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the new guy
This new guy just started going to my school, and he's in a few of my friend's classes. from what they tell me, he's really cute, nice, and not arrogant like all the guys in my school. I really want to at least meet him, but i can't think of a way to start a conversation. I would have to go way out of my way to talk to him, so i don't want it to be obvious that i made it a point to meet him. help? And i'm not just gonna go up to him and say "hi, i'm so-and-so," so please don't say to. i won't rate you very high. sorry!
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As long as I don't care about ratings as it is, go up to him and say 'Hi! I'm so-and-so!'.
It's not that hard. I'm like the shyest person in the world, and I can do it. Because, remember, once you say it, and he responds, it's only going to get easier. Just introduce yourself, confidently, and you'll see what I mean.
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Try having one of your friends who's already met him introduce the both of you so this way he won't think you tried hard to get him to notice you.
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ok so your kind of shy just think of what your going to say first then go up to him and say hey i like your shirt[or somthing hes wearing]and then if hes human hell complement you back!!!!!!
chira
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i know it would be awkward for you to just say "hi.." so lets think of some other options..
- do your friends have lunch with him? if so..you could plan with your friends to stop by the lunch room to say hi and give them a notebook they "forgot." when you give them the notebook or say hi..your friends will introduce you to him and then maybe have your friends suggest you all hang out this weekend.
-does he have myspace/aim? if so, maybe find him on myspace and add him. tell him in a myspace message your friends have a couple classes with him..start a casual convo about where hes from, etc. i know this idea isnt what you were looking for..but a lot of people feel much more comfortable talking to a crush online..so maybe you would like this idea;
-if you dont like that idea..have your friends invite him out to the movies,mall,a football game, etc sometime *and of course you come as well*.this way, pressure isnt put on you in an akward situation to make a convo. i think if your friends invite him to hang out you guys will start convos and get to know each other easier.
good luck with everything and i hope you liked my ideas? if not..please write back to me and ask me for more suggestions!
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