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best friend hurt me, now i dont know what to do
hello advicenators.
first of all i havent been on this site in 3 years. and must i say its great to be back.
so i wont get into details because i'm just wondering this in general, what happens when someone you love, as in a best friend, hurts you. they didnt mean to, and you understand that, but what they did hurt you and you start to realize they werent the person you thought they were. i want things to go back to normal but i can't forget what she did to me.
any experiences with a simliar situation? advice?
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If they arn't who you thought they were, they can't go back to normal. Because that was never there normal. Look into the future, can you picture your life better, or worse with out that person?
Worse- Forgive them but move on without them
better- Stay friends, forgive and forget, we all have to.
I have had a simular situation! My bff turns out to be hatfull, and judgmental of others. I hate that about her but I can't change it really! I have told her that I am sorry but I can't be friends with a jerk.
She quit. Now though I can always tell when she is judging someone. I hate that! But I live with it beause I don't want to loose her.
:)
C.D.
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i haven't been in this situation before, but i can imagine it's difficult for you. how long has it been since the person you cared about hurt you? if it hasn't been very long then chances are you will get over it. things just take time & if you are willing to give them a chance then you should do so. things change & so do people, just give it a try & if you still feel the same in a few months time, maybe you were hurt bad & time can't heal it. good luck <3
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