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Hey people i was wondering could everyone tell me what they think of a 15 year old going out with a 13 year old girl?

tell me ur honest opinions please

hEy gorgeOus! i think its totally fine! 2 years... oMgosh thats nothing! just keep 1 thing in mind... older guys have more expericne and are more mature so dont let them take advantage of you or anything! alot of girls looove older guys! i'm 17 and my last boyfriend was 21! sO... whatever! as long as hes with the 13 year old for the right reasons! and you know what i always say: my parents are 2 years apart! my best friends parents are 6 years apart! bIg dEaL! you dont have to be the same age to be in LoVE! hope i helped ya hUN!
xOxO, aLeX

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im embarrassed to have an orgasm infront of my boyfriend, any helpg etting over the fear?

oMgOsh! i know what you mean! lol! i kind felt stupid at first 2 for some reason... bUt dont be embarrsed! seriously! guys LOVe when they make a girl orgasm... because hmmmM... they know that they are doin a good job! his ego will totally go up! thats what they r tyrin 2 make ya do! dont be embarrsed at all! he'Ll lOve it!
xOxO, aLeX

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im really nervous to have sex with my boyfriend it'll be my first time and i feel really ready cus i really do wanna finally lose my virginity but im not sure sumone please tell me what i should do?!?! thnx

Everybody is sooooo nervous their 1st time! it can be really scary! just make sure that you are completley ready! and make it romantic! make sure your familiar and comfortable with your own body, as well as your partners. Understand the risks of pregnancy and STIs and the best safer sex options for you. (aKa uSe pRoTeCtIoN!!!!!) and enjOy HuNNY!
xOxO, aLeX
(GOOd lUcK!!!!)

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um, i am a virgin and all. and thats kinda the problem. most of my freinds arent virgins, and i get made fun of. even my father had sex when he was like 12. and its driving me practilly INSANE! im sixteen years old, and i "enjoy" myself almost daily. i am speaking the embarassing truth. one of the minor reasong why i bought a computer was so i could look up porn. and i tell myself all the time ill stop "enjoying" myself once i actually have sex. and thats put me at ease for awhile. i mean, other that that i ok, besides sucking my thumb.one time, a prostistute was asking if i wanted a good time, and as sad as it may sound, i was saeiously considering it. and thats when i knew i had issues. so the actual question would be: do i have problems? is this humane? shold i go out and see a shrink? please, this took alot of courage to admit this, so, please,dont judge me.

hEy hUn! oMgOsh! dont even worry! a million other people feel like you! the average age that a teen looses his/her virginity is at age 17 and 50% of high school students have never had sex! so as if it seems like everyone around you has had sex... they really havent! you have to wait! you dont want to have sex just to "have sex" theres not fun in that! you want your first time to be special, romantic and something that you reaaaly want! you dont need a shrink! your 16... your hormones are crazy, so your sex drive will be insanley high! so don't be desperate! dont let your 1st time be with a slut bag hooker! keep, keeping yourself satisfied and time will come when you won't be a virgin! good luck hun!
hope i helped!
xOxO, aLeX

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My mom makes me wear the dumbest clothes! It's so annoying. She's Chinese, and she grew up in a society you get one pair of pants a year. I'm 13, but the kind of clothes I have to wear are like for a ten-year-old! I hate it! Stuff like pink and white striped T shirts and rose-printed shorts and stuff she thinks that are "cute" and "what kids should wear." I H-A-T-E pastels!

Stuff like this:
http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=sc_pgc_r_6_0_13142261/601-1335553-9076132?%5Fencoding=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B0007KQZ3Y

http://store.nordstrom.com/product/product_brandboutique.asp?styleid=2866100&boutique=roxy&category=2379292~2380331~2379796~2384475&NextStyleID=2866090&PrevStyleID=2866103
(COPY and PASTE)

Ive tried talking to her, but she never changes her mind. When I show her my kind of stuff, she wrinkles her nose.
On the other hand, I like stuff like Converse shoes, torn jeans, tyedye stuff like that. People never take me seriously! What should I do and where can I get some good jeans?

