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does it help you lose weight?
Yes.
They sell pills that basically clear your stomach out. Its not healthy unless a doctor prescribes them. Many celebrities go to places that suck the poop out, but that sounds incredibly disgusting to me.
what foods & drinks should you or shouldn't you be eating/drinking on your period??
i've heard people say there's certain foods that make you have cramps or something.
& if anyone knows how to make my period go away in 2 days [it started today] please let me know.
thanks a lot. [:
you should drink lots of water, and just healthy foods like fruits, vegetables, sandwiches, salads
try to stay away from greasy foods, sodas, chips.. junk foods in general. they will make you feel bloated and yuckkkky
& as far as i know.. theres nothing to make your period go away in a couple of days, it just goes away when it wants to. it sucks i know hahha
hope i helped
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my boyfriend and i were doing it one ngiht and i didnt know he taped it. and he showed it to all his friends they write whore on my locker and my desks and they always stare at me. i yelled at my boyfriend for it but he said i have a nice body and should show it some more. what should i do?
You have to get the tape. doesnt matter how you get it just get it. After you have the tape, then dump him. He can do lots of bad things with the tape that Im sure you wouldnt want. good luck :)
I have a Razr v3 and T-Mobile. This morning, it accidentally ran through the wash and it doesn't work anymore. The little circle that shows if it has water damage is red. Will T-Mobile let me get it replaced for a new Razr v3?
Tell them something like you left it in your pocket and it rained and now its not working.
or that you left it in the car while you went to the grocery store.
I accidently ran my ipod through the washer/dryer because it was in my pocket, and apple replaced it for me:)
Well since it is soon going to be summer, i'm going to start wearing bathing suits. I already have a workout routine, but I need to know some good exercises for my butt, and thighs. I'm skinny in all other areas, but it's just my butt is like kinda big. This is kind of gross to explain but it kind of overlaps the top of my thighs. My thighs aren't THAT BIG, but I want to tone those up a little too. What are some good excersises for these areas and how many should I do? Also should I hold weights?
squats furshure!
do lots of lunges, and don't eat fatty stuff, things like donuts, twinkies.. haha
i hope you look hot this summer haha, good luck!
I just found a Cartier gold clock, shaped like a bear, in my room. According to my parents, I got it for my thrid birthday from a friend(eleven years ago.) I was wondering if anyone knew how much it was worth?
ps PLEASE don't tell me to google it.
www.ebay.com
I went to get what were supossed to be highlights last year. First of all, THEY WERE WHITE BLONDE! Second, they dyed ALL of it! Not just highlights! So, I freaked out and a month later I went to another hair salon, they made it red. THEN about two months ago, I went to another place and the guy added some brown and blonde highlights, so now it looks BARELY any better, but not as bad. The way it looks is really lowering my self esteem and how I feel about the way I look. It's already grown out about 3 inches, though. I seriously think I will kill someone if they screw up my hair again. & my parents will probably scream if I ask if I can go to another salon and fix it. What should I do?
I had blonde hair, and everyone always loved my hair, but I recently went to a random salon and got a terrible cut & color job, she dyed my entire head super blonde, it was just ugly.
what I did was I went to my normal hairstylist and he tried to repair my hair to make it similar to the colors that it was before. I would advise you to let it grow out and once its better, get natural highlights that make your hair look good.
well i'm very attractive, but i'm about 40 pounds overweight. I hate myself because of it. I'm not about to try to lose it again though. I'm just not going to even try.
My point is, how can I feel confident about myself at my current weight?
