Member Since: May 4, 2007
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Last Update: May 4, 2007
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14/f
okay the past few days i havent been eating. i mean i eat dinner..and thats it. i dont know i just dont want food there are many reasons behind it though.
- my mom wants the perfect skinny daughter
- my best friend was bulimic
- my ex told the new school i moved to that i cut
- ive been fighting with the world im a walking target to them
anyways ive tryed to throw up lately , not really to lose weight more or less because i dont like the feeling of food in my stomache. im really stressed lately and i just dont want to eat. my friends are worried but i just dont want food. i cant throw up any tips on that?
uhm i dont know am i on the verdge of an eating disorder but i dont think so because its not that im forcing myself away from food, its just that it doesnt really appeal to me.
and dont tell me to just start eating. i dont want that i want to loose weight. (link)
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well its because you are to stressed try not to do things to make you so stressed
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13/f i get me and my best friends into everything. but mainly me and either joe or lisa i just try anything i can as in sports of camps or even hairstyles. i usually end up messing up or breaking something or some bone. i just have fun. i like trying new things anything new. lately lisa makes excuses when i ask if she wants to sign up for a sport or anything. i tell her she doesnt have to. but shed rather lie to me. shes not really my partner in crime anymore lol she doesnt do anything with me at all really. we do go to the mall thats pretty much all. she cries saying she has no friends. and that i never do anything with her.
too much drama. now i guess i have a new bestfriend and her to but im in a group of really close friends. my other bestfriend joe is a guy he will do anything with me hes been one of my bestfriends for years. lisa doesnt like him. she always tries to pick my friends i Hate when she does that! so i just go with who i want. am i wrong for doing that. she doesnt think guys and girls should be bestfriends or even in a group. she doesnt like my group of bestfriends all 8 of us are extremely close5 girls 3 guys and then theres her. she tries to pick my friends and she hates all my friends. i am not hers she doesnt own me. i do what i want when i want. im pretty much her only friend. i invite her to everything with my other friends but she just hates them. no wonder why she doesnt have friends she tries to pick for other people.
what do i do? is it bad i love to try anything i can? ive tried almost every sport or thing i may not be the best but i have the most fun. am i too extreme? whats wrong with me? how do i get her to stop lieing to me? is she a best friend? why does she try to pick my friends? i ignore it and be friends with whoever i want. can guys and girls be bestfriends in a group or just one and one? how do i help her? anything else pleaseeee. (link)
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no its a good thing who cares whaat your frieands think just do it
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ok so alot of my friends have hooked up with guys (as in making out) and im going out with this guy who i really like (and he likes me) to the movies. i know that its gonna happen but hes "experienced" haha. i dont wanna sound like 4 but can u give me any advice so im not completely terrible? thanks! (link)
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go with the flow
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i used to masterbate
and i dont know it felt weird like i was rubbing my hand against something like rigid
inside of my vagina
it felt weird like not painful but a very awkward feeeling and i dont know i just didnt like it like my nails would rub on the rigidness
and idk
is that normal ? (link)
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yes it is just use vibraters
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and i dont know, we're sorta growing apart cuz this ordeal. We've been friends for not even a year, but we're really close friends already. what do i do to keep our friendship? Do i act like i agree with her?
thx.
kp:) (link)
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of course girls love when you agree with them
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my boyfriend and i were doing it one ngiht and i didnt know he taped it. and he showed it to all his friends they write whore on my locker and my desks and they always stare at me. i yelled at my boyfriend for it but he said i have a nice body and should show it some more. what should i do? (link)
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dump the son of a bitch
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I don't know if I liked it or hated it, it was a mix, what do you people feel about smoking? How about alcohol?
I don't think much about it but, i dunno.
thx
kp:| (link)
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dont do in the first place its so bad for your health
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during puberty where I think about sex a lot, and kinda get attracted to it.
I kinda sneek into my parents rooms and look at their porno videos, its sooo BAD. But i can't stop looking at that stuff.
And sometimes I go to websites with pictures, bad pictures.
I wanna stop, but cant, what do I do?!
thx
kp:\ (link)
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dude thats normal its ok you will grow out of it
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My girlfriend has an eating disorder. I wish nothing but the best for her, but she keeps eating less and less. She keeps a daily, sometimes weekly count of calories and tries not to go over 1000 calories a day, as opposed to the daily 2000. Additionally, she tries to exercise daily, sometimes twice a day, if she felt like she gave in to eating a certain food. What do I do to help her? I've tried being there for her and talking her through it, but nothing seems to get to her. She explained to me how 'eating healthy' for her was staying away from any kinds of fat, carbs, and just overall eating less. Her color is starting to fade too. Instead of feeling good about losing any weight, she just uses that as more motivation to continue the process. She is borderline average weight and under weight, but I still don't feel like this is healthy for her. I know it's not. When I bring up the problem, it usually ends up with the same 'it's my own body' conclusion...and she refuses to seek medical attention. What do I do? How can I get through to her? (link)
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tell someone
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ive fallen in love with my bestfriend. hes so awesome and funny and all and he isnt serious very often. how do i ask him out?
thanks so much. (link)
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just srtaight up ask him if you dont now it could be to late
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It's 2:16 right now so I have 4 hours until I give this kid ive liked for the longest time a note.. explaining him something that emplys that I like him and then im ganna ask him something. Im ganna ask him if im just like Daniele.. which is a supa prep who he always comlains about and i wanna kno if he says the same things to her that he says to me about her.. and If he gives me the right answer Im ganna ask him if he wants to go out and see what he says..
