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Okay i was wondering how do you make a journal icon yourself? Please help me!!

Well you need a graphics program ( The simplist one is Microsoft paint :P ) And then you just make it the right size I guess, whatever size journal Icons are. Just paste your image into the prgram and add text and whatever other elements you want.

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hey, i tried the birth control pill and it made me have really bad heart problemz from it..and well, my heart is getting better now after about a year from those damn thingz!!!!

but my question is...do any of yuz kno any good birth control methods like the patch, or anything lyk that that is healthy and that you can use if you smoke cigarettes??

I dont think smokers are suppose to use any birth control becuase it will cause heart problems. Looks like a good reason to stop smoking!

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When I get my period i get HORRIBLE cramp! Sometimes theres so bad i can't go to school or do anything all day! Do know some way to get relief ?

Well take a pain reliever (Tylenol Advil Asprin) And get in a warm shower. Laying down and just relaxing helps too. Cramps are just a pain, litteraly

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When after having sex and if the sperm ejaculated in, what kind of pills are good to take to avoid prenancy from happening?

You can take emergency Contraception which lowers your chance of getting pregnant. Im pretty sure you can get it at planned parenthood but you need to take it within 5 days.

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my stepbrothers friend and i are in a relationship. we were thinkin about having sex, or at least me giving him head. whenever i talk to him dirty online he goes back and tells my stepbrother. im also scared cuz my dad is really strict nd im only 13

lets see, your 13. DONT HAVE SEX! 13 is too youg, I dont care how mature you are. Plus if your dad found out he would probably go off his rocker. Its just a bad idea.

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im nervous about having sex, im still a virgin. i think im ready but im a little insecure about my body, its almost fully developed. im worried the guy im goin to do it with is gunna look at me naked nd is gunna be like eww her body is gross, im not fat, i just dont know what he will think. (he's much more experienced than i am) gurls nd guys please help me out:)
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If your insecure about it you ARNT READY TO HAVE SEX! Simple as that. You should be fully secure when you have sex.

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I am a 15 year old female, and i have been having a lot of sex in the past two years. Im not pregnant but i havent had my period in 2 months i have been throwing up in the morning. Im not sure i dont want to tell my mom but i don't know what to do PLEASE HELP!

Are you sure your not pregnant? Maybe you should go to planned parenthood and get a free pregnancy test.

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are those flirty skirts that go out like or have two layers... u know the popular ones? are those gonna be in this school year? i wanted to buy one tomorrow but i'm afraid that they will be out in a couple of months. what are your thoughts? i live in california.

If you like them and think there cool then wear them! Part of fashion is being original remember

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wen i talk to the guy i like on aim, he never talks back. very little. im thinking that he nos thats why but im not sure. he isnt shy hes out going and im so confused. pleze help.
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Are you sure hes not just trying to do something while your talking to him? Maybe hes playing a game or something.

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How can I keep my eyeshadow on all day? It's powder eyeshadow that I love but it always fades away during the day. I don't want to keep reapplying it. Any tips so my eyeshadow stays on longer?

Try putting lotion on your eyelids right before you apply the shadow. Kinda makes it stick better. i think they also have eye primer things that you put on under shadow.

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how do i prevent the red razor bumps on my bikini line from coming when i shave? and how do i get a very close shave to where you cant even tell there is hair there? i want it all gone but everytime i shave it just turns red and gets razor burn.

Make sure you use alot of shaving cream or soap. Then after your done put some antibiotic cream (neosporin tipe stuff) on it. It helps :)

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Has anyone ever gone on a "water-diet"? nothing but water...ice/water...and then u eat something on the third day...?has anyone gone on this or know if it works??

Well it definatly doesnt sound very healthy! plus I would think you would end up retaining water and gaining weight. Well, water weight. I wouldnt try it if I were you.

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hey well...im skinny im 14 and i weigh 85 pounds..and its so wierd...lyk my stomach its skinny but then lyk right undermy belly button i have this lyk little "pooch" thing.it s not lyk that big where people would think im fat but sitll it wierd...what is it? and no, its not something lyk medically wrong with me...its just the way my stomach is. but lyk i dunno its so wierd cuz im real skinny and then theres lyk this little pooch thing under my belly button..does anyone else whos skinny have this..?

I have that too o.o Its just where the fat collects I guess. Theres not to much you can do about it but its perfectly normal. And if no one notices, who cares?

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I have light blue eyes and blonde hair and mediam skin ... what is the best type of make up for me ... eyes, blush, etc .. THANKS

Well make sure you do everything light. No black eyeliner or anything. Just keep it sheer. Use a nice light pink blush but make sure you dont use to much. For eyes use a light eyeshadow like a champange color or something.

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okay i always get hungary and i always end up chosing sweets or salty things to eat...is there sumthing more healthier and that will hold longer bcuz i knoe salads r healthy but i mean you get hungry like 10 minutes later.
please help ssoooooon b4 i get hungary again!

You need to eat protein becuase it takes your stomach longer to digest it so you are full longer. Try peanut butter or cheese. Even yogurt.

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I am a 13 year old white girl (almost 14). I am intrested in this black kid. some of my friends are ok with it but one of my best friends think i shouldnt like him because he is black. he is one of the nicest and sweetest people i know. i just dont understand why she cant see him for an amazing person and not just him being black. What can i do to get through to her?

Probably nothing will change her mind. You shouldn't listen to her though. Racism is not right. If she ends up not likeing you becuase you like someone who isnt white then she wasnt a good friend in the first place.

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My BESTfriend.. Let's call her *Liza. She is anorexic, i didn't know this before.. i just thought she was super skinny. But she left her diary over my house, and i just read some of it. She's been anorexic for almost two years, it's crazy. She doesn't know that i know yet.. so i'm scared to try and help her! Do you have any ideas on how i can tell her that i know and try to get her to stop. Cause i'm soo scared that something bad is gonna happen to her, Please, pretty please.. someone help me. Thank you so much, sorry it's so long.

Signed,
Very Scared!

You should definatly alert her parents. Even though it seems like going behind her back it could save her life. Looking at her diary was wrong but if you can help her it is actually better than letting her suffer anorexia.

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i always get acne everyday! in the morning, i wake up and theres another one! i've tried everything! i tried this benzclin (not sure how its spelled) which was prescribed by the doctor, i've tried proactiv, shiseido, clean & clear, neutrogena, clique, mary kay, and even toothpaste! nothing seemed to work. i feel so embarased to go out. i cant do anything. i feel like crying everyday and i have zero self confidence. please help me. i want my acne out now:(

Go to a dermatologist and get a retin-A product. If that doesnt help you may have to take oral medication which you can get from your dermatologist.

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how much more likely are you to get cancer if you drink diet soda??

none. The sweetners in diet soda are safe.

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you see, i am a female brunette and i have hair on my legs/arms. I would like to lighten my hair so it is less visible because i don't like to wax/shave because hair grows back even darker/thicker. So what products can i use to lighten my hair? Are there any home remedies so I wont have to go to the store?

Well your hair does not actually grow back darker and thicker. That is a myth, Its really just an illusion becuase you tend to forget what your hair looked like before it grew back.
No there arnt home remidies. If you want to get it off without waxing or shaving try nair. It doesnt work on really corse hair though. It should work on your arms.

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