I'm a really talented actress and singer. but that doesn't help me.
you should try to wear clothes that flatter your shape, magazines like seventeen and cosmogirl will sometimes have articles on the best clothes for different shapes. just remember that some naturally skinny girls would die for curves!
okay so we all know the f*** it song by eamon right?? of course and theres another song that a girl sings in response to this song with the same beat and stuff can someone tell me the name of that song or who its by??? pleaseee its driving me nuts [and i wanna look at the lyrics for it]
thanks in advance lovers!
the song is f*** you right back by frankee or something i think haha
ok well i want to look really pretty for school so my school is strict...no nail polish, no dying of hair, no hanging earrings, no lipstick 'lipgloss' or not so noticeable lipstick...you know? my hair has no bands is a dark brown and even, i usually put it to the side or put it behind my ears....i need a good hair style, my lobes are a little weird so its kind of embarrassing to show them too much. i want my hair to grow really long, but i cant cut it..any ideas besides curling? ..also any ways where i can wear make up, to be able to step up the looks without the teachers really noticing anything? please help me!
you can try using brownish, skin tone eyeshadows, and coverup just to cover dark circles or anything else. light colored lip balms, and you can use eyelash curlers with mascara.
the hair you can use a straightener or blowdry your hair upside down to give it volume.
hope i helped! :)
I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you.
shut up some people have no where else to turn and besides, its their choice who they go to so just mind your own business.
I'm not outgoing, i am rather shy and quiet. I have friends but its hard to make others, especially when my best friend has about 20 other friends that I can't seem to become friends with no matter how hard i try and I just sort of seem left out. and i dont seem desparate when I am trying to make friends with people, so that cant be the problem. how do I become outgoing? Please, pleas help me.
I used to be so shy also, and all i did was to think, "who cares?". When you realize that other people are shy, it is kind of boring talking to them. Dont be afraid to laugh at yourself or make jokes. If your around people who joke alot, tease them or something. Just simply be like "Oh yea your hair was real great that day", if theres a conversation about that topic.
13/f. is it totally weird i get "urges" a lot. i'm only 13 but i always feel kinda "sexual". like, this might weird but i have this little stress ball and sometimes i use it as a sex toy. is this really bad? i'm gonna wait till i get married of course. but sometimes i feel bad cause i do that, or think about sex. i need some advice guys! thanks!
im 14 and i have the same urges. like whenever i see my boyfriend i want to like jump on him haha. hormones hormones hormones
Hi, it's me again. I'm the woman who was studying in the Columbia law school library (and this student, cynthia, told everyone that she saw me masturbating in the library).
Obviously, I wasn't masturbating in public, and the situation is really embarassing because it has gotten out of hand--literally, it seems that about one-half of the law school students in this city think that I was masturbating in the library and believe her.
I haven't confronted her or any of the dozens of women whom I have heard repeating this rumor (because I live in the area of columbia, I have to run into law students on a daily basis, unfortunately).
Today, while I was riding the subway from the gym to my apartment, I overheard a girl telling her friend, "That girl is schizophrenic. She was masturbating in the library. Definitely, something is wrong with her."
I'm _SO_ tired of hearing this over and over everyday. All my friends told me NOT to confront anyone about it because they believed that showing a reaction would only "add fuel to the fire" and "make you look crazy if you actually address the rumor to anyone speaking about you."
However, ignoring the rumor repeated on a daily basis (overheard by me) for seven months has not mitigated the situation/drama. I still hear it repeated on a daily basis, not once, but at least two or three times a day. It's sort of starting to annoy me--I thought that it would die down by now, but it obviously hasn't.
I don't know what to do. My friends and family told me, "Just ignore it. People can't be so immature or foolish as to believe it. They'll eventually find something better to talk about." But, the situation hasn't changed. In fact, the spread of the rumor has only intensified. On a daily basis, I have to hear my name and "masturbating in public" in the same sentence on a daily basis.
How should I gracefully deal with this situation without further jeopardizing my reputation? I'm afraid of confronting the women who talk about me, because I know that they will just make matters worse by spreading more rumors about me.
On the other hand, the "sticks and stones--ignore the rumor, hon" advice that my friends gave me obviously isn't working, seven months after the rumor originated.
