15/f.
this kid, told my friend, that he wants to kill all the people that are mean to him in school. and he tried to buy a gun, but he like couldn't. or something. but he wants to kill all the mean people there. he said, "all the people that just even look at me wrong, i want to kill them." and now im scared. i mean i'm not sure how serious he was. because he is veryyy emotional. like he has major mood swings. but i just don't wanna walk into school one day, and hes having an off day, and die for it. you know? and hes like, well it doesnt matter. because the most that will happen to me is ill get 25 years in jail. and thats not a big deal.
so i dont know. what should i do!? :/ should i tell someone? or just let it go.. and risk it?
If you let this go you could be putting not only your life but other lifes in danger or at risk. If something were to really happen you'd have to live with a guilty conscience because you knew he or she was planning on doing this. Go to the principle or guidance councelor even your parents and tell them about this persons plans this is a serious act and should be taken serious with so many school shootings these days anyone who mentions the word "bomb" or who "jokingly" says they will shoot or bomb the school will get into serious trouble for putting peoples lifes in danger. You could remain confident if you want he or she does not have to know you were the one who told . Don't be dumb and ignore this you could help stop this. Hope I helped.
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Okay you know when people say that they will W4W, PC4PC, & C4C
ok i know what w4w & pc4pc means, but what does c4c mean? chat 4 chat?
i don't get it...
Pc4pc= pic comment 4 pic comment
w4w=whore train 4 whore train
Sp4sp= spam 4 spam
C4c= comment 4 comment
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well you know how if someone you know/you're having suicidal thoughts you should tell someone or call that hotline or whatever? well is it really that necessary? i myself on occasion have suicidal thoughts/feelings and if somebody did that to me i would honestly feel betrayed and i think it would be completely unnecessary. i'm not a doctor, so i guess i would not know for sure. but if i'm having or sometimes have thoughts about suicide is it really that big of a deal that needs immediate attention? like i don't think about it all the time only occasionally..
Suicide thoughts lead to depression which then leads to suicide.
If you are having suicide thoughts I would strongly suggest that you get help from an adult or a trusted friend or anyone you might feel comfortable talking to. Suicides IS a big deal and shouldn't be something people do. Once you commit suicide there is NO COMING BACK. It leads to death. If a friend rats you out to an adult it isn't betraying you or backstabbing you.....That person is actually a gOod friend because they are trying to help you because they care for you that much. A good friend wouldn't leave you there to commit suicide knowing they wouldn't see you again. Just think about it suicide is not the answer.
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I need help making a new screen name for aim. My name is Jasmine. I would like to have something about my name in it. If you have any ideas please share them.
xjasminex
O0xjasmin3
xO0jasmine
xll jasmine
MiizJasminexO0
Jasmine x3
iix3jasmine
Jasminex3u
JasminexO0x
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how do you get over a guy who dumped you?
15/f
Move on and don't think about him try finding a hobby to keep your mind off of him get your friends to hang out or just find some one new and start talking ! it'll take some time to get through a breakup but just keep your mind off of the topic and try to move on.
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Well my guy friend lets name him Tim well i asked Tim if he had any secrets and he said yes and he told me he wanted to tell me face to face on Saturday and i did the whole no tell me now blah he told my friend aswell i'll tell you the convo's with me and him and me and my friend lets call her sara
Me-give me a clue
Tim-Nop cause you'll know right away
Me-Is it funny ?
Tim-I hope not cause then i'll get embarrassed lol
Me-Arghh ! Saturday !
Now me and my other friend
Lily-Hii Tim is so hott YUMM ! he's perfect would you ever go out with him
Me-I duno
Lily-What would you say if he asked you out
Me-Yeh i guess
anyone havea clue on the secret xS
It looks to me as though he's going to ask you out face to face on saturday it all fitts in like a puzzle lol if your friend is asking you the "if he" questions right after finding out what his secret is then mostly likely its because his secret is that he likes you and is going to ask you out.
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is there any way to get rid of an annoying friend?
Try doing it in a way that won't hurt there feelings because the last thing you want is to have someone hate you for it. You could try coming forward and straight up to the person and just let them know how they act and how its getting out of hand (annoying) or try keeping it hi and bye with them and just walk away.
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so i'm not really sure if my best friend Shelby is telling me the truth. last week, she got an eye infection or something and she said it really hurt so she needed to go to the doctors 2 days later. well when shelby came back from the doctors she told me that she was going blind from a viral infection. so i was freaking out and crying and stuff because i felt so bad for my bff and kept thinking "why is this happening to her? she's only 17." but like, i started doubting her story because she can be overdramatic at times and has told me little lies before, and i'm kinda wondering if she's telling the truth. i mean, she's still in school, she's still playing soccer, she can obviously read/write, she's only been to the doctors once and he only gave her eyedrops, and she's not freaking out half as much as i am. i even asked my dad about it and he was like "if she was going blind she'd be seeing a bunch of specialists and stuff" so i'm wondering if she's telling the truth. wouldn't a girl who was going blind be at the hospital or a specialist if there was even a risk of that? plus, pinkeye is going around my school right now. of course i have to give her the benefit of the doubt b/c she's my bff, why would she lie to me? but i don't know. so yeah, does anyone else think her story is kinda fake sounding?... should i be worried about my best friend's health or do you think she's lying?
