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my boyfriend and i have been together for about 1 year and we're ready to have sex. how can we loosen each other up to prepare?
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talk about having sex before you do it that will make you both aware that you want to so you will be ready
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if you mean loosen up like YOU getting loose.. then have him finger you, or masturbate youself.. but if you mean loosen up, like you guys not being so nervous... make sure you guys do it in a place where you both feel comfortable! make sure theres gonna be no parents walking in or no uncomfortable places! and make sure you guys do it on a day when your both ready! make it romantic! i totally regret my 1st time, because it was in some weird bedroom! but make it memorable! good luck doLL!
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Well foreplay is very important. if you want maybe set a romantic setting..candles..soft music if you want..rose petals on the bed if you want to go that far. have protection and lubricants (lubircant is optional) and talk romantic / dirty to her if you want. kiss her softly..take it slow..pleasure her with oral sex and/or fingering her..she can please you back with oral sex and/or handjob.
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awww... you sound about ready! try fingering yourself or having your boyfriend finger you. lubricants are also a good help. just remember to get tested. and wear a condom AND be on the pill!
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do other sexual things (like mutual masturbation/oral) before then to get yourselves ready. talk about it, get tested and pick protection. hope that helps! <3
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