i don't care what catagory, but plz read, it's death problem
Question Posted Sunday September 9 2007, 11:40 am
13/f
My dog just died. I' mreally sad. I feel funny inside too. I don't know what to do. I don't want to forget him, but I feel hurt. Like someone justkicked me in the stomach. My question is: Where was God? Hm? Answer that? Where was Mr. Hig hand Mighty?! Answer that!
Savana answered Monday September 10 2007, 6:24 pm: iam really sorry about your dog.
I have never lost a pet but i have lost a few familey members. this is what you do you take one step at a time and try to get through the pain. the hurt of losing someone you love will never go completly away but it will get bearable. And for the question of where was god, he was right there with you and still is.For whatever reasson your dog had to leave this earth, but he went to a better place. but just rember all the good times you shared together. And if you need a freind god is always there through the pain and the joy. [ Savana's advice column | Ask Savana A Question ]
cOws_in_yOur_tuba answered Monday September 10 2007, 6:22 pm: You didn't say how old your dog was or how it happened, so please forgive me if my advice isn't accurate.
First off, I am so sorry about your dog. I know how you feel because my dog died a few years ago, too. And incidentally, I also did the same thing by asking for help on advicenators. My dog was only 7 and it really came as a shock. We don't even know how it happened.
I believe that everything happens for a reason. In the case with my dog, we went looking for another one a month later. Not to replace her, but because we needed a new friend. As it turned out, we ended up getting a dog (who was also 7) who would have been killed if we hadn't got her. She couldn't breed anymore and the breeders were going to put her to sleep. So I believe that the reason my dog died so young was to save another. I hope that in time, you find a reason for your dog's death.
So where was God? Probably with your dog when it died, comforting it. Like I said, everything happens for a reason. God didn't just kill your dog to make you upset. And I'm sure if you pray to him each night, even just to talk about what happened, you will feel better.
I know you're very hurt right now. Believe me, I cried all the time for like a week after my dog died. My advice is just to let it out. Cry. A lot. You'll feel better when it's over. And in time, you won't feel the pain anymore, just the good memories. You don't have to worry about forgetting your dog. As long as you keep him/her in your heart, they'll never be gone. Put pictures of your dog up to look at whenever you want. I promise that in a couple months, you won't be so hurt anymore. It just takes time.
I hope this helped at least a little. And I know exactly how you feel, so if you need to talk more, let me know. :]
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