I NEED SOMEONE TO TELL ME NOT TO DO THIS!
Ok nooo dont tell me that I just cant sleep because im worried and no ones up to tell me what a dumb idea this is so this is my last resort. I wanna do it really in the morning because i wont see him in the after noon and I dont kno if i should do this I mean im not the prettiest girl but I would do anything for him.. and I dont wanna keep waiting.. it isnt a movie where they have to keep it going, streching it its been done and i want this to come together so smothly.. but im thinking that this is a bad idea.. give me ur opinion please and fast
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you should talk to him and just mabey he will like you back
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I sent advicenators.com thousand questions about my love life and they all answer "talk to her"
So I did but not face to face.(because I couldn't do it) So I told her to chat with me online and so she did.
I told her how I felt about her more than a friend. (we been friends for almost 8 years) and she respond:
"I don’t know what gender I like. (Yet), male, female, I’m not looking 4 a relationship at the moment so I not looking at them like that."
I told her I was glad that she told me the truth and we went on chatting.
Questions are:
What did she mean?
Did you think she doesn’t want to go out with me not yet unlit she is ready?
Should I wait for her?
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if you really cared about her that much you should wait for her until she is ready
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Before I go on, I have to say this is nothing bout me liking the guy and all that.
I have a good guy friend, we can really talk a lot and all. Just recently, we started talking more. It seems like we have endless things to talk bout, but today, we went out (it was the first time we went out) and I felt it was so... wierd...I don't know..it was awkward at times. It was like as if we were out on a date but we're not. It's actually just normal going out like friends going out but it didnt felt like it. It felt like a whole stupid first date thing. I hated it. Whenever I go out with a guy, just a guy alone, I'd get really wierd. Like I'd try to minimise any actions or whatsover. If I were to accidentally hit someone, I won't dare to say sorry because I'm afraid of him looking at me, or him having his attention on me. I become very self conscious. Like when we were ordering food, I don't dare to order the food. I leave it to him to do it. I don't know. And I DON"T EVEN like the guy! I really really don't. Everything just goes wrong. I become like some wierd, nerdy, stupid uncool asshole. How can I stop that? I would very much like to be his good friend, and I don't want to like him and I don't want him to like me either. Do you people know what I'm talking about? I don't even know what I'm asking. BAH. Whatever. (link)
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o if he is you good guy frieand break him down easy tell him the truth he may be hurt by it but at least you will both be happy in the end
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female i just turned 13. my mom ruined everything. i had a carnival at school today. she was the chaperone and one other person for my grade. yesterday me and my bestfriend(a guy) had a great time at our track practice. my first time doing track in my life his second. im good at it i guess. he really cares for me. we do the hurdles and high jump and a relay together. im bad at hurdles i hit half of them and fell over two. he was there for me he laughed at me(in a nice fun way we're like that to eachother) i have fun with him alot. we also love eachother which we held it off for a longtime because i didnt wana lose my bestfriend. id rather have a bestfriend than a boyfriend. but we hug alot and we kiss. we just love eachother. he was going to ask me out today at school. my mom is very controling. she hates my friends and she wont let any come over ever were the punky goths. hes real prep. but i love him he loves me everyone knows. my mom doesnt let me wear the chains and every thing but i do when i leave home. she always says everything wrong about my friends. well my mom would keep him away and always watching she stops us dancing me and him or my other friends even me with my (girl)friends as friends. we did the music my mom was always watching. i just hate it. in her words 'stay away from all thoes fucked up punk no lifes' MY MOM SAYS THAT TO ME at the party usually anywhere. my mom doesnt even know the real me. i have to hide my music and clothes and everything. on my ipod i make my songs i like 'hidden' so you have to hold two buttons to see them. my mom ruined it all. she stops me from dancing as friends with him and my other friends. WHATS SO WRONG WITH ME! my BEST FRIEND canot even comeover ever. so i see him at school and parties or when i go to the mall. i yell at my mom she doesnt leave me alone.
how do i get her to leave me alone? is there anything wrong with hugging and kissing my bestfriend romanticly? how do i get my mom to stop and leave me alone? why is it so bad for my bestfriend to be a guy? how do i get my mom to leave me alone shes making my life worse ill wear even more black? why it so bad. and anything else i forgot. please im going crazy (link)
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hey what i would do is tell yuor mom how you feel and shit like that you are getting older you should make your own choices in life and tell you want to wear black tell her it dosnt mean anything bad i wear black everyday all you have to do is sit down and talk to her when you are reay noy when she is ready.
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