I am a 20 year old female, and I am a great listener. My friends always come to me for advice, and you can too. Ask me whatever you want, I will be happy to try to help you with ANY problem or dilemna. I will do my best to give you a great answer. Whatever you ask, I will never judge or make fun of you - I will be honest and respectful with you, telling you my advice with a kind and rational answer. I have traveled all over, had many unique opportunities and experiences, and have great friends from many different places all over the world. All the traveling has taught me a lot about different kinds of people and I have gained a lot of insight and perspective throughout it all. I'd like to think that some of what I have learned will be helpful to other people, and that I can offer advice that takes into account all that I have come across in my 20 years, both from my experiences and the experiences of those around me. I was also an elite athlete, so I have some experience in fitness/training/health questions as well. Thanks for visiting my column! Have a fantastic day!!
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Hey does anyone know where i could get some really cute bikini's for the summer? i am going on an early vacation so your help is greatly appreciated! x0 (link)
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Victorias Secret has some awesome bathing suits, and they fit really well, but if you are in a hurry to get it then it won't be your best bet. With Victoria's Secret, you have to order it and it could take awhile.
I would try going to a department store, like Marshall Fields, Lord and Taylor, Nordstroms, Dillards...something like that. They will have a great selection, especially this early in the season. If you don't have those stores where you live, type the store name in Google, it will take you to their website, and you can probably order them online...
Another option is stores like Pacific Sunwear, or Gadzooks. They always have really cute ones! Good luck, I hope you find one you love!
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heyy! its Kels, can i get some of those quotes from your for the powerpoint?
thanks! (link)
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There is only one happiness in life,
to love and be loved. - George Sand
You know you are in love
when you see the world in her eyes,
and her eyes everywhere in the world.
- David Levesque -
(this one is part of a cute poem)
He whispered softly,
his words like music to her ears,
"I Love You,"
and her response the same,
heard like the gentle breeze,
"And I, love you, forever."
That was the night they promised
to be together through everything,
each to care for the other when old and gray
A lovers' pact
the most likely to last.
When you love someone,
all your saved-up wishes start coming out.
- Elizabeth Bowen -
Love is like the sun coming out of the clouds
and warming your soul.
Love is a moment that lasts forever...
- Julie Wittey -
Love is a many splendored thing. Love lifts us up where we belong. All you need is love!
~ from the movie Moulin Rouge ~
The greatest thing you'll ever learn
Is to love and be loved in return.
Seduce my mind and you can have my body,
Find my soul and I'm yours forever.
To love a person is to learn the song
That is in their heart,
And to sing it to them
When they have forgotten
My love for you is a journey;
Starting at forever,
And ending at never
A whole new world
A dazzling place I never knew
But when I'm way up here
It's crystal clear
That now I'm in a whole new world with you
(Aladdin)
All my life I prayed for someone like you
I thank God that I, that I finally found you.
(All my life, by K-Ci and jojo)
You’ll always be a part of me
I’m part of you indefinitely
Boy don’t you know you can’t escape me
Ooh darling ‘cause you’ll always be my baby
(Always be my baby, Mariah Carey)
I don't want to close my eyes
I don't want to fall asleep, cause I'll miss you baby
And I don't wanna miss a thing
(Aerosmith)
If I can't have you, I don't want nobody baby (LFO)
I don't want my love to go to waste
I want you and your beautiful soul
(Jesse McCartney)
When I look into your eyes I know that its true
God must have spent a little more time on you
Nothing compares to you.
And I'd give up forever to touch you
Because I know that you feel me somehow
You're the closest to heaven that I'll ever be
ans I don't want to go home right now
(Iris, the GooGoo Dolls)
I'd stay awake just to hear you breathing.
(Aerosmith)
Why cant I breath whenever I think about you?
Why cant I speak whenever I talk about you?
(Avril Lavigne)
So this is love...
(Cinderella)
Ain't got nothin' but love babe
Eight days a week.
(Beatles)
Let me know if you'd like more, that should be a start at least... have fun with the powerpoint!
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Okay- Ready?