Sounds to me like your friend is asking for a little too much attention from you and others. Why don't you try talking to her parents you could say something to them like "ohh (her name) told me what she's going thru with her partially blindness in one eye and I just wanted to say I'm truly sorry and I'm always here for her if she ever needs a friend" if she's lying (I don't know her parents or her ) but I don't think they'd lie to cover up her silly made up story if she's lying but if she isn't then they'd probably say something like "ohh that is verry sweet of you we are so glad our daughter has such a sweet and caring friend bla bla bla" lol but yea I'd try it or atleast try tlkn to her about it
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My Kitten seems to like wet food better than dry food. My question is how can you get a cat to eat dry food. Because right now with our budget, we cant afford wet food. x.x Any advice?
Try giving it both wet and dry food like put both wet and dry food in its bowl and it'll most likely start eating it because of the wet food then when you notice that it has aten both the wet and dry food little by little each day remove some of the wet foods and start putting more of the dried food I hope this doesn't sound confusing but yea I hope I helped !
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ok so my name is brittany and i am 13.. my bestfriends name is kayla and she is 13 as well.. the guy she is datings name is grey and he is 16. ok well she said she is inlove with him and he said he is inlove with her.. but what they both dont know is im inlove with him. i cant get him out of my head and i feel so much for him... they have been going out now for about 2 months and havent even had one fight yet. now every site i go on to get advice about this gives me the same answer.. like "you have to move on to other guys" "your to young for him anyway" "healing takes time" i dont want to tell him that i like him cause i dont want to get shot down. and i love kayla to death and dont want to hurt her.. but i CANT help my feelings.. do you think they will be together for a long time.. like get married? knowing that they are young ..do you think they will move on to other people? i REALLY need to know what i should do.. do i have a chance with him at all? like if i cry and tell him or if i cry in the rain and tell him then i run off... do you think i have a chance? i dont think i do at all... I REALLY NEED ADVICE
To love someone is to spend the rest of your life with that one person so no you don't love this boy you just have strong feelings towards him. You say you love your friend kayla but to love her you'd respect her and her boyfriend although you can't help feelings you have to let your friend be happy too she must really like this boy and he must really like her also you can't do anything about it ....breaking them up or making them fight would be so low and really fucked up how would you feel if your best friend made you and your boyfriend break up? Exactly there's really nothing you could do except wait and no I doubt they'll get married at this age besides she's too young and they've only been going out for two months (by what you said) but they could last a bit longer who knows everyones relationships are diffrent but even if they do end up breaking up you have to still talk to your friend kayla about how she would feel if you went out with her then ex and you'd have to tell him how you feel and see what happens from then remember you can't force someone to like you and don't fight over a boy they aint worth it anyways good luck and I hope it works out for you
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13/f
i straighten my hair every other day because theres nothing else to do with it. my dad & mom found out that they did, told me i couldnt do it anymore because it damaged my hair. so they took my straighteners away. honestly, ive talked to them SO many times about my hair being straightened. they said i can't ever do it again. so i have no clue what to do with my hair. it looks bad natural and i need to straighten my side bangs, but no i cant do it. they hid my straighteners 2 times, i found them and used them, and they found out again and threw them out. honestly i have nothing else to do with my hair. it looks so shitty you have no clue. please help me, no curling, scrunching, braiding, buns, pigtails, ponytail, anything like that. im going crazy i have no clue what to do.
Try and bargain with your parens make deals with them about how you'll do this if they give you your straightners back and how you'll promise them not to use them a lot only on weekends. Why don't you make your mom pick the days you can straighten your hair? That way you'll show her you care enough to work this way. You know there are hair products you could buy to fix damaged hair and you can use them while straightning your hair . Google hair products on damaged hair and show your parents
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does anyone know why people cant fall asleep if they have a concusion?
itll cause amnesia which can make you loose memory once you wake up .some people fall asleep and once they wake up they forget a lot of memory .
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13/f
My dog just died. I' mreally sad. I feel funny inside too. I don't know what to do. I don't want to forget him, but I feel hurt. Like someone justkicked me in the stomach. My question is: Where was God? Hm? Answer that? Where was Mr. Hig hand Mighty?! Answer that!
--Izzy Uchiha! T/_\T
I'm sorry for your lost and I understand why your so upset with god but god isn't to blame for y your pet passed away.
Every one and everything has to pass away its the way of life and when we pass away we either go with god to heaven or burn in hell. Your dog was taken away to a better place he was taken for a purpose so that he could rest peacefully although it hurts to deal with the fact that (he/she sorry you didn't state what it was) is gone you'll understand.
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so, me and this girl used to be friends, but now we hate eachother. like really badly. And she always fights with me (even now) about the stupidest shit. Well, today, she talked shit behind my back.......and she thought I was doing something similar, but I wasn't.
My question is : what's the best thing to do? Confront or just ignore and leave them alone no matter how upset you are?
