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im nervous about having sex, im still a virgin. i think im ready but im a little insecure about my body, its almost fully developed. im worried the guy im goin to do it with is gunna look at me naked nd is gunna be like eww her body is gross, im not fat, i just dont know what he will think. (he's much more experienced than i am) gurls nd guys please help me out:)
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If you feel bad about your body, you shouldn't! Not everyone is totally cool about it anyway. If you feel ready, its totally up to you. And if the guy you have sex with, thinks "ewww", he's not even worth it anyway! Good luck!
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First of all, make sure you're completely ready before you do anything. But you have to realize that guys don't really CARE too much, I mean, they don't see you the way you probably see yourself, and they're not looking to find every little thing that's wrong with you. Having sex is going to completely suck if you just worry about how you look the whole time, so just try to forget about it + have a good time!
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If your insecure about it you ARNT READY TO HAVE SEX! Simple as that. You should be fully secure when you have sex.
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The first thing to solving this problem is accepting the fact that no one looks *gorgeous* naked! You need to get comfortable with your body, and if your actin' like yoru cool with it while you guys are..yeahh.. then he wont think twice about your body, except the fact that hes bangin a cutie!:) good luck babe!!
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Get comfortable with your own body first. Lounge around naked. And boys look silly naked so I don't think he should have anything to complain about.
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trust me if a guy likes you enough to do you then he alredy thinks ur hot
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he wont be thinkn about that, he'll be so happy that hes havn sex he wont be thinkn cleary enough to think about that.
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Make sure your ready before you give your viginity away. Don't worry about your body not being perfect enough for him. If he truly does love you and cares about you, he wont care what you look like hun. Good luck.
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Hi darling,
Its only natural to be nervous before your first time but how you're feeling is a little more than that. You need to discuss this fully with your boy friend and explain your fears to him well before 'the event'. Take the relationship slowly and experiment with for play etc. Before sex comes in to it. If your still feeling this way, ask him if you can just show him your body. I know this sounds very odd but once you know he's seen you naked and every thing is fine it'll take the pressure off when the sex comes so you can just enjoy it.
Bye bye just now
Derfel
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i was insecure about my body too. but my bf kapt telling me and keeps telling me that he loves everything about me including every part of my body. he wont think that about you. and you should tell him you're a little nervous. he'll understand. and if he doesn't, then sorry hun but hes not the one you want to be losing your verginity to. hope i helped.
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Hey, if your nervous about having sex don't do it. If you are not comfortable with it you don't have to do it even if your boyfriend wants you to. I would really like to know your age because some people do get pregnant even if they use pertection! You woulnd't want that now would you. sex is supposed to be with the one you love so much you could spend the rest of your life with him type thing. If your not ready he'll exept that if he cares so much about you. Talk to me again, you can reach me @ HelpGirlie7892@yahoo.com.
Hope this helps! sincerely,
**Bridgette**
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aww sweety it's ok. you shouldn't feel self conciouse a/b your body at all! if the guy that you are going to do it with really cares a/b you then he won't think anything less of you because of your body. and trust me, when he sees you naked it'll be a really big turn on for him;-) just have fun and don't worry about it:-) he'll love it!*
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look its this simple...dont do it until you KNOW you are ready not until you Think...u have to be 120% comfortable with your body no matter what. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE use protection...and DO NOT let this guy use you!
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No,he won't think that. Guys don't think about shit like that.
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If you feel you know the guy your going to have sex with really well (like you should) then you would know that even if you looked like missy elliott he'd love you and except your body. Maybe before you check if someone else is cool with your body you should make sure you are. Good luck w/ whatever it is your gonna do..
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Omg hunny don't worry. If you think you're ready then go for it but be careful bc you might regret it later. MAKE SURE you're ready. Its good to do it with an experienced person first so at least one of you knows what you're doing. Every girl is a little insecure about their body, its natural. The guy isn't going to tell you that you're gross or that you're fat trust me. I'm sure everything will be fine. MAKE him use a condom, you don't need to get pregnant. Once again, i remind you to make sure that you're completely ready to lose your virginity because its supposed to be with someone special.
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