I am going to make like a powerPoint for my boyfriend!
Like with all of our pictures, and little things offline that say stuff like "I Love You" and things like that. We have been together over a year. Do you guys think that that would be cool? like with all of the memories and stuff??
:)
What do you think?
or anything else i could do to it to make it even more AWESOME!!
*-KeLs-*
Thanks! (link)
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I think that would be cute. If you and your boyfriend have 'a song' maybe you could have it playing in the background of your Powerpoint presentation. Fill it with a ton of your pictures, that would be so adorable. You could put little quotes about love, or quotes from songs in it too. Like this one by Shakespeare: 'I do love nothing in the world so well as you.' Just stuff like that. Use romantic colors, but stay away from making it all pink and fluffy, or too girly. I make a ton of Powerpoints, so if you need any help, I'd be glad to help you. One thing I really reccommend is keeping the background similar for all the pages, if not the same. That way is alot better than doing totally unmatching backgrounds of colors and patterns on each page. I would love to help you make one, or help you set up a background with cute quotes and stuff, and send it to you so you could put the pictures in....if you would like. But really, I think its a great thing to do for your boyfriend... it's thoughtful, cute, unique...I'm sure he will love it. Leave me one in my inbox if you want more help with this. Good luck!
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Hey. Well, there's this boy I like in my school, and I he may like me to, as to what my friend said...but I didn't hear the whole thing. Well, I found out her liked me when he was going out with his ex, so I didn't rush anything because I didn;t want to break them up. The later on broke up because she was cheating on him with 2 other guys, but no he goes out with another girl. I was so upset when they said he had a new girlfriend because I figured, why would he go out with another girl if he really liked me. I don't know what to do, and I think about him all of the time, what should I do because I really, really like him and I'm not to the type to make the first move! (link)
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Maybe you should tell him how you feel. If you want him to be honest with you, then you have to be honest with him, as well. Tell him this, 'Listen, I had heard that you liked me and I want to know if this is true, because I actually have feelings for you as more than a friend.' That way, he knows how you feel, and he is put on the spot so he has to tell you what is going on. If he says he feels the same way, that's great. Maybe he thought you didn't like him and didn't ask you out because he didn't want to be rejected. If he doesn't feel the same way about you, then at least you know and you don't have to keep wondering forever. If you don't want to ask him straight up about it, go talk to one of his friends that you can trust. Casually bring up your boy's name, and ask his friend what is going on with him. Say something like, 'I really wish 'boy's name' wasn't going out with 'new girlfriends name' because I really like him. Do you know if he likes me at all? Someone had told me that he did, but I didn't know if it was true or not.' His friend hopefully will know something, and he might even go tell him that you like him, which would be good. If he knows you like him and he feels the same way, that would be great. Don't be afraid to make the first move, you are going to have to be a little bit bold in this situation in order to find out what he is thinking, and if he still likes you. Hope that helped a little, good luck!
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i skipped my period what does that mean? (link)
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It could mean a few different things. Have you had your period for awhile, or did you just get it somewhat recently (as in a few months ago,perhaps)? If you have just gotten it, then it is no big deal to skip a period. Some girls, after getting their period, will go for a whole year or so just getting their period like every other month. That's because it takes your body time to get on a normal and predictible schedule. If you have had your period for a long time, and it is usually regular, then my advice would be a little different. It could come from eating differently, or a big change in your lifestyle or sleep schedule. Things like that have been known to throw periods off schedule. Did you lose alot of weight? You need a certain percentage of body fat (I think it is 10-12%) to maintain a regular menstruation cycle. I wouldn't really worry about one missed period, if you miss many more, talk to a doctor or your school nurse about it. There is one exception where it could mean something more serious... if you recently had sex, and you are experiencing other pregnancy symptoms, then there is a chance you may be pregnant. If that's the case, you'll need to take a pregnancy test and definately go see a doctor. I don't mean to make you worried with the pregnancy comment, but I just want to give you every possible reason that you may have skipped your period. Most likely, it is nothing at all to be concerned about, you will find that every once in awhile it is normal to skip a period. Maybe, though, it is just late, and you will get it in a week or so. Alright, I hope that helped a little bit. Leave me a message if you need anything else!
