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My name is Amber
I have been through a lot, a lot more than you'd think. I will answer any question you give me. You can take my advice, or just leave it alone, but DO NOT tell me it's bad advice. kay?

advice

I'm not sure if this is a sex question or not, but I'm asking anyways. >_<

When I think about certain things (fantasies I guess), white stuff ends up in my panites. Sometimes, it jsut happenes for no reason. There's is usually some in there every day for whatever reason. It's been happening for years and I'm starting to wonder if it's normal for not. Is in the same thing as "cum"? Sorry, I'm not very educated in the sex category.

By the way, I'm 15/F

Its called discharge, its not the exact same thing as cum, but it's similar. It just comes out during the day, its normal. More will come out like when you get really "happy", and maybe a while before your period, like when your pmsing. If it ever turns yellow or even yellowish that means you have an infection and should go to a doctor right away. HOPE I HELPED!

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I like this guy but I have heard that he may be gay is there any way of telling ?
please give me some answers

Ask him.

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well I`m a 14-year-old girl and I`d say I`m pretty mature for my age. Although I`m a freshman, I understand things that most kids in my grade wouldn`t. I`m in the highest English class and I find many upperclass men relating to me more then anyone, because they say that I don`t act like a Freshman, nor do I look like one. but thats the thing. I can barely relate to the kids in my grade, especially the boys. I`m not trying to steriotype, but its the majority of them. I hate when I try to talk to them and they just end up saying or doing something stupid. I don`t exactly WANT a boyfriend, but it`d be nice, but I can`t find one in my grade, and I`m not about to date an upperclass boy. It pisses me off because all of my friends have had a long-term boyfriend already, and I haven`t had one. I don`t know what to do! Any advice?

It doesn't really matter how old they are. If you find that you like one and they like you, I don't think there is ANY problem with that and I really don't think anybody else would. So what if all your friends have had one? Once you find somebody, go for it, no matter who it is.

HOPE I HELPED!

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Okay, well... I guess you can say I`m one of the go-to-girls in my school. A lot of people look to me for advice, and i`d say I have a lot of freinds but, few of them are with me on making the right descisions, my school, my grade; its so stupid! everyone`s two-faced, no ones honest... everyone in my grade [and I`m a Freshman] has done drugs, drinks on a regular basis, and/or has had sex or done something sexual. when I was in eigth grade, I had some amamzing teachers with whom I connected so closely with. They were like family; they always encouraged me to make the right descisions. well I am I mean, I`m not a goody-goody, I mean I flirt with guys and I mess around but I`m not even considering loosing my viriginty. && when it comes to drugs & alcohol? no way! thats just stupid. its trendy in my grade to get fxcked up and look like a mess. I don`t wanna get into that, not smoking, not drinking, not drugs. Its hard though when everyone thinks you`re a p*ssy because you won`t do the stuff they want to. I need some encouragement, or even advice, please.

Don't give in!
It's not worth it, trust me.
I am a freshman too and I gave in in the begining of the year and I want to stop soo bad but thats all that anyone ever does so I can't escape it!
Be the better person, and not giving in is a plus to never get caught, your grades will be good, you won't have to lie about it to your parents, and you'll be way more healthy than everyone that does do it!

STAY STRONG!

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so i have to give this 10 min speech. and i have no clue what topic to do. so far ive thought of

school dress codes
off campus lunchs
abortion
how technology is changing life.

but i feel those topics wont be good enought to last me 10 mins.

it can be either a persuasive speech or a informative speech.

please help me.
its part of my final.
and its due of friday january 12th.

Some other ideas...

-Animal testing
-Drunk Driving
-Marijuana legalization
-Myspace, addictions and such

HOPE I HELPED!

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In English yesterday, everyone was walking around talking because it was the last day of school before break. I jokingly told one of my friends I'd like to go give him a hug, and, long story short, before too long all the girls in the class were in on this. Everyone told me 'do it, do it' so I finally walked up and asked 'hey, could I get a hug?' He said yes, to my surprise, and gave me a really nice hug. =)
My question is, what can I do from here? I'm sure he probably picked up somewhere that I like him, but I'm not positive. Should I ask him to hang out over break? He lives right by me, and I see him around sometimes. So what can I do?

