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compare their new girls to their ex's ,whether it be recent or not.I was an amazing girlfriend and my ex even admitted that and there's not many girls at my school like me and even his friends loved me and thought he shouldnt break up with me.I just feel as though when he finds a new girl if he compares her with me,he will realize what he lost! (link)
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I'm sure many of them do, and chances are, your ex-boyfriend will be looking at how you treated him and he's being treated by his new girl at one time or another. However, please don't sit around and wait for him to come crawling back -- it's what he should do, but unfortunately, that doesn't always happen.
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so this person i am seeing says some of the most hurtful things to me. then goes out and does something all sweet, and thinks because he has done this wonderful thing it makes up for those hurtful things he says. is words i qoute " actions woman not words"
that is what he says when i confront him, what do i do? he never can talk serious when i bring up this stuff he starts acting like a child and making noises so he cant hear me! it frustrates me beyond belief! i have hadto tell him to grow up! wwhat happend to the man i met that was loving caring respectful ?
ps i am 21 female (link)
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If he cannot be serious in this kind of conversation, he definitely needs to grow up. You deserve so much better treatment and sometimes, words are worse than any kind of actions. And good actions should not mean you should forget all the horrible words he has said to you, and he needs to realize that.
Talk to him one last time. Tell him you want back that "loving, caring, respectful" guy that you met and he needs to change for the relationship to work. Best of luck to you, friend.
P.S. Tell him a positive + negative = does NOT always equal a positive. Haha.
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How do I delete a myspace I dont want anymore? (link)
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Here you go. :)
http://www.tech-recipes.com/rx/3955/myspace-how-to-cancel-your-account/
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Ughh... I have mad adware! I use Firefox but the adware I have opens internet explorer constantly with pop ups everywhere. I have tried my deleting it with a program but it just wont go away what should I do? (link)
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Hope this helps you, my friend. :)
http://www.getridofthings.com/get-rid-of-adware.htm
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Just yesterday i was playing on my computer trying to zone out from my problems and my sisters. Well anyways i'm juast asking for tips to help me out because i cant use my computer anymore and i need to zone out instead of remaining depressed like i have been for a while. I would tell people about my depression but i am very shy and i dont really like to talk. I need any tips to zone out and i will rate high for them............................. please help me out im going crazy!!! (link)
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I recommend writing -- sometimes writing your feelings out can really help. Sometimes we can express our words so much better and it's such a release. Reading is a good hobby to pick up, as well. May I suggest you try talking to someone, though? You see, communication is key for any relationship. I know it may seem hard to talk to others, but when you do, you'll build great relationships with them and you won't have to be so depressed.
Surround yourself with positive people and those who believe in you. :) Best of luck to you, my friend.
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wat is mastaurbating?! (link)
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This link will help you.
http://www.gurl.com/findout/fastfacts/articles/0,,715079,00.html
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so i havnt had my first kiss yet but when i do and not just kiss i mean get into them (snog) do you use tounges ? (link)
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Some people do and some do not, it's really up to the couple and if they feel comfortable enough to do so. There is no right or wrong way to kiss.
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how can you tone your face? (link)
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Here you go, friend. :)
http://www.ehow.com/how_2240863_tone-firm-face.html
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well im 15. and i had sex for the first time. im wondering..could i be pregnant? i mean..i havent gotten my period yet..so..idk..could i be prengnat? thanks. (link)
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There is always a possibility. If you used protection and/or are using birth control, you're chances are much lower for pregnancy. However, if you did not use protection of any kind, that risk raises much more.
Try to stay calm and go buy a pregnancy test that way you can know for sure. Best of luck to you, my friend. :)
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Just wondering; is it illegal to show or resend a picture of someone who sent you a "sexting" picture? I know it's illegal to even receive a picture of that sort if the person's under the age of 18, but if they're 18 or older, is it still okay to send the picture around or show it to others? It seems like it shouldn't be, but I'm not sure.
Thanks :) (link)
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Here is an article that you may find helpful. :)
http://news.cnet.com/8301-19518_3-10207408-238.html
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What does it mean to have a network? Like for example on Facebook it sometimes list someone's network. Does this mean that they randomly choose a network? or does it mean that they are connect from that area?
For example if someone's network said "Providence" Would it be that they were located in Providence or the Providence area? Or that they just randomly choose Providence? I don't understand what a network is.... thanks! (link)
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Hi! The first link will tell you about computer networking, in general.
http://www.spamlaws.com/what-is-network.html
Below you'll find Facebook's statement.
"Facebook is made up of many networks, each based around a workplace, region, high school or college."
Basically, it is just about your region or where you are located. However, a lot of people put in a different place other than where they are actually living, for whatever reason.
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Im applying for a new job and it asks me my reason for leaving my last job. The reason I left was because I wanted to move onto something else, possibly higher paying and something better. How would I word that? (link)
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"I left my last job because I was looking to challenge myself further, and engage myself in a new area of work. There also were no current growth opportunites, therefore, I looked forward to meeting a new challenge and new opportunity of learning."
I gathered this from what the other two columnists stated, so they are owed the entire credit -- I just put it all together for you.
Good luck! :)
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can you wear hats at batmitzvahs? or like bandannas? (link)
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I found these to help you. :)
http://www.mazorguide.com/celebrations/mitzvah/Orthodox/SynagogueEtiquette.htm
P.S. I do not recommend this, as it is very formal and usually accepted as a sign of disrespect. It may be best just to leave your bandanna at home for this one.
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i'm fixing to chenk google in just a second, bit since it's not likely i'll find anything of use, could someone give me some sites or info on internet abuse, and what you should do about it? i appreciate anything you can tell me. (link)
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Here you go, friend. :)
http://www.rd.com/your-america-inspiring-people-and-stories/online-rumor-websites-how-to-fight-internet-abuse/article107239.html
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What is the price range for Frankie B jeans? (link)
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$149-$299.
http://frankieb.mwrc.net/en/results-adv.php?page=1&keywords=jeans&sort_by_field=Price%3AASC
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how do you make the snow falling effect on myspace? an' what r some otha websitesz that are go0d 4 makin' a myspace sidess liike umm thomas myspace editor? please help will give 5's 4 go0d answers (=
-jessica* (link)
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Try these. :)
http://www.myspacelayoutsupport.com/myspace-codes/add-falling-hearts.php
http://www.spacepimping.com/generators/christmas-generator.php
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does anyone know who sings that song that goes "you can have it all if you want it, you can have it all if it matters to you"? and also what its called?
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Razorlight "Golden Touch"
http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Golden-Touch-lyrics-Razorlight/DDAA6EF08EB80EAB48256EC20027E183
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what are the birds and the bees? and dont tell me to 'google it' because i already did (link)
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Parents use "The Birds and The Bees" as a subtle way of saying "Sex Talk." It's when parents decide to talk to their kids about sex.
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What is a good FREE antivirus program to download? (link)
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I use AVG and it is the best to my knowledge. I have never gotten a virus and anytime I was threated by one, it popped up and told me the threat was removed. I recommend this highly.
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what does it mean for a girl to "put out"? (link)
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It means she's easy or that she sleeps around a lot.
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