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Why do pretty girls always get judged?!
Okay so I'm to the point where I just wanna go crazy because I'm SO SICK of people mainly very catty girls hating on other girls just because of how they look. Like I'm a pretty girl and I know it and everyone's all like oh Lexie your so pretty blah blah guys dig you like 24/7 and blah blah all this other crap. I'm like aw you guys are sweet thanks! So I liked this guy and I still do like him and what not but it didn't work out because everyone was like "Dude don't go out with her she seems like a slut" "Dude bang her and then drop off a 100 bucks at the end table when your finished" and you know comments LIKE THAT just piss me off! I'm such a nice person WHO by the way is the least shadiest person at my school seriously. I get called SLUT and all of these other horrible names by girls, guys never take me seriously (like they just think I like to **** and them dump them) which IS NOT TRUE. I've only been in about 3 relationships and I'm 17 ha. So my question is why DO YOU THINK pretty girls ALWAYS get judged before the person judging them gets to know them at least?
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Have you ever thoughts why fat girls always get judged?
Anser: they're fat
So why pretty girls get judged?
Answer: pretty
The people judging you are jelous, probley. Maybey they're right, i don't know. I dont' know you personally. But I will give you my opinion.
Eveyrone will look at the flaws in others, with or with out verbally saying them, because it makes them feel like their flaw arn't as bad!
One thing about pretty girls, SOME OF THEM, they are self centered, self absorbed, and shallow. Alot of people take this as something EVERY pretty girl does. Which is where they maket he mistake!
I know its horrible but there isn't truley anything we can do! :(
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People tear down what threatens them. There is no part of life where this is more prevalent than high school. You aren't alone, everyone gets judged, what they say just changes from person to person.
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Yeah they do, I get it too. I mean not being big-headed or anything, but I'm pretty enough and I have the same problems as you. Some girls think I'm stuck-up without trying to get to know me, and guys never take me seriously. It's like if you're attractive people don't see past it.
But, there's nothing you can do and I agree with the two comments below. Everybody gets judged. There are a hell of a lot of pretty girls out there who probably have the same problem, and there are lots of unattractive girls who get judged, people who get judged by their clothes, people who get judged because they're smart etc.
However you are, you're going to get judged. So just live with it, try to get to know people and get on with it. Also, at least the reason you get judged is a good one. Think about that. You could be worse. & don't worry about the relationship thing, I've only been in one proper relationship and I'm 16. I do think the fact that guys never take me seriously effects this, but not just that.
So yeah, stop worrying about it, ignore people judging you and try to get to know them. Once they get to know you, they'll stop judging you so much.
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i agree with the comment below - everyone gets judged! there's nothing you can do about it, that's life. the best thing to do is show people who you really are & if they want to believe that you are a slut then let them believe it - they aren't worth your time anyways!
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Sure they get judged. So do fat girls, sporty girls, artsy girls, and smart girls.
You have to learn to let it go.
Almost everyone you meet is going to judge you based on your appearance and your behavoir. Those things are the first two clues we have about who a person is. So we judge based on them. Accept it. Move on.
Sometimes it'll be really inappropriate. It absolutely sounds like some of what has been said of you is really mean and nasty. That's not cool. Don't be friends with those people, and let them straight up that they what they say is cruel and untrue, but also, don't let it get to you.
I have to be completely honest with you, if LOTS of people go around and call you a slut, maybe you should take a deep breath and ask yourself what about the way you present yourself reads slutty. I highly doubt it's JUST cause your pretty. There is probably some behavior in that people pick up on as well. It might be as simple as people feeling you many sexual jokes, or it might be that people feel you flirt inappropriately. See how I said it's not what you do? It's what people 'feel' you are doing? Be REALLY honest with yourself: If you don't like this, what steps could you take to make it better?
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