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eating
14/f
okay the past few days i havent been eating. i mean i eat dinner..and thats it. i dont know i just dont want food there are many reasons behind it though.
- my mom wants the perfect skinny daughter
- my best friend was bulimic
- my ex told the new school i moved to that i cut
- ive been fighting with the world im a walking target to them
anyways ive tryed to throw up lately , not really to lose weight more or less because i dont like the feeling of food in my stomache. im really stressed lately and i just dont want to eat. my friends are worried but i just dont want food. i cant throw up any tips on that?
uhm i dont know am i on the verdge of an eating disorder but i dont think so because its not that im forcing myself away from food, its just that it doesnt really appeal to me.
and dont tell me to just start eating. i dont want that i want to loose weight.
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well its because you are to stressed try not to do things to make you so stressed
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It's all in your head.
You've allowed these illusions of your mom wanting the perfect skinny daughter, coupled with a bulimic friend and ex's lies and pent up angers to stress you to the point of illness.
If you don't feel like eating-- don't. Eat when you are hungry.
But the first thing I would do is have a heart to heart with your mother about these things and thoughts and how you feel. You'll find out most of it is BS and imagined.
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1. Your mom is horrible and a fucking retard. One of the main reasons anorexia and other eating disorders are so frequent in the american society is because of moms wanting skinny daughters or moms who deny their daughters have any problems.
2. Your best friend was bulimic and look at how she turned out, I doubt she's enjoying life much right now.
3. I don't think the real problem is that the school knows you cut, but rather that you do cut.
The main reason for eating disorders is because of emotional problems. And it's obvious you have them because you cut and you feel like you're fighting the world. Emotional problems make you feel insecure about yourself and they make you feel as if you have no control over your life. So, you turn to some abnormal eating habit for an answer. You'll feel that if you're skinny enough, everything will be better.
It's not going to. I recommend you stop cutting first and find other ways to release endorphins to make you feel better. One way is exercise. If you want to be skinny in a healthy way, exercise. Not eating will only make it worse. In fact, not eating is just a vicious cycle that won't stop. the less you eat, the worse you'll feel. THe worser you'll feel, the less you eat, the worser you feel, etc... It's a vicious cycle so don't get trapped in it.
I'd also recommend seeing at therapist to work out your problems. I wouldn't really so much confide in your mom because she's a horrible mother.
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ok, let me start by saying, eat! But listen to me all the way here!!
-maybe get/call a friend and start jogging sometime.
-rent an exercise video sometime maybe do that with a friend or family member.
-find a good sport that gets you active, and maybe make sure that sport is fun.
But DON'T stop eating meals.
Just bein helpful.
KP;)
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