HaHa! those are cute! but definately not for a 13 year old girl! your old enough now, where you should be picking out your own clothes! you say you've tried talking to her before, but was it maturley talking?! sometimes when i get pissed at my parents... all i do is scream and that makes me never get my way! make sure she undestands that your not a little baby anYmore! as much as she thinks you still are! talk to her from adult~adult. tell her that your old enough to wear what you want, and obviously you guys dont have the same tastes. or find something you both agree on... as hard as you think that seems, i'm sure she'd like something! or earn $ and buy your own stuff! babysit! but i would suggest calmly talking to her! some places for good jeans since you like destroyed denim... hollister, abercrombie, ae! anywhere! good luck huN!
xOxO, aLeX

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What is a gemini vegitarian? I heard it in legally blonde! I am not good at spelling sorry lol!! Thx.!

&hearts GRACiEEEEEE


i RATE 5'S! ♥

I am not blonde, but I am a Gemini vegetarian.
hahaha i lOove tHaT mOvie!
actually i am a gemini (may 28th!!!!!) and i have never eaten mEaT! haha sooo i guess thats me! They use it as a joke because Gemini's have some mighty strange eating habits...!
haha weird hUh?! hOpe I heLped!
xOxO, aLeX

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Hey everyone. Well over the summer I started wearing makeup everyday, but my mom said that once I go back to school she doesnt want me to be wearing makeup everyday. Does anyone have any ideas to make myself look prettier besides wearing makeup. And for the guys out there, if im 13/f and wore makeup everyday..what would be your opinions on that? Thanks! I'll rate!

HeY hUN! well makeup or no makeup... i'm sure your still gorgeous! but... just always dress to kill (aKa hOt!) accecroize well and make sure your hair looks fab! maybe you can negotiate with your mom about the makeup thing too! like just some lipgloss and a little mascera! good luck Babe!
xOxO, aLeX

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I was wondering can anyone give me advice on the proper tecnique of making out? Because me and my boyfriend wanna makeout on the 22nd. I want it to be romantic and special. Its his first time and mine. Help me out please. I rate 5's for good answers but 1's for stupid ones.

aWw! how sweet! good luck hUN! hErEs sOme tIps!
1. Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.
2. Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
3. Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
4. Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.
5. In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.
6. Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.
7. Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.
8. If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
9. As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
10. Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.

Tips:
*Don't forget to breathe.
*Since French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.
*If one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.
*If both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.
*French Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!
hAHA! gOOd lUck BABe!
xOxO, aLeX

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Im starting High School in 10 days. Im excited/nervous but whatever. Does anybody know any school supplies that will be needed? Or could anybody recommend school supplies i should have? Except for pens,notebooks and a backpack because i already have those things?

hEy hUn!! well honeslty.... thats pretty much all you do need in high school! when you get to your classes on the first couple of days... the techers will definataly tell you what you need! some also helpful things are folders, loose leaf binders, loose leaf paper, a calculator, and a planner to write down all your assignments in! but your teachers will let you know the essentials! good luck with starting high school! iTs awesome! i promise!
xOxO, aLeX

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Is it abnormal for a guy to like Full House? Like, from the first season to the end, having seen nearly every episode? I've only seen one other guy who watches it, so I don't know whether it's something to discuss... thanks. And if the answer is no, please don't me a smartass about it. I know that I may be metro. I don't care.

hELL nO! jUsT sAY yOU wAtch it for the sExY olsen twins! haha and your not the only guy i know that likes it... one of my best guy friends lOve that show! along with the OC, laguna beach, 7th heaven.. haha just depending on your tatses!
xOxO, aLeX

mMmm k... i was kidding... you didnt have 2 rate me a one... your obviously GAY then... cause why else would you watch that show?! www.gay.com
go tHeRE! maybe they can help u out better!

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Hey there! How do you become less addicted to the computer and the internet! Hehe, its really weird because even when I have so much things to do, I still find myself on the computer and wasting time. What to do?

