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im really nervous to have sex with my boyfriend it'll be my first time and i feel really ready cus i really do wanna finally lose my virginity but im not sure sumone please tell me what i should do?!?! thnx
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If you aren't going to do this because you love him, then you aren't ready, your virginity could wait till you feel it is absalutly ok to do it if your boyfriend feel the same, how do you know he is ready ? hope i helped.
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if your only feeling ready because your anxious to lose your virginity, than your not truly ready. your first time shouldnt be something really planned.. just when the moments right and you know for sure you're ready. i hope i helped<3
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Everybody is sooooo nervous their 1st time! it can be really scary! just make sure that you are completley ready! and make it romantic! make sure your familiar and comfortable with your own body, as well as your partners. Understand the risks of pregnancy and STIs and the best safer sex options for you. (aKa uSe pRoTeCtIoN!!!!!) and enjOy HuNNY!
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(GOOd lUcK!!!!)
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well if your nervous to share your body with him, your not "ready" know what i mean? same goes for people that cant talk to their partners about getting tested...if you cant openly talk about these things, your not ready to do the deed. thats just my opinion. you will be nervous especially if your not ready, keep that in mind. theres no rush and you can do other things besides sex to show that you love each other. hope it all works out for you!! <3
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Hey Hun! Its mostly your decesion when your ready. If you feel like your ready and if you care for the guy I say go for it. But if your not sure then dont do it until you are definatly sure.
Hope I Helped!
Brittany
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Think about this...
Does he tell you he loves or does he do thinks to show you?
Do you love him?
Do you trust him?
Are you ready to deal with possible teen pregnancy and STDS?
Do you have percautions like protection?
Are you going to tell your parents?
Are ready for a possible reputation?
Are you ready for the responsibilities?
If you are than do it with him. If you arent than he will wait if he loves you.
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Well you say your really sure.. But if your having sex with him to just lose your virginity and not cause you love this guy then your having sex for the wrong reasons..
If you are having sex with him cause you LOVE him then being nervous is normal.. trust me i was nervous as can be when i was going to lose my virginity.. but he took it slow and everything our first time like i hoped for.. so tell you boyfriend how you want it to be your first time.. ♥ Dez
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if your nervous and questioning yourself your deffinitly not ready. you should want to do it with out any doubts or any hesistation. it seems to me like your kind of pushing yourself to do it because you want to lose your virginity. i personally dont think your ready but if you do decide to do it. get tested and use protection. and just remember DONT do anything you dont want to!
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i think that your not ready to have sex! if your questioning it then you need a little bit longer, dont lose your vaginity in a rush because most people end up regretting it in the end... remeber it is illegal to have sex under the age of 16 and always use protection!! hope i helped x
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