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you seem to be really good at answering questions.. so maybe you can help me. im almost 14(f) and ive never had a REAL boyfriend. the most i ever did with a guy was like hold hands. all of my friends have had boyfriends and have made out with guys or gone further.. i had alot of chances to do that with guys but ive turned them all down because i thought i didnt like them.. but maybe im being too uptight and nervous about getting that close to a guy.. theres only 1 guy who i want to go out with but he has no interest in going out with me and he has a gf.. and for some reason hes all ive been thinking about for almost 3 years. he liked me 2 years ago now were just friends.. i need to move on from him.. all i want is a guy to be with and cuddle with.. am i just too uptight or is this guy the only person im gonna love? (link)
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Hey. First of all, it's absolutely fine that you haven't had a 'real' boyfriend yet. I actually think that's great. Alot of girls skip around from one boyfriend to the next, and that's only because they are insecure and don't know how to manage on their own. I am glad you aren't like them. Don't ever feel bad about not making out with a guy... this is how I feel, anyways: If you don't like them, why make out with them?? It's pointless. Wait until someone comes along that you really like, and who likes you back and isn't just using you. That's not being uptight, that's being smart and waiting until its the right time and right guy. If you are nervous, thats okay too. It may not seem like it, but guys are just as nervous as we girls are. So when you do find the right guy, and you go to kiss him, don't worry about if you are doing it right, or if you are a good kisser. If your heart is in it, than it will be good. All the girls who go around kissing any boy that breathes don't put their heart into it. Those kisses are passion-less, and empty. So it really is best to wait, I promise you won't regret it.
About this guy you like... the only reason you can't get over him is because you haven't found someone you really like yet. I had this same problem. I was so caught up with this one guy, he was all I could think about. He lived far away, and finally I got over him because I found someone I truly liked. This is what I think happens... When you don't have someone you like alot, you revert back to an old crush, or you end up not letting go of a crush, usually one that is unattainable, like in both of our cases. But trust me, soon there will be a guy who will totally sweep you off your feet and make you wonder what on earth your saw in that other guy. That's what happened to me anyways. The guy you can't get over right now is just a temporary obsession that will be over when you meet someone new. Don't worry, he definately will not be the last or only guy you will love! Good luck, hope this helped a little. If you need any more help, you know where to come!
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my boyfriend is pakistani and muslim. i am white and agnostic. i really care about him and he's head over heels for me but his parents wont let him do ANYTHING (were seniors in high school living w/our parents)with me (b/c of my race- wow im a victim of racism for the first time and it sucks!). he lies so much to see me but even then its not a lot. i see him at school and then occasionally after school while his parents are at work. we NEVER EVER go on real dates and it drives me nuts!!! i feel as if i deserve someone who can take me out and see me without lying or sneaking around. the situation just SUCKS. should i break up with him or just settle for seeing him barely ever? (if i broke up with him i'd still be friends with him)i really dont know what to do- i feel bad breaking it off but i'm unhappy in our current situation- its not fair to me.
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Have his parents ever met you? Maybe he could arrange for you to meet his parents, and have dinner or something, so they could get to know you and see how great you really are. It seems like you two really care about each other, to go to such lengths to be with each other. It would be a shame to let the relationship go because of something as stupid and ignorant as racism. Try talking to your boyfriend and ask him to talk to his parents. Or, write his parents a nicely written, thoughtful letter that explains how much their son means to you and how much you two love each other. That could be easier than facing them in person, and what parents could turn their backs on such a nice gesture. You two deserve to be able to be together, and have a real relationship. I don't suggest breaking up, nor do I think you should settle for how it is right now. Do something to change it, like one of the things I suggested above. Who your boyfriend dates is HIS decision, and not his parents. I understand that his parents may not totally approve of their son's choice of girlfriend, for whatever reason (race, religion, whatever...) but it is still their duty as parents to support him. Good luck with this, I really hope this works out for you two. Please keep me updated with how this turns out.
