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Hey! my name is Andrea but I like to be called Andie* I am 14 I love helping people out with there problems. I'm SpUnKy . BuBbly . outgoing . trustworthy . responsible . and fun to be with! Please dont hesitate to ask me anything! I understand that teenage years will definatly be the hardest to go through..it has for me at least...Boys*Friends*Family*Death all sorts of stuff so I will answer every question you have! I hope I'm helping you guys out! ♥Andie

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In Blink 182's song: Asthenia (its track 9 on their latest album) when Tom DeLonge is singing it sounds like he has a lisp or a retainer of some sort?! Am I the only one who can hear it? Please tell me some info about it!

No that is just the way that he sings it lol i love that song and TOM DELONGE IS FRICKEN HOTT!!!
♥Andie

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does anyone know where to find some cute quotes for my profile besides [[hellz-angelz.cjb.net and wittyprofiles.com thanks!]]

firehotquotes.com has A LOT of really cute poemz!! I hope I helped!! ~~*Andrea*~~

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Does anybody know any good love songs, from a girl to a guy. for a long distance relationship??

awwww I love here Without You by 3 doors down!!! I love that song!! ♥Andie

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whenever i flirt with other guys my friend Mark seems to be bothered! he looks really sad! what's wrong with him?!

he likes you..its obvious hun! Loe ya! ♥Andie

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My husband and I of 1.3 years of marriage got into a huge fight yesterday and he hit me several times, twice in the head. He kicked my butt real hard, threw something at my leg or my arm-can't remember which over something that was really stupid. I did say somethings I know I shouldn't have like I didn't love him, hated him and wanted a divorce. But does my saying those things warrant him hitting me? And that wasn't the first time. He normally hits me real hard on the legs when he gets real mad or he feels I've pushed his buttons.
Last night, he went to a motel with his son to get away and he would not talk to me at all. I didn't even know if we were going to be together. I was hurt and upset about the whole situation and did something real stupid. I filled out one of those eharmony personality profile things. I didn't chat with anyone or nothing like that. I just did it, don't know why. I was depressed and I did pop a lot of pills as I have tonight to try and sleep. None of it his an excuse. He found the eharmony thing today when he came back and now he won't have anything to do with me. I love him and want to work it out and I know I have to change also, not just him. All the times he's accused me of doing things I never ever did, I guess I just filled out that eharmony thing out of spite. He has called me a slut and a whore and that I'm so big now vaginally wise that no man could do me any good. I have apologized for filling out that personality profile. It was dumb of me. How can I save this marriage and convince him that I don't want anyone else, PERIOD. I love him and want to work this out more than anything in this world. Help me please.

Ok this is probably one of the most horrible posistions you could be in and i know that you wont like what I have to say since you "love" him. Fist NO MAN ever has the right to hit you! Even if it is something more serious! It seems he takes ALOT of his anger out on you, and probably all of them arn't even worth it! and if it really "love" he would call you a slut or a whore and no man could do you any good...you dont deserve this man if he is talking to you like this!! If you do still want to be with him, and i cant think of a reason why you should, then I suggest you guys taking a marrige counciling therepy or angermanagement! or even just take a break for a couple of days! I really hope I helped a little! I just hope he doesnt see this advice stuff! If you EVER need anything else I am here for you!! I hope I helped!!!
*I hope things get better!!! ♥Andie

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Ok, this isn't exactly a friendship question, but i didn't know what else to put it under.
I'm going to turn 14 in about a month, and I'm in the 8th grade. This year my parents are letting me have a party, and I need some good party ideas for my age. Skating is out of the question because i had one for my 13th birthday party.
Any suggestions?

Hey I am going to be 14 in 1 month and 3 weeks...anyway!! I think you should just invite a lot of people over set lots of food out play music go in your living room or any place in your houe that is large enough for everyone to *chill* at and just well..chill out and just have fun! Put a movie in like;Scream, Dazed and Confused, Napolian Dynomite or something like that and ya! I hope YOu have a good time!! ♥Andie

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i sometimes feel uncomfortable singing infront of people! how do i over come this fear?!

signed,
Afraid2Sing

Oh ik exactly how you feel!! What you should do is get a couple of your family members or your best friends and sing infront of them first and then see what they say. Then if you are more comfortable sing infront of more friends and then there you go! I hope I helped!! ♥Andie

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OK so me and my Best friend have been friends since like third grade...we live by eachother and we would hang out all the time....In Elementary school it was great..then when junior high hit we still hung out but not as much...we talked all the time and we were still very close...but then highschool happened....it seemed that she became friends with alot of the cooler crowd and would only talk to me when it was conveinent for her....Now we are in the same church group so i see her every sunday and she talked to me there....I kind of feel like i am her second wheel...like if no one better is around she will talk to me...or if all of her "cooler" friends were gone all weekend then she wood call me....is she just using me? I dont know what to do.....HELP!

I dont think that she is really your "best friend" if she kinda blew you off like that. I think you should talk to her about if you guys are still friends or not. I know how you feel to I am kinda going threw the same thing. I hope I helped a little leave me another one if you want something else answered!! ♥Andie

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How do I unlink my managed screen names on AIM?

