved every minute of it. He was an amazing guy that made me happy and I made him happy and everything was perfect in our relationship. Except for the fact that his parents did not like me (mainly his father because he thought I was just using him because I was "too pretty) and his brother who hates me because he thinks I'm a slut. Oh yeah and our classmates don't like us together either. They constantly gossip about me and call me horrible names (mainly girls) because I was dating him. Why did our amazing relationship end you ask? Well because I had enough of the drama and stress that came from our relationship and I ended it and I regretted it ever since. Like to this day I still get butterflies when I pass him in the hallway, in class, etc. I don't know why though :/ I can't stop thinking him either which is weird. I'm zoning out in class because he pops into my head frequently which is crazy right? I'm usually an A student with all AP Classes but lately I've been just out of it :/ So anyone wanna help me out here/give me tips/advice?
LOVE.
u still love him
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is it true that lotion dries out skin the more you use it? because your body thinks it is getting enough moisture that it doesn't need to make any "oil" anymore?
Yes! Only use it when your skin IS dry, not when it is unnessary.
THis is simular to chapstick and lips. Only use it when your lips are dry or they will crack!
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I need to know how much I will lose if I don't eat for a week? I researched it, and most people say 21lbs...I know that it is a dangerous thing but I tend to drink water a lot anyways and maybe eat a K bar ever once and awhile. I'm also trying to fast. is there anything I should know?
Are you crazy? What ignorant jerk told you to loose wait so bad you want to starve yourself?
Starving yourself for a week, even a day is stupid! It throughs your whole system off whack. Makes you irratable, and cranky.
Say good bye to healthy skin! Not to mention oily hair. Stomach pains out the wazoo!
The lack of sugar to your brain causes you to be slow inatentive, and makes it hard to focus! Also you will get serious head aches
YOU WILL LOOSE WEIGHT! But after the 7 days when you do eat again your body won't disgard anything usless for the food you intake! Instead it will be in hibernation preperation. It will store EVERYTHING incase you descide to go for another week without eating.
So if you wanna "starve" yourself because you think you have to, then you already have emotional drama that needs fixing!
I suggest exercise, fruits and veggies.
You could eat Fruits and Veggies only for a week! Garunteed to help you loose weight without lack of nutrition!
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hey , i was wondering if you can help me write an essay on shoplifiting.
--on why shoplifting is not good at all
and second how to make better decisions .
can you please tell me an idea on how to start .thanks
Well one thing you can include is shoplifting jacks up the prices of everything else! Also if it is a small store with few employees, the merchandise stolen can be deducted out of the employees paycheck, and somtimes those people need every penny!
To start out with I would do one of two things, {depending on your personal choice} .
I would either a)put 'shoplifting-' in italics and bold print, then after in just italics the definition of shoplifting.
OR
B) State a shocking fact: FOR EXAMPLE: (not true by the way) 6 out of every 8 shoplifters are sentenced to 20+ years in prison.
Its not only interesting but gets the readers attention.
You could also start out with a question, and end with the answer, i havn't ever done that but it is pretty neat too!
ORGANIZING:
Introduction: Opening statement, grabs the readers attention, gives alittle insight to what is to come in the essay.
Body: Consisting of several paragraphs 3 or more about topics on shoplifting. Each paragraphing a different point to the article.
Conclusion or closing: Ending, restating main idea and making sure topic is stated.
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Im 14 and a guy, i have had 1 gf but i didn't kiss her or anything but hug and i was wondering if first kisses are suppose to be awkwardish?
And is it normal to not kno what to do?
Of course, your not supposed to just auto matically know how to kiss someone! The girl is probley nervous to. In the future you will just look back and laugh about it! It isn't a big deal everyone gets like that !!!
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ok look you guys,,, i really REALLY like this guy but he is 19 yrs old and we just broke up cause of our age differnce and i didnt want to get him in any trouble. But me and him still have a unbreakalbe connection, he still kisses me and everything, and he told his best friend and his best friend told me that he still wants to be with me!! but we both know we cant be 2gether, but we want to know if we should start dating again or not... so if you guys could pleazzz help me out
how old are you?
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hello advicenators.
first of all i havent been on this site in 3 years. and must i say its great to be back.
so i wont get into details because i'm just wondering this in general, what happens when someone you love, as in a best friend, hurts you. they didnt mean to, and you understand that, but what they did hurt you and you start to realize they werent the person you thought they were. i want things to go back to normal but i can't forget what she did to me.
any experiences with a simliar situation? advice?
If they arn't who you thought they were, they can't go back to normal. Because that was never there normal. Look into the future, can you picture your life better, or worse with out that person?
Worse- Forgive them but move on without them
better- Stay friends, forgive and forget, we all have to.