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ok i really wanna do it but im only 13 and in 7th grade. is it wrong 4 me to even be thinking about it bcuz i really want to have sex. Is it okay for me to lose my virginity yet?
sincerely, confused (link)
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No, it is not alright. You are waaay too young, and you have no idea what you would be getting yourself into. Do you think being a mom in the 7th or 8th grade sounds like fun? That's very well what could end up happening. I'm not saying it's wrong to think about it, just don't do it. Trust me, you will totally regret it. Once you lose your virginity you can never get it back. NEVER. Get that through your head. I don't mean to lecture you, honestly, I just don't want you to do something you will regret immensely in the future. I doubt this is a result of peer pressure, because I don't know what seventh graders run around pressuring each other to have sex... But your body is changing, you are around that age, so inevitably you have some hormones going crazy in your body. You can't help that, but you CAN show some self-restraint, and self-respect, and wait to have sex. What has happened to good, old-fashioned morals? And besides that, along with sex comes huge emotional obstacles and stress. I don't care how mature you are for your age, no seventh grader is ready for that. Also, I don't know where you live, but most places would consider someone having sex with a 13 year old as rape. So besides being wrong, stupid, and irresponsible...it is most likely illegal as well. Alright, well I hope this has answered your question. I really didn't mean to be harsh, but its for your own good. I hope you make the right decision and wait. Leave me a message in my inbox if you have any more questions, I would love to help you out with anything.
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hi.. my girlfriend died a 3 months ago from a car crash. i think about her every minute. she was my absloulte everything. I feel that im still going out with her but i feel a need a girl friend. I need some one to take her place. I need that some one who will give me what im looking for. Please help wat should i do (link)
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I'm so sorry about your girlfriend. That must still be very hard for you. First of all, you have to know that you are going through a grieving process. This is completely normal, and I'm sure you are feeling a ton of different emotiions. You also have to realize that no one is going to be able to 'take her place,' at least not for awhile, anyways. It will probably be hard to fill that void, but it is good that you seem ready to move on. Dwelling on your girlfriend's death is not only unhealthy for you, but it will make living the rest of your life very hard. Don't rush into any new relationships right away. Since this is a unique situation, you have to be careful with your heart. A part of you probably feels like some of your heart still belongs to your girlfriend that died, since you said she was your absolute everything. Try meeting some new people, like through mutual friends. You might try a date or so and find that you are not ready to have a girlfriend again yet, I'm not sure, especially since you said you still think about her all the time (which is perfectly understandable). You also might feel bad when you are out on a date with another girl, like you are betraying your girlfriend, but you have to remember, even though your old girlfriend has died, she would want you to be happy. It seems like you are on your way to moving forward with your life, which is great. Good luck, and please leave me a message in my inbox if you need anything else at all. I'm not sure if I answered your question or not, but I hope that helped a little. The hardest part will probably be sorting out your emotions as you start dating again. Hang in there!
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My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do? (link)
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Tell someone! Even if it makes your friend mad at you... you would rather have your friend mad at you than dead, right? This is extremely serious and you shouldn't wait to tell someone, I would suggest your friend's parents, or a guidance counselor, or teacher. Despite how much you talk to them, you are going to need help from others. Try to talk your friend out of it too, though. Tell them how much you love them, and reassure them that their life is valuable and has meaning. Tell them whatever problems they are having that are making them think about suicide can be fixed. Suicide is not an answer to problems. Tell your friend over and over again how much they mean to you, how much you need them to be here, on the earth, ALIVE, and most of all that you and others love them very much. Talk to someone right away, and you could even call a suicide hotline to get more help and information for your friend. Good luck, and please please please don't hesitate to ask me if you need anything else.
