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I dont know If my best friend is actually a best friend!
OK so me and my Best friend have been friends since like third grade...we live by eachother and we would hang out all the time....In Elementary school it was great..then when junior high hit we still hung out but not as much...we talked all the time and we were still very close...but then highschool happened....it seemed that she became friends with alot of the cooler crowd and would only talk to me when it was conveinent for her....Now we are in the same church group so i see her every sunday and she talked to me there....I kind of feel like i am her second wheel...like if no one better is around she will talk to me...or if all of her "cooler" friends were gone all weekend then she wood call me....is she just using me? I dont know what to do.....HELP!
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Hey Sweetie,You need to talk to her. And i think she is using you so that it makes her more popular that she 'always' has someone around. So if i were you I woud find some new friends and hang out with them. That happen to me last year. No worries everything will work out!!hope i helped!XoXo NiCoLe~
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Just try talkin to her. But to me it soundz lyk she is using you as a 2nd resource for when her "cooler" friendz aint around..im sorry babe i could be wrong..good luck! *Everybodiiez_Fool*
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Try talking to her. Just tell her that you feel like yall are driffting apart. maybe start doin more stuff together like you used to do.
hope everything works out
sam
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Sometimes for me its the same way- maybe you should try strengthening your better friendships and give her a bit of space. Never folow her everywhere or anything like that or that will make you feel worse. At the moment she is not trying to use you, she is just confused- she knows she will get more popular by hanging with the cool kids but she dosn't want to let you down.
Hope I helped,
Zoinatrobe.
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yes definitely. i mean if you guyz were `close and then she all o a sudden got a new group to chill with thats cooler and she will only talk to you when there not there or when no one else is their o talk to then yes she is using you aslike a last resort.
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YES! you said it yourself, "she would only talk to me when it was conveinent for her." well.. yeah that's totally using you. talk to her about it and if she gets mad then .. don't be friends with her you're better than that.
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I dont think that she is really your "best friend" if she kinda blew you off like that. I think you should talk to her about if you guys are still friends or not. I know how you feel to I am kinda going threw the same thing. I hope I helped a little leave me another one if you want something else answered!! ♥Andie
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i think she is using you. just be like 'hey-bye' and walk by. dont feel bad if you start to act breezy with her. if she tries something about 'how you are supposewd to show love', then point out that she hasnt been showing much love when she ignores you.
**_Nicole_**
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She is not really your old friend any more. You need to stop being friends wit her, and if she calls you tell her you don't want to be friends wit her. She just hangs out with you when her new friends aren't there so they don't know you are her friend. Make a new bestfriend. ~Calie~
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Shes not using you but she just hangs out with you when no one is looking. She likes you but doesnt want other people to know. Which is rude so ditch her. Ignore her and stuff
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