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I Need Advice Quick!
Okay I have been dating the same guy for 1 year & 3 months. I'm 18 & he is 20. We didn't have sex until 1 day after our 8 month anniversary. When we have sex he always aims to go for my butt instead of the other. Not only that but he always talks baby talk, I mean I know it may be our thing but whatever. If you really think about it at our age thats just weird. Okay here is the thing. It has been 2 almost 3 months since the last time we have had sex the right way. I bug him about it every now & then but not until it really bugs me. Well he had spent the night the other night after he had got off work, his parents were out of town so thats the only way he could stay the night, which is odd, because he is 20 but he still lives at home & doesn't plan on getting married anytime soon. Or moving out of his parents house. Anyhow. The morning after he had stayed the night nothing happened, I mean no kisses no touching nothing. So the next morning I asked him what was wrong & why doesn't he want to have sex with me, & he said sex isn't ever on his mind & it doesn't thrill him like it does other people or me. I barely get kisses. He doesn't even touch me anymore. He won't give me any explanation of why he seriously doesn't wanna touch or have sex with me which kind of makes me think hes gay, but anyways, if anyone knows how I can deal with this or if its even normal for a guy not to want to have sex with someone he says hes in love with. Please give me advice as soon as you can, I will greatly appreciate it.
Oh yeah, I forgot to mention. He was a virgin up until me & him had sex. That info might help..
-signed Confused One
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Well, it sounds to me like, he may not want to have sex with you because he's gay or maybe still trying to figure out if he is or not. He may love you, but I'm unsure whether he's in love with you. If I were you, I would just ask him straight up. I think he's going through a difficult time right now and will probably need your support as he tries to figure things out for himself. But, ya, it sounds to me like he may be gay. Well, good luck with everything and I hope everything turns out well for you.
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yeah, i'd say you have a gay one. or he's cheating, or asexual or something. anyway, something's wrong...and you shouldn't have to put up with it. i hope it all works out. :/ (ch)
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