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My boyfriend says that I ignore him! And I don't think I am! I talk to him whenever I see him and between almost every class and everything! I dunno if because usually my friends are around he doesn't want to talk or what. I've tried talking to him more and talking to him when no one else is around. Is he just like really shy or what? Cause it's like really annoying when he says that I don't talk to him or else I ignore him! Help! (link)
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Maybe he feels like he needs more time with just you and him. Also, maybe it isn't talking he wants...he might just need you to listen. It's really frustrating to have something on your mind that you want to say and then never have the opportunity to say it, or have someone just listen to you without interrupting. That could be what he needs. Next time you are alone together, just ask simply ask him in your sweetest voice, 'What are you thinking about right now?...' or 'What's on your mind?' This will give him the opportunity to say anything he needs to, and will also show that you care. Also, it is the little things that matter alot. Whisper something in his ear...its more personal. Leave cute little notes in his locker...they will remind him of you and show him you are thinking of him. Call him just to ask how his day is going. You don't have to shower him with attention, just show him you care. Little things really do make a difference. I hope that helped! Leave something in my inbox if you need anything else!
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so we are jsut friends but my mom says i cant date until im 17 or even just like go somewhere with him last night he was like how many days i was like what hes like until you turn 17 i was like 50 some hes like do you think you will still wanna go tot he movies with me by then. so does he like me or just being friendly? give me lots of advice and i rate high (link)
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Aw, I think what he said was cute. That sounds pretty flirty to me, and it sounds like he may like you. Don't jump to conclusions though, because you also said you can't even just hang out with him as friends until you are 17. He may just be wanting to spend time with you as friends (which could easily turn into a dating relationship if you both like each other). You have time to figure it out, though. During these next 50-some days, try flirting with him, and see what he does back. Try saying something like, 'So, you're still taking me to the movies in 50 days, right?' (in a cute, teasing tone) This way, he'll know you took notice of his comment and are responding to it favorably. Keep this up, and if he likes you, and it sounds like he does, you'll have a date as soon as you turn 17! I hope this helped a little, leave me a message in my inbox if you have anymore questions...good luck!
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Hey, does anyone know a good way to make your leg go higher in an arabesque and such? And also, how to get your split better? Thanks so much! (link)
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I just read all the other answers you've gotten, and all those stretched sounds great. That will definately improve your flexibility, and your splits. But holding you leg up in an arabesque does not take just flexibility. Some of the most flexibile people can not hold a high arabesque. It takes strength, as well, to be able to hold your leg up like that. You need strong lower back muscles, and good abs would help too. So, along with all the stretches, do some exercises to help strengthen your muscles, as well, especially your back. Hope that helped!
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hey im 13/f and i have been shaving since i was 11 but my mom doesnt know cuz i never asked her im way to scared to talk to her about anything
what do i do?
real question:how do i ask my mom that i want to shave?
boy im inbaressed (link)
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Hey, shaving is nothing to be embarrassed about it. Talk to your mom, and be like, 'Mom, most girls in my class our shaving now, and I feel like I am ready to shave now, too. Would you show me how?' I know you already know how to shave, but adding on that last question will make all the difference. Moms love to teach their daughters those 'coming of age' things, like shaving and putting on makeup and stuff like that. I'm sure she will be more than happy to show you. If you don't want to tell her you already have been shaving for awhile, make sure you don't shave for awhile so your legs aren't smooth when you ask her. That might be a bit suspicious. :)
Or... just tell her the truth! Tell her you have already been shaving and wanted to let her know. Don't be afraid to talk to your mom about stuff...she was a girl once too, and most moms give great advice, believe it or not. Good luck, hope that helped!
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Hmm... Where to start. Ok, so I've been going out with this girl for a couple of months and it's been amazing. Some of the best months of my life. And I have this friend that I think has a crush on her. He will always play with her hair and like give her little nicknames, and that stuff of the sort. Also, her one friend keeps asking me how much I like her and stuff like that. It is just kinda suspicious. What do you think, should I worry or what? (link)
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I agree, it is a little suspicious, but it is nothing to worry about before you know for sure what is going on. Be upfront with your friend that you think likes your girlfriend. Ask him straight up if he likes her, and just say you've been noticing that he has been flirting with her alot and you want to know what is going on. Hopefully, it is nothing at all. Quite possibly, it is just his personality and he is just a flirtatious guy. If this is the case, maybe he just wasn't aware of what he was doing and will ease up if he knows it makes your uncomfortable. Now about your girlfriend's friend... First of all, I hope you are telling that girl how much you love your girlfriend each time she asks you that! I don't really know why she would be doing that, and I doubt it relates in any way to your flirtatious friend. I would also suggest though, asking her why she asks you that, next time she approaches you with that question.