I have had a simular situation! My bff turns out to be hatfull, and judgmental of others. I hate that about her but I can't change it really! I have told her that I am sorry but I can't be friends with a jerk.
She quit. Now though I can always tell when she is judging someone. I hate that! But I live with it beause I don't want to loose her.
:)
C.D.
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Okay so I'm to the point where I just wanna go crazy because I'm SO SICK of people mainly very catty girls hating on other girls just because of how they look. Like I'm a pretty girl and I know it and everyone's all like oh Lexie your so pretty blah blah guys dig you like 24/7 and blah blah all this other crap. I'm like aw you guys are sweet thanks! So I liked this guy and I still do like him and what not but it didn't work out because everyone was like "Dude don't go out with her she seems like a slut" "Dude bang her and then drop off a 100 bucks at the end table when your finished" and you know comments LIKE THAT just piss me off! I'm such a nice person WHO by the way is the least shadiest person at my school seriously. I get called SLUT and all of these other horrible names by girls, guys never take me seriously (like they just think I like to **** and them dump them) which IS NOT TRUE. I've only been in about 3 relationships and I'm 17 ha. So my question is why DO YOU THINK pretty girls ALWAYS get judged before the person judging them gets to know them at least?
Have you ever thoughts why fat girls always get judged?
Anser: they're fat
So why pretty girls get judged?
Answer: pretty
The people judging you are jelous, probley. Maybey they're right, i don't know. I dont' know you personally. But I will give you my opinion.
Eveyrone will look at the flaws in others, with or with out verbally saying them, because it makes them feel like their flaw arn't as bad!
One thing about pretty girls, SOME OF THEM, they are self centered, self absorbed, and shallow. Alot of people take this as something EVERY pretty girl does. Which is where they maket he mistake!
I know its horrible but there isn't truley anything we can do! :(
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Should you ALWAYS listen to your gut feeling? you know, that feeling you get when your doing something wrong and you get a feeling in your tummy, or if you are head over heels in love with a guy and you get butterflys in your stomach?
Why is the gut feeling always right? i dont understand it.
this is random but it just was on my mind =]
Your gut feeling is also called your consiance! You KNOW that it is wrong, even before you do it. That feeling is your own self tell you that you shouldn't do it!
Better to listen to it!
(trust me)
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Okay, so I'm not quite sure how to begin so I will provide you with some background information as well as the actual dilemma. I live with a guy, Tim, who up until a little while ago believed he was gay. My other roommate, Susan, is best friends with me as well as Tim. I was drinking socially with Tim and a friend, Nick, one night and he was joking around about the fact that Tim needed to test out his "am I gay" theory and I needed to get laid, so he suggested with get them both out of the way by having sex with each other. Had we been completely sober I don't think I would have gone along with him, but in the past I had kind of liked him before I found out he was gay and he's a real good friend, so I agreed to it. I found out the next day, that he's had feelings for me the whole time and that's why he was questioning his sexual preference. We dated for about two weeks until Susan completely freaked on us when we told her about our intentions as well as recent events, and she told us she felt really awkward and that she wanted to move out if we were going to continue dating. (She assumed it would end because of her complete convincing that he's gay, and that bi isn't an option) Though one thing I don't understand is that she said she didn’t want us dating because it would make her feel awkward, but didn't want us not to date for her sake because that would also make her awkward; so what were we to do right? Well, we didn't want her to move out because she's our best friend but after less than a week we were feeling very much sexual tension and ended up making-out on the couch one night after seemingly harmless flirting. That was almost a month ago. We have been dating since then and she doesn't know about it. I feel terrible about lying to her, well technically she hasn't asked, but we haven't told her either, so it's as bad as lying about it. I hate not being honest with her, but I guess that's the price I pay for keeping something this huge from your best friend. I mean, I usually talk to her about everything, I just can't tell her about this because it will mean the end of our friendship as well as the end of my and Tim's relationship. I truly value both; is it justified that we keep quiet? I would never risk a friendship over a relationship, but this is two separate friendships that I'd rather not compete against each other because they are both different. I guess what I'm asking is more your opinion rather than what to do, because I think we both know that I'm going to do what I want, which is to remain in the secret relationship. Thank you for your time and opinion.
I am going to give yout he benifit of a doubt and say your a pretty descent guy.
But you have to relize that some girls, like Susan I am guessing, arn't comfortable being around gay men. She may not care you are together, she just may not want to see it! Like in the book the bermudez triangle, you should check it out.
Anyways. I think you should tell her that you and her are best friends, and you hope that will never change. But you also care about Tim, and he is your boyfriend and you like him on a whole other level.
Tell her you want to stay friends! Of course, but you understand if she isn't comfortable, and you will help her look for some where else if she needs help! You wouldn't ever want to make her stay against her own will!