Lastly, I had to deal with another ridiculous rumor a few years ago. I was in an all-female program, and in the beginning of the year, a woman spread a rumor about me that I was a "clepto overeater" because I ate two yogurts from her fridge while I was staying over at her apartment for the weekend. (She sent a mass email to the entire program that I was a "bitch" and that i was a "clepto overeater" and never to invite me over to anyone's apartment because I will eat their yogurt in the morning if i'm staying overnight. And for the rest of the year, women would whisper about me being "a bitch who stole people's yogurt when they are in the shower" if i stay over at their place for the weekend. (She told me to help myself to her fridge. After she came out of the bathroom, I apologized when I saw the angry look on her face and told her I would replace the yogurts later. She just shook her head and then sent an incendiary email the next day to the program listserv.)
Seriously. I'm not the best person when it comes to handling situations with angry women very well. How should I deal with this situation? Ignoring it hasn't worked. I just want people to stop gossiping about me. (I'm really nerdy, and not that interesting.) Any advice would be appreciated... THanks! :)
Okay I don't believe this at all and I think you should stop trying to get attention because you've posted the same thing like 5 times and you are obviously a crazy person. Even if it was true, who really gives a shit if you are masturbating in the library?
15/f
so theres a halloween party on halloween and your supposed to dress up
i have three costumes in mind a pirate, witch, and angel
and im not sure which one to pick so i just want people's opinion im leaning towards the pirate and then the angel and then the witch but wht do you think
pirate: http://howcool.com/catalog/product_info.php?products_id=12582
angel: 1. http://www.fredericks.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=Holiday2002&category%5Fname=Costumes-Fun+and+Flirty+Costumes&product%5Fid=90428
angel: 2. http://howcool.com/catalog/product_info.php?products_id=12545
( i think i like angel one better its a cute corset and fits well when i tried it on but idk)
witch costume: http://howcool.com/catalog/product_info.php?products_id=12501
i need your're opinon which one i should be (ps. please dont tell me there too skimpy, etc)
i really like the second angel one, i think its cute. :)
ok well , if you guys are down with "labels" , you can deff say im hardcore emo . so as you can imagine , i like lots of eyeliner . see , my mom wont let me wear makeup to school and im in the 7th grade . its so gay . she doesnt understand that the way i dress and do makeup and do my hair is how i express myself through ways other then talking . any ideas in what i can do to either talk her into it , or different styles that arent too much OR SOMETHING ! thanks in advanced . hanna
I was like you, but in a year you will def. thank your mamaa.
many ppl say that crunches r better than sit ups but i want to know how to do a crunch and what is its difference from a sit up
i prefer crunches, and you cross your calves over your knees and just kind of do half situps, they dont hurt your neck as much:)
13/f gonna be 14.
kay. my birthday is october 23rd. and i wanted to have a party somewhere. BOTH boys and girls. but i cant have it at my housee. any ideas.? any games ?
thanks in advance!
KNOTTS SCARY FARMM!
i went with like 8 of my friends, it was so fun!
ok i was at a football game with my best friend savannah and her boyfriend jonathan.jonathan had his best friend jacob there with him .me and jacob are good friends and we flirt alot!!!we were all getting ready to leave and jacob called me over and asked me out face to face.well i guess i "like,like" jacob but i want to get to know him a little better.well when he asked me NO was running through my head but came out as yes.and we really like each other and he is so sweet and funny.so should i break up with him and get to know hi or stay together and get to know him better???pleazz help!!!!!:)
I would say you should stay together and get to know him more. Because if you break up with him, you may not even get a chance to get to know him:/
Good luck!
Ok, im a 14/f, and i don't think im fat AT ALL, but, i would like to lose a little weight in my stomach area, i have a little fat like in the belly button area(lol sry it sounds weird) but like ok i am a totaly prep and i love wearing the tight shirts, but then again i hate it because i have that bulge and u can see my fat, my friend says im stuped because she thinks its just muscle, but i seriosuly don't think so, but does any one have any good ideas so loose some weight in the tummy area, and i also eat alot when im depressed, and lately ive been eating alot because my boyfriend is being a jerk, so any one have any ideas on what to eat, and how to loose a little weight in the tummy area?
crunches every SINGLE NIGHT.
dont get off schedulee:)
just get out of the house, go shopping, go for a walk, listen to music, computer, anything possible but eating.
hope i helped