In your question, you didn't once mention that your girlfriend was acting strangely. So I will assume she is acting normal towards you. This is the most important thing. If she was acting weird, or overly flirty back to your friend, I might get a little suspicious. But it sounds like your relationship is going fine. Don't jepoardize your relationship by becoming overly protective of her because of your suspicions. Until you get everything sorted out, don't jump to any conclusions or act any differently. I hope everything turns out okay for you... to be honest with you, it just sounds like your friend is jealous that he doesn't have an awesome girlfriend, like you do, and is just going through a 'wishful-thinking' stage. Hope this helps. Leave me a message in my inbox and let me know what your friend said, or if you need anything else!
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i've been really doubting Jesus Christ these past few days. i believed in Jesus before and i trust that i'll believe in him once again, i just need some motivation and i need to be reminded again of his grace and glory. please help me turn my life back to God. (link)
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Hi! Its very normal to go through ups and downs in your spiritual life. It's in our human nature to doubt things, but if you had faith before, you just need to rekindle that passion. You have already made the biggest step - realizing that you need to improve your faith and relationship with God. That's excellent, I am glad that you have recognized that you need God in your life again. Try having a talk with your pastor...tell him that you have been feeling a litte lacking in the faith department, but really want to get back on track. Ask what he suggests. If talking to the pastor would make you uncomfortable, I have some other ideas. Most importantly, pray! Pray that God will send his Holy Spirit to work in your life and to strengthen your faith. I know a book that is absolutely amazing, I read it as part of a Bible study group...you might find that it is just what you need. It's called 'The Purpose Driver Life' and it is by Rick Warren. It really put things into perspective for me when I was going through a difficult time in my faith life. I don't know if this is your sort of thing, but you could go on a mission trip. My youth group has several trips a year to a poor village in Mexico, working with little kids and teaching them about Jesus. From what I hear, it is a totally life-changing experience. I plan on going on one of the trips next year. If you belong to a church, get active in a Bible study program. You didn't say how old you were, but I will assume you are age appropriate for a youth group type thing. They are alot of fun, and you can associate with people your own age who could be going through the same thing you are. If you are older, there are college age groups and adult ministries as well. There are alot of things to help get your faith stronger, but alot are things you may just not notice anymore. Take a moment every once in awhile and observe a sunset... or take a walk through the woods and observe nature in its purest form. Look at all the amazing things God has created. Incredible, isn't it? Take a look at your own life, as well. God has a plan for you, although he may not have revealed it to you yet. We all go through tough times, but it is important to remember, God will never give you any struggle or challenge without giving you the strength to get through it! I hope this helped a little, please don't hesitate to leave me a message in my inbox if you have any more questions or need any more help. This is truly an important question...You faith and your relationship with Jesus is more important than anything else! Don't forget... Jesus died and rose for you so that you can spend eternity in heaven with him someday, and he wants to be your greatest friend...let him back into your heart and see the difference it will make and the warmth it will bring back into your life! Good luck, I will be praying for you!
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well i like this guy people think hes a geek but i don't know why. well he is really smart like he loves to read and stuff hes not popular but i am and people have found out that i like him and there laughing at me. i really like him and i could really care less what people think but i just don't want to loose my friend over something like this( that is if we start to go out) i am 13 years old an i'm a girl. please tell me if i should go out with him or just try to forget about him and keep my reputation. thanks a lot! (link)
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Aw, I am glad that you don't base who you like just on their popularity. That is a hard lesson to learn, and you seem to have figured that out at an early age. :-) Sometimes, the 'geeky' types make the best boyfriends because they aren't shallow, and they tend to be more respectful and compassionate because they know what its like to be teased and labeled. If you like the boy, I think you should go out with him. Your friends should be supportive of you and not base your friendship on who you happen to like or date. Try having a talk with your friend/s next time they tease you for liking him. Say something like, 'Listen, we are really good friend, and you mean alot to me, so it really hurts me when you criticizing who I like. I appreciate your concern in who I date, but it is really none of your business why I like him. Just because you don't see the side of him that I do doesn't mean you should tease me for it.' Hopefully that will get the point across to them. You can't help who you fall for, so trust your heart. Take the chance and ask him out, he sounds like a great guy. Hopefully your friends will come to their senses, especially if you talk to them and tell them how much it means to you to have their support. Good luck!