You could actually do both. Confront and ignore. Try confronting her about it FACE TO FACE not over myspace or aim and just let her know that your over the whole situation and that you just don't care anymore convince her enough to believe your really not stooping down to her level by doing what she's doing. You could say something like "hey what ever happnd the other day I'm over it I don't know if you are but I am and just to let you know I'm not talking shitt behind your back" and then just listen to what she has to say (if she does have something to say)
If not simply walk away .you can start ignoring from that day on.
Atleast you got what you had to say to her out and you were completely mature enough to confront your problem.
Hope I helped! =]
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This new guy just started going to my school, and he's in a few of my friend's classes. from what they tell me, he's really cute, nice, and not arrogant like all the guys in my school. I really want to at least meet him, but i can't think of a way to start a conversation. I would have to go way out of my way to talk to him, so i don't want it to be obvious that i made it a point to meet him. help? And i'm not just gonna go up to him and say "hi, i'm so-and-so," so please don't say to. i won't rate you very high. sorry!
Try having one of your friends who's already met him introduce the both of you so this way he won't think you tried hard to get him to notice you.
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So, I have this shirt that's a bit too small on me, and I can't throw it away! It's just too precious. What should I do? I don't want to cut out the image and sew it onto another shirt, because that usually looks bad, and I don't want to add fabric, because that would look weird, and lastly, I don't want to add it to the back of a sweater, because it would ruin the specialness of the shirt.
WHAT DO I DO!?!?
You can hang it up on your bedroom wall that way you can look at it every time you walk in your room or make something special of it to keep forever.
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I used to like this guy. Lets call him B. I stopped liking him ever since I realized how much of a jerk he was.
This was our convo on AIM:
him (7:59:31 PM): be my new princess
me (7:59:18 PM): maybe
him (8:00:14 PM): please
him (8:00:17 PM): i'll be good!
me (8:00:11 PM): hmm
him(8:01:16 PM): pleeeeeeease
me (8:01:22 PM): we'll see
him (8:02:05 PM): please
him (8:03:18 PM): what do i have to do to make you my princess?
me (8:03:23 PM): be good
PHM1248 (8:03:56 PM): how so?
me (8:03:34 PM): why do you want me to be your princess? :P
him (8:04:06 PM): because
him (8:04:10 PM): you are princess material
me (8:03:49 PM): whats that supposed to mean
him(8:04:22 PM): it means
him(8:04:25 PM): your a keeper
me (8:04:07 PM): aww
him (8:04:41 PM): its true!
me (8:05:44 PM): :]
him (8:06:22 PM): pleaase
me (8:05:58 PM): maybe
me (8:05:59 PM): we'll see
him (8:06:43 PM): if im good
me(8:06:21 PM): stop asking
him (8:07:19): new topic
me: yes please
him: ummm... ily?
me: no you don't
him: thats it your getting a hug on monday
Does he still like me?
Yes lol he's clearly trying to flirt with you
Aww its kinda cute =)
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If I were to go to guidance and tell them I cut and wanted help what would they do other than call my mom.
Who else would they call and what would happen. Its not gashes but its getting worse.
They'd call DSS (social services) and they'd get your parents involved....
You see guidance councelors have to get a report an abuse or bruises cutts etc. Because its there duty as a guidance councelor to make sure everyone in your school is safe. My advice would be just come out straight forward about it to your parents and if you feel you can't go to your parents go to some one you trust like an aunt? Or cousin? Just tell some one.
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whats the worst time to flush a toilet when someone is taking a shower? in the middle or beginning? :(
Actually both
If you turn on the shower and flush the toilet the showers water will come out hot and slowly turn back to cold
But if you flush the toilet in the middle of someones shower the water will go from cold to hot!
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He broke up with me 3 times, first he broke up with me because he HEARD a rumor that i wanted to break up with him but she couldnt so he broke up with her, so when he found out it wasnt true that i wanted to brake up with him so wegot back together and 2nd time was he broke up with me again because he doesnt have feelings for me because he liked someone else when we were going out but he didnt wanna tell me because he was scared that im gonna hate him, but after that we still talk to each other a lot and he asked me if i had feelings for him and i said yes and he did too and he asked me out after that but then he said he wants to keep the relationship a secret because he didnt want people to know and its annoying when people asks about it so we went out AGAIN for 4 DAYS and he broke up with me again because he was confused and didnt know what to do and i told him not to talk to me for a while but he still does and after that he asked me to move on and stuff he gave me advice about moving on but then he asked me to call me and i told him no because im gonna fall in love with him again and he says"who knows maybe we could start over again" and im confused because hes the one told me to move on but now hes saying this, this is his 4th chance and my friend told me not to because she doesnt want me to get hurt and stuff but i really dont know what to do what do you guys think?
This kids DESPERATE don't fall for his little games hunn he's only doing it because he sees that everytime he asks you out u gladly run to his arms ...since he can't any other girl he goes to you to feel loved when in reality he's just desperate and wanting attention when that's exactly what your doing
So the next time he asks you say NO I'VE MOVED ON show him that you don't need him nor want him this will teach him how to not toy around with you anymore.
Hope I helped =)
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