Find other things to keep yourself occupied! haha you can spend hours on the computer... just think.. theres billions of websites,and you can talk to your friends on a computer, you can do aNYThInG oN iT! so i can see how its totally addicting to some! bUt hUn.. like i said before, do things to keep ya bUsY! whatever your intrested in! in 7th grade, i was like totally in lovw with my computer, i was on it forever! so my mom set an hour limit a day for me to be on it! and that totally worked! not saying you have to do tHaT! bUt whatever! good lucK doLL!
xOxO, aLeX

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ok im looking on oldnavy.com and i want to get a turquoise cord blazer ..im wondering what kind of pants to wear with it?

http://www.oldnavy.com/asp/product.asp?:=l&wpid=325098&wdid=2000055

light ripped jeans would look totally sEXY!
xOxO, aLeX

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how do you get a guy's attention? I'm also really shy .. so any tips on not being.....so shy? haha. Thanks much!

be yourself hUnNY! i know thats not very orignal.. but seriously it totally true! if you act like somebody else... hMMM! thats not gonna get him! also be more outgoing! and ask questions about him! instaed of telling hIm your life story... people are very comfortable talking about themselves! be flirty and dont make yourslef 2 avaliable! if you know what i mean! and short skirts and low shirts definately heLP! hAHA! good lucK bABY!
xOxO, aLeX

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how would one overcome an addiction to pornography and masturbation?

(i have this friend, see...)

17.male

hmm... i\'m a nymph! haha! so i kinda get where your comin from! haha! haha! but find other things 2 do! even though porn and masturbation is totally normal! just think of other things 2 do! like for exaplme... get together with friends, play sports etc... if it totally gets out of control then... embarresing as it is... you could need help! good luck hun!
xoxo, alex

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does hollister have a website? i've tried everything and can't seem to find it. thanks.

www.hollisterco.com

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what is the best product to use on acne?

definately see your dermatoligist and she will tell you what kind of product is best for your skin! but otherwise... definately proactiv! i have used that for 2 years and my skin has been almost flawless from it! its kinda pricy... but sooo worth it! if your looking for drugstore products... then i love biores line of stuff!!! they have sooo many different products for all types of skiN! good luck hUN!
xOxO, aLeX

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Any ideas or things i could do to meet new people?

www.myspace.com haha seriously you meet a ton of people from that! lOl!
or go to the mall, get a job, during school join a ton of clubs, meet your friends friends and your friends friends friends..... eTc! haha! be super nice to everyone and totally be yourself and then everyone will be concerned about meeting you!

xOxO, aLeX

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Is it weird for an African-American girl to say things like "Dude", "Narley", "Hot", etc.?

definately not! theres not words that only certain races can say! seriously i think thats so stupid! so say what ya want giRL! tHaT wOuld bE hOT aNd nArLeY! hAHHA!
xOxO, aLeX

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I am bored out of my mind I've been at the computer for hours mostly because i'm waiting for this guy to sign on but he wont and I have nothing else to do besides this and watching tv im SO bored please give me ideas!!

hEY! well if you cant drive... it kinda sucks cause you cant go to the mall, or anything! which i'm guessing you can't drive otherwise you'd probably be gone! but call a friend, start a book, make a scrapbook, talk on the phone, write a letter to an old friend, clean/organize your room, hang with a sibling (if you have any) work out, bake something, make a list of school clothes you want eTc... hMm! sorry if those werent very good! but it sux if you can't drive! and dont wait around for that guy! he may never sign on! dO sOmtHIN cHICA!
xOxO, aLeX

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my boyfriend and i have been together for about 1 year and we're ready to have sex. how can we loosen each other up to prepare?

signed:
ready

age 19

if you mean loosen up like YOU getting loose.. then have him finger you, or masturbate youself.. but if you mean loosen up, like you guys not being so nervous... make sure you guys do it in a place where you both feel comfortable! make sure theres gonna be no parents walking in or no uncomfortable places! and make sure you guys do it on a day when your both ready! make it romantic! i totally regret my 1st time, because it was in some weird bedroom! but make it memorable! good luck doLL!
xOxo, aleX

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