As for you, don't be selfish! Susan moving out gives you space, so you CAN keep each relationship ( friend and love life) seperate! Plus you and Tim can do whatever when your at home, exept if Susan visits, freely! WIthout any hard feelings!
C.D.
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my boyfriend really wants me to sing for him. i hate my voice...like talking and singing...i have kind of a low voice...idk i just flat out hate it. so my singing confidence is really low. he says i could sing with the radio on loud but i don't know what i should sing....any suggestions?
Hi,
I have sort of a lower voice as well. I don't enjoy singing. But one one thing I have notices is that singing a song normally sang by a guy comes easier. My voice doesn't sound as flat. Try metro station, david cook {leave a light on}, or somthing along the lines of those.
-he will love you no matter what you sound like as long as you have the courage to try new things, and not back down!
ps. at the end don't ask him if he liked your singing, because if you did sound bad, he will feel like he has to lie { I bet you don't i am just suggesting in case! :)}
bye
-C.D.
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17/f. My one friend has been kind of mean to me lately and it's pissing me off she always puts me down and she does this to other people to. I'm not sure if she is joking or what
I have a friend like that too! Pain in the... butt.
Well I have desided that she just wants attention/ is self consious. I am not sure about your friend, but mine will find somthing, a flaw, wrong with another person and then make a snotty comment about it! Yet she "sees" herself as perfect.
Well she isn't and I finially told her to stop acting like a pathetic jerk! I am not going to hang out with someone who can only see the week points in others but not herself!
She was pissed. She got over it though and apologized to me. Can you believe it! I relize now I shoulda did it sooner! Other wise you WILL go crazy.
Just tell her.
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I have to write an essay to get into a program at my school. I am normally good at writing, but I have no idea how to start this essay. I am supposed to write about my experience with physical therapy and how i got interested in the field..any ideas? i'm just looking for an opening statement
I love doing essays for scholorships, or anything realing, i am also working on one about John F K.
Anyways if I were you, I'd start out with a statement from either someone you have interviewed or someone you have actually helped and got involved with!
That way its not boring statistics or something someone else might have off the internet! THen you could later on add in some data you have researched!
Good luck!
* ps. don't do what others are going! If you go out on a limb you stand out more*
Hope you get in
C.D.
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i'm looking for a foundation that makes my skin look really healthy and a bit tanner and is oil free because i have really oily skin. does anyone have any suggestions? should i go with a powder or liquid? and what brand and kind be specific please thank youu.
Hi,
This isn't exactly an answer to your question, i am sorry for that. But I just wanted to warn you about Cover Girl. It isn't he best for oily, or blemished skin! I have even tried there aqua foundation, and it just doens't work! I like cover girl. But just not their foundation.
-C.D.
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Ok, here's the problem. A really good friend of mine, Nick, has been in a bad relationship for a while. It is clearly causing him pain and frustration. Friday night, we were watching a movie and eventually started making-out. It lasted about 2 hours. I don't know what to do about it. Should I talk to him? We said it wouldn't be awkward, but I do kind of like him. I'm very confused. What should I do?
clearly this dude has some emotional drama going on that he needs to deal with! Which is why I want to say this loud and clear
DON'T GET INVOLVED... yet.
Being the other girl can be hurtfull and shamefull. Also he can toy with your emotions. If you do like him, which you made clear then tell him.
Say you had a great time friday night, and that he is welcome to come over anytime again, once he is single. Don't be the girl everyone hates. Make your side clear that your not his little rebound girl. That you like him and he can't just get involved with you every now and then no strings attached.
Stick up for yourself and once he is single he is yours.
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Long story short, me and this girl talked all summer, and when she moved back to school I asked her out. She basically said "no" without actually saying no. She told me later that she was having a really hard time getting over her last relationship. It got awkward for a couple weeks but soon we were back to normal and talking and hanging out on a regular basis again. Although the conversations aren't everyday anymore. I even still get signals from her that she may like me, although I totally misread her first signals, so I don't know. Anyway, I feel like I made a lot of mistakes in the situation, but I still consider her one of my better friends, and she initiates a lot of conversations. I'm just so scared that if I bring it up again that she will say no again and our friendship will start to dwindle even more. But at the same time it's killing me to just sit here and do nothing. What should I do or how could I bring this up again?
well honestly I wouldn't ask her again. In stead if I were you I would make more of a "propasition" tell her ( or write her ) that you still have strong feelings for her, and that if she ever descides to persue a relationship with you then thats cool. If not that is alright to because you don't want to loos her, even if it means just being friends.
If you do descide to do this don't get down on your knee or make a big deal about it. ALso don't wait for a reply leave her speachless. That is why i suggested a not. Maybey at the end of the school day or work or whatever slip it in her hand and tell her bye.
ALSO don't sign the card with love or anything corny, just a name would sufice.
Hope she changes her mind you sound like a nice individual
C.D.
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