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i'm currently a freshman in my second semester of college and i have a problem staying awake in my classes, even if i get adequate hours of sleep the night before!
i've tried drinking coffee during class (despite the caffeine, has not worked for me), bringing munchies, having a water bottle, doodling on my notebook, and vice versa. basically anything to keep me busy and awake! all of my attempts have failed...any ideas? (link)
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I am in a class where the teacher has the most monotonous voice guaranteed to put someone asleep right away. It's a class where I don't have to take notes, but to stay awake, I take notes anyways. Except, I try to write with the other hand. (I am left-handed, so I try to take notes with my right-hand). I know this sounds like an odd solution, but it really does keep you awake because you have to focus so intently on what you are writing, and it is somewhat amusing. But, you might not be able to read your notes later. In case that happens, bring a tape recorder, and you can go over what was said in class later when you are more awake. Other than that, I would just drink some Red Bull before class, and bring a couple with you to drink during class... hope I helped a little. Good luck!
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What do you guys think about having an "Ask Alice" column in a school newspaper.
like where an annonymous person (possibly me) answers annonymous questions asked my students in the school. some could be put online, and some just sent back to the students. do you think that it is a good idea, i read about it in a book, it was called "Teen Idol" by Meg Cabbot, anyone ever read it? then you may know what i am talking about, only in the book it was called "Ask Annie"
the person (maybe me) would remain annonymous so that the people asking the questions would not know who you were or if you were apart of one group or clique and them another, that way the person asking the question isnt scare or whatever!!
So, do you think that this is a good idea?
Thanks!!
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I think that's a really good idea. It would be a fun addition to your newspaper, as well as a good resource for students to get advice. We have an advice column in our school paper, but it is more of a joke article every week, where they write funny questions, and give hilarious, totally irrelevant answers. But, I like your idea, I think students would really like to read something like that. Make sure to pick questions to feature that are ones alot of people could relate to. Maybe you could get a friend or something to help you and you could answer questions together, that might be sort of fun. It is definately a good idea for both you, the answerer, and for the person asking the question to remain annonymous. That way, you would have a better chance of people feeling comfortable enough to submit a question. Hope this answered your question, good luck with your column!
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Pfff.. I just realised how BORING my life is!!! I wake up at six, go to school, come back at 4, do homework, go on the computer, sleep. What a nice life eh??? NOT!! its just soooo boring! i have nothing better to do. Any ideas? (link)
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Hey! Don't worry, sometimes our schedules become habits and we end up just walking through the same thing everyday. Fortunately, it is easy to change this if you find something to do that i fun for you. Make a list of things you have always wanted to do, learn, or try. After school and homework, pick one of those things and try it! Are all your friends sitting at home after school as well? Get them all together and do something. Maybe once a week get together and cook dinner as a group. You can spend some fun time together and learn some new recipes. Or, get together at friends houses to watch your favorite TV shows instead of watching them at home by yourself. Just don't let yourself fall into a routine. Switch something up everyday, whether its doing Tae-Bo in your living room when you get up in the morning, or trying out for the school play...just do something different! The key is not letting yourself sit around, make yourself busy. A great way to do this is volunteer for something. Try volunteering at your local animal shelter once a week, or go to www.cancer.org to find out how you can volunteer for the American Cancer Society. Also, sign up for a class that is a couple days a week, like maybe an art class. Well, I hope that helped. If you want any more ideas, or want to tell me your interests or age and gender, I could give you some more relevant suggestions. Just leave it in my inbox if you want, I know plenty of ways to keep busy!! :-) Good luck!
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