You go to my AIM at the top then you go down untill you get to the 3rd one called *Manage LInked Screen names...* and you click that! then you go to Link/Unlink at the top and make sure the screen name you want to be unlinked is checked then click unlink! you have to log off and then log back on again after..I hope I helped!!! *please rate me!!* ♥Andrea

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My parents keep the house so so so so so cold...I'm always freezing and it's the middle of the winter...it's always like 60 in here, and I've told my parents so many times that I'm SO cold when its that cold, but they don't care. They say that they are comfortable that way, and that if they turn it up they will be too warm. I'm not the only one who thinks its too cold...friends or relatives who come over say its so cold! But, they don't have to live here!!! I DO!! What do I do???

Maybe the heating bill is getting to high and they cant turn it up?? Just put a sweatshirt on..that is what I have to do because our house is freezing too! lol I hope I helped! ♥Andrea

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Ok, I am 14 and turning 15 in a couple of months. I have not started my period and I wear a size B bra so I'm not sure why i haven't started yet. My sister and mom started when they were 12-13 years old, is there something wrong? Thanks Alot!

There is nothing wrong with you! your lucky! lol! there is a wide range of when people can get it it can start as early as 10 to about 16 or 17! so dont worry about it! everyone gets it at differnt times! Just Haave Fun While You Dont Have It! lol ♥Andrea

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I'm 6'11" 430lbs Male. I need a plan for weight loss, and i need to lose it soon. My doctor has suggested surgery, and i do not want to go there until i absoulty have to. It is literally killing me. Please give me some low cost solutions on losing weight. Thanks.

I think that you should stop with the soda and replace it with water. Also you should go walking for at least 15 minutes each day and inscrease it by 10 minutes every week untill you want to walk the length you want to walk. Also replace fast-food with subway or just salads or anything fat free! I hope I helped! and Good Luck! ♥Andrea

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i got my cartilage pierced yesterday. is it normal for the cartilage to be a bit swollen? thanks

yes because you just put a whole in your body so it might be swollen for a few days! I hope I helped! ♥Andrea

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What is a good brand of *ceramic* hair straighter that isn't too expensive (under $25)

Go to target it is like 20$ and it works sooooo good! I love my straightener! it is called I think sasoon or Mille Sasson i dont know how it is spelled its something like that! I hope I helped! ♥Andrea

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How do you do a messy bun? I've looked all over the web to try and figure this out. Maybe I'm just not seeing it, who knows. Can anyone help me?

ok first put your hair in a pony tail and then just mess up your hair anyway you want! like scrunch it isnt a big mess basicly lol! I hope I helped! ♥Andrea

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Theres this guy at school.This will be an average story but anyways,He waits for me by my locker and he will hold my hand and flirt with me.He just makes me feel really special.We're not going out but sometimes i feel like we are.We've known eachother since we were 5.We are now teenagers.Can someone tell me if he might like me??im a female.
Signed,
Crushed

aww lol I think you should talk to him about how he feels about you and tell him that when he does all of this stuff for you that you get this spark* in you! just tell him everything you feel about him! I hope things are ganna be great with you guys!!! ♥Andrea

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What should i get my mom and dad for xmas? i dont have any money and i cant go out and buy anything so i was wondering if any of you have any ideas on what i could give them or make them? i hope you have some ideas because i only have 2 days! i will rate for effort! ill give you a five!

I think you should make *fun cards* what it is you need
-10 flash cards/notecards
-markers and glitter or anything to decorate
-and a basket or a hat of somesort
and what you can do is put a chore on each card and decorate it anyway you want. and they each can pick as many cards as they want such as like 3 or 4 cards and you do chores for them the rest of the day! Also, along with that you can make them breakfast-in-bed to! I did that for my parents one year and they loved it! I think I might do that another year again! I hope I helped! **Merry Christmas!** ♥Andrea

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I guess the subject line says it all. I constantly flip-flop between Christianity, Atheism and Buddhism. I like a little of all, and I can't seem to choose one faith. I always change my mind. Is there something wrong with me? Am I flaky? It's just that a faith is an important choice, and I'm afraid to make the wrong one.
I like all three, but I know I have to pick one.
What should I do?

I think you should pick the most that you like a little more than the rest but then still you can practice the other religons. I hope I helped! ♥Andrea

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how should i tell my friend that i dont want to be her friend anymore, because i really cant stand her.
(question that u didnt understand before)

Have you tried talking to her about your problem w/ her. Instead of just telling her you dont want to be friends, tell her what is bugging you about her soo much and she might chance or figure out that it it annoying. But if you really can't stand her ask her if you guys can be just friends and not best friends. If you want to get rid of her just say..right now I need to think about somethings so can we take a break being friends right now? lol something like that! I hope I helped! tell me how everything goes! ♥Andrea

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my friend i have decided is not a good friend but how should i tell her to just leave me alone and that i dont want to be her friend cause like she thinks were like best friends. but shes always makeing me upset and so how should i tell her that i dont want to be her friend any more?!?

I dont really understand what you mean by this "my friend i have decided is not a good friend but..." srry I will try to help you again! send me another question! SORRY! lol ♥Andrea

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