No, you don't want to freak him out, just wait until you see him next and just say hey, maybe give him your number if he doesn't already have it and gradually talk to him and such.

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I need help telling my mom that sometimes i am abused by my father for the stupidest reasons when she is at work. I feel very shy to tell her and i dont know if i tell her that the effect of me telling her will hurt my families future. i am the 2nd oldest of 4 kids and i am the one that gets hit by my dad the most. the other sumblings rarely are touched. my dad has very vast mood swings and once he ill be very nive nad a few minutes later he is going crazy.
i dont know what to tell my mom about this.
please help me.

go have a girls day out then once like you guys are talking and stuff be like mom can we talk about dad? then tell her.

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for christmas i want to get a black northface fleece..do you know where you can find them the cheapest?

-thanks

Online will probably be the cheapest.

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15/f
I like my brother's friend (17 years old), and he's really nice to me (says things like "You're magic" and "You're on fire") and he always opens my doors.

But he doesn't look at me much (unless he's talking to me)...even when he's sitting directly across from me, or when it's just me, my brother, and him. When I point something out to my brother, he looks at where I point but doesn't look at me.

By the way, he's very outgoing.

So, why doesn't he look at me? I'm not sure if he hates or likes me. And, could he like me?

It could mean he likes you but doesnt want your brother to know. and knows he cant and shouldnt like you. so he tries not to

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well my other question was about the boy who got really hott after i moved away and then like i was trying to get his attention...ya you would just have to read it. but, anyway, if we did start going out, what is something i could do to flirt with him and show him that im not completely prude, and im not a ho. like, ya, i know hold his hand and stuff but i mean, that can get boring, unless you really like the person, which i do, but whats something new i can do? oh ya and the only time i would see him is after lunch on break outside the school.

ask to hang out with him, like on the weekend or something but ask one of your friends to come too so its not akward. but yeah then just tell him you like him then, whats the worst that can happen? him telling you he doesnt like you back? so what!

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this boy used to call me like everynight and IM me and stuff and then at school be MEAN and like really rude in front of his friends. Than this weekend , he called me to hangout with him and his friend.... I couldnt because I was going somewhere. Than that night at like 2 am he called me twice.
The next day, I went for a walk and he saw me and screamed my name out of the car window and called me like right after that , and then i went for another walk and i saw him and his friend and he like talked to me for like a split second and then kinda ignored me.
Then that night, I IMed him [i never really IM him] and I said "hey is it raining where you live"
He says " Did I say you could IM me?"
I said "ugh no?"
He says "then dont talk to me"
then he says
"haha jk, but yeah its raining"
and i felt like shit.
Whats going on??


[by the way he has a girlfriend and im 13]

he is kind of a dick. He is most likely looking to cheat on his girlfriend, i know exactly what your talking about. yeah he just wants to be friends and most likely was just horny when he was flirting with you. he probably doesnt even know you exsist.

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Well I've Been Dating This Guy, I'm 13 He's 16, He Breaks Up With Me Constantly.. For The Dumbest Reasons.. He's Like My Twinn I Meann I've Only Known Him Like A Month.. The First Day I Met Him, We Really Hit It Off, Because We're So Alike.. After The Second Day Of Meeting Him, He Asks Me Out, I Say Yes.. Blah Blah Blah.. And I Had Never Met This Guy In Real Life, I Met Him Online Through My Friend Emily, Who I Had Also Met Online, But She Started Going 2 My School This Year... I Arranged To Meet Him In Real Life On Fridayy At The Moviess.. And He Was There,And I Was Just Thinking *OMFG He's Sooo HOTT, And He's Mine!* I Didn't Really Know This Guy, But I Talked To Him On The Phone And The Computer. He Kept Flirting With My other Friend Who Was There That Was Also His Friend.. And I Was Pissed Off.. After The Movie Was Over We All Went Our Seperate Wayss.. And My Friend Amber Comes Running Up To Me, She HATES This Guy Idk Why Tho.. And Me And The Guy Were Walkingg Down The Road, Because We Had About 40 Minutes Before I Had To Go Home. And I Have Never Kissed A Boy Beforee.. We Walked Down An Empty Alleyy And He Grabbs My Ass And Starts Making Out With Me.. Well Me Totally Confused, And I Had No Fuckingg Clue What I Was Supposed To Do.. And I Was Really Concerned That This Would Happen.. And He Had Like Slobered All Over Me And Soo I Was Thinking, He Would Be Mad If I Wiped His Kiss Off Wouldn't He?.. Now, I Need Advice What Are You Supposed To Do While Making Out With A Guy?, Especially A Hott, Experienced One.. Because I've Hung Out With Him 2 Times After That.. And He Says I'm A Good Kisser But I'm Not Sure If He's Just Saying That, Or What.. We're Broken Up For Now, But Not For Long, Because I Guess I'll Be Hanging Out With Him Tomorrow, Or Something, He Wrote Me A Really Long Note.. And He Won't Give It To Me Until I See Him Again.. Because He's Gayy.. I HATE That He Flirts With Every Single Girl He Talks Too.. It's Not Like I Wanna Be The Only Girl In His Life I Just Wanna Be The Only One That Matters.. I Know I'm Possesive But I Love Him Soo Muchh.. And It Hurts Soo Badd.. That He's Not Mine.. At The Moment.. What Do I Do?

