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sex tape


Question Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 11:02 pm

my boyfriend and i were doing it one ngiht and i didnt know he taped it. and he showed it to all his friends they write whore on my locker and my desks and they always stare at me. i yelled at my boyfriend for it but he said i have a nice body and should show it some more. what should i do?

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Hollister answered Saturday May 5 2007, 5:29 pm:
You have to get the tape. doesnt matter how you get it just get it. After you have the tape, then dump him. He can do lots of bad things with the tape that Im sure you wouldnt want. good luck :)

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bugsy answered Friday May 4 2007, 10:47 pm:
you really need to dump this guy....hes a jackass.goodluck.
TL4PL

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DepthofHeart answered Friday May 4 2007, 6:38 pm:
I would not stay with him, why would he want other guys to see you naked. He's a jackass and you should break up with him. He has no respect for you. If he really cared about you he wouldn't have done that to you, especially without telling you.

::Jasmine::

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PrEpCuTiE442 answered Friday May 4 2007, 4:44 pm:
yeah well first of all. how is he even your bf if he is gonna do that to you and let his friends laugh at you. I say you dump the loser and find someone that respects you before you are known as a hoe. He is just a horn dog and needs to go walk the streets and find himself a hoe. Okay you can do better.. no girl deserves that, you deserve to be treated like a princess not a hoe.

<3 BREE

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emochick answered Friday May 4 2007, 4:10 pm:
dump the son of a bitch

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katie_babey answered Friday May 4 2007, 12:41 pm:
Im sooooooo sorry that happened to you! thats just so terrible. I would dump his fucking ass!!!! Thats sooo wrong to do that to a girl. Thats sooooo embarrassing. I would press charges right away. i wouldnt care that he said you have a nice body if you wanted to show it to the whole world you would be a pornstar! he had no right to video tape that without asking you. Im sorry again and i hope everything turns out better for you! Try to ignore those immature boys. its hard to do that i know but if they say soemthing to you kick their ass's haha!
ok well if you need anymore help wih anythin or need someone to talk too you can wrtie me in my inbox :]
-katelyn

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ciao77 answered Friday May 4 2007, 12:42 am:
I can't believe he did that to you! What an immature bastard (and I'm sure I'm also speaking on your behalf). Not only is that immoral, it's ILLEGAL! You should definately press charges. He violated your privacy, he went and showed all his idiot friends. You have no business being with this moron.
A) Yell at him, tell him off...if that helps you get it off your chest more.
B) DUMP HIM IMMEDIATELY!! And DO NOT give him another chance. He doesn't deserve it.
C) Press charges. He did something far from acceptable. This is against the law and it hurt and humiliated you.

I'm so sorry for what happened to you. This guy is a complete idiot who had no right whatsoever to do that to you. He was probably trying to be cool, but it the end he'll pay for what he did...that's not cool.

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XoXoXoXo77 answered Friday May 4 2007, 12:32 am:
DUMP HIM. you dont deserve to be treated like that. you trusted him enough to have sex with him and then he goes and shows all of his friends how "cool" he is. what a jerk.
im sorry this had to happen to you.

xoxox good luck

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LadyH answered Thursday May 3 2007, 11:45 pm:
Goodness, does everyone have loser boyfriends or what? Dump him & press charges. Simple as that.

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TheWallflower answered Thursday May 3 2007, 11:37 pm:
Dump him and press charges

Destroy the tape

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TheDayTripper answered Thursday May 3 2007, 11:35 pm:
Press charges.I'm not kidding.That's possibly the worst violation of privacy possible,and no one deserves to be put through that.If you don't step up then he just might keep doing it,maybe even to other girls.

Don't be an idiot.

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shelbyl94 answered Thursday May 3 2007, 11:32 pm:
ok if i were you i would break up with him because taping two people having sex is just wrong. sex is suppost to be something that you share with someone that you love. you shouldnt be with someone that is going to take advantage of you like that.

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ohsnapxxiloveyou answered Thursday May 3 2007, 11:31 pm:
Wow, I am so sorry you had to expierence the embarassment of that, no girls sexual tendencies should ever be exposed without her consent. My advice is to sit your boyfriend down, and explain to him that you didn't appreciate what he did, and that you would like him to destroy the tape/give it to you, whatever you would like done with it. And ask that he not show it to anyone else. Because it hurt you or whatever you felt.

As far as the whore thing on your locker at school, I'd suggest going to some kind of amdinistator, and having the students who did it, suspended/RPC'd/expelled. That kind of behavior is absolutly ridiculous and childish.


Hope I've helped.
Let me know how things go.

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