well he is 16 first off and your 13, he doesnt want to be with you, cause your so young and he will be mocked. but he will use you. So either go along with it, or stop. your choice.

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okay, so my girlfriend and i have known each other for only over a year, and we dated for 5 months, then broke up (terrible for both of us) and she cut herself, now we are back together for 3 months and she still does it every so often... is there anything i can do to help her, becuase i know that she wants to stop, and every time she does it, she feels so terrible about it, it nearly makes her sick, and all of this is absolutly killing me, what can i do to help her?? please i only want good answers...

dont do anything to upset her, and dont be depressed in front of her cause that will make her depressed. and call her every once in while just to check up on her.

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i wanted to make one of those myspaces where they have those contest i understand how to make it and stuff but how do i get all those friends, like all the other ones have? Anything is apreciated

get other contest or layyoutt sites to W4W.

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any tips? im trying to cure myself from depression and be HAPPY. I'm trying to be positive and make the best of life. But it's sooo hard when things keep going wrong. It get harder and harder with every breath. so help me.
what can i do to keep my hopes up? what can i remind myself of to not lose faith? i need hapiness so badly. i dont wanna cry myself to sleep anymore. help anyone??

listen to happy mucic, it always helps me! like motion city soundtrack.

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ok me and my bf have been goin out for some time now and like he wants to finger me but ive never had that done before i mean i want to but im a lil nerveous like what do guys do when they are fingering you? and like should i shave down there or no? do i like wipe myself before he does it? i need all the help i can get
thanks

most boys dont like hair, so yes shave. and after he does it make sure you pee, my brother said that it cleans it out so you dont get infected. depending on if he knows what he is doing or not, he should just stick one or two fingers in and move them around, kind of. he will do it either until you get an orgasim or until you tell him to stop. most boys just do it while your making out so yeah HOPE I HELPED!

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Hey. In the spring me and this guy (joe) liked eachother. Then I messed things up and we don't talk much. The thing is i still want to be friends with him and hang with him. So in my town there is this haunted house and i want to go with him. I mean it doesn't have to be a date or anything. How can I ask him to go? I will see him at a party sometime in October.

Thanks for all the help!
ps: he has all these girls at his school though... (we don't go to teh same school)

ask him to go with you but have bunch of other people to go too so it will be like a party kinda and be like will you hold me if i get too scared? Hey, it worked for me once i got my first kiss that night i did that :)

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Okay
I dont think im pregnant,but im paranoid about it.
I had sex with a condom but then got close to doing it again without a condom , but we only did it for like 3 seconds and then I said stop because i was scared.
My boobs have been hurting lately and I had a stomach ache but I didnt throw up.
He tells me he thinks im fine and i hope hes right.

What should I do??

if this was less than 24 hours ago get morning after pills asap

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What is the dancing in Step Up and Save the Last Dance called? I know some of it is ballet, && street/breakdancing, but is it anything else?

I want to learn how to do it, so if know any websites about it, or how to learn it, it would be much appricated.

Hip-hop and freestyle basicly.

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hi, well why does the musical grease still appeal to a teen audience today, after 30 years of it being made. thanks.

Yes, its still the best movie ever. Besides the Goonies of course.

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