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is it wrong to think that u'r friends brother is good looking??????????????????????????

No...

♥ Melissa
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im going out with this girl sort off and we love each other and has said that to each other but i dont want to feel in love i dont want to be in love with her and i dont want her to love me back i dont no why its how i feel so i told her that and she said well i cant not tell u how i feel about u because i said can we jus like not say our feelings for each other but now she wont even talk to me what should i do?

Wow. Okay, well its not your fault because you just didn't feel in love with her. I think you should tell her that you're sorry, and you couldn't fall in love with her. And that you want to be friends. Hopefully she will understand!
♥ MELISSA ♥
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ok this is probably the stupidest question here, and if it gets deleted thats ok, im just curious.

now ive never done this, and dont plan on it, but if youre a girl, with a boyfriend, and you kiss(lips or french) a *gay guy* is that still cheating on your boyfriend?
lol. im sorry, im just curious and kind of want to see opinions on it.

Thats the funniest q i've ever heard! Anyway, its cheating no matter what!

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does anyone has any ides on how to put a background on myspace. I have one saved i just dont know how to put it on

On your setting click "upload" background. At least i think its like that. If not, go on a background website and get a code for a background.
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I have a round, reddish-white bump on my inner labia. My labia that it is on is swelling up and it hurts A LOT. My mom said it might be a labial cyst but I'm so scared I might have an STD. I haven't had sex before, but haven't done anything sexual for like a month or so.

Please don't delete this.. I'm really scared and need to know what's going on.

Wow. All i can say is GO SEE A DOCTOR!! Nobody and i mean nobody can help you on here. Get help.
♥ Melissa
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GOOD Luck

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I was due for my period about 10 days ago and it sitll hasnt come...is this bad??and when will it come again?
(i have had it for about 3 or 4 years now)

rate 5's for anything

ohh and im not pregnant

Its normal. Sometimes your period will come a week or a little more later. Your period will be VERY thick though, so dont ask about it on here. Its normal, lol.

♥ Melissa
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what is a moderator (or however you say it) for advicenator's?? please help i rate 5's

Moderators is the word, lol.
Go to this website http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=13
it tells you about moderators.

♥ Melissa

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how do you become a "moniter"(i THINK thats the right word) on advicenators????

Go to http://advicenators.com/mod.php?mode=makeme
Make sure you quailfy for all the things they list. Then, you can be a moderator.

♥ Melissa ♥
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ok so i have a yamaha acoustic guitar and i really want to put my tray on it but there is no like, idont know what they are called...strap holders? (the little things that you put the hole on that start around to keep it on) so what im wondering is-is there any way to put them on/have them put on and how much will it cost?


thanks ahead of it all♥

They're called guitar straps. Oh and at this one place guitar center guitar straps are $39.00.
Go to this website < http://www.guitarvision.com/mf/mf_frameset.htm
it shows you some guitar straps and prices.

♥ Melissa ♥
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Edit:
OHH OOPS SORRY
thanks for the 5 anyway!
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Edit:
Okay i finally found what you were looking for. =) Okay go to http://www.guitarvision.com/mf/mf_frameset.htm
in the search box to the left type in "guitar strap holders" it'll show you a "Rebel Straps Skull Lighter Holder Strap" its $29.00 and on sale. HOPE I HELPED THIS TIME!!
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what is the best kind of straightener?

ive had 2 different brands and both of them have at some point stopped heating up (the light goes on, so i know the power is on)
the first kind i had was a ceramic tools and the second was a vidal sassoon.

any ideas why they keep dying on me? and suggestions for a good ceramic straightener?

I use a Revlon Ceramic Hair Straightner. Its perfect!! You can get it at target!!
♥ Melissa ♥
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what do emo and scene kids wear? * clothing, hair, makeup, shoes, jewelry...ect.


ill rate 5's!

For hair its usually dark and very short. Their shirts and pants are really tight. For make-up they wear DARK eyeliner. And for jewerly pretty
much peircings.
♥ Melissa
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For a class in school, I have to do a debate against someone in front of the whole class. My topic is lowering the drinking age. I am AGAINST it..(con) I need to be able to talk for 2-5 minutes with GOOD facts, statistics, etc..about why I think that the drinking age should NOT be lowered. Then we are going to argue it out til one of us wins! I am doing this debate against my b/f! He is going to argue that it should be lowered. So I need some good facts that are reasons to be AGAINST lowering it! I am also afraid that I am not going to know what to say b/c I will get nervous and embarrassed! please help me out. If you need any more information please let me know!! I need help!!!!!!!! Any information you can give me will be great! (advice on how to not feel stupid/get embarrassed OR any facts about my topic..) thanx!

I dont know many facts or anything but here are some websites:
http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/teens/a/aa010730a.htm

http://www2.potsdam.edu/hansondj/YouthIssues/1055938929.html

http://www.emaxhealth.com/63/1652.html

http://www.webmd.com/content/article/23/1728_57445?src=Inktomi&condition=Home%20&%20Top%20Stories

Hopefully they helped. I didnt really read over them, i just googled "drink age."

Dont be embarrased if you lose. Be confident. Like pretend you're going to win money. Say 1000000 dollars if you win. That should keep you concentrated! :)

♥ Melissa
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How do you make something in a picture in color and the rest in black and white? Like selective coloring or something?

Download a program like Adobe Photoshop. It'll guide you on how to do it. Sorry i dont know how!!!
:(
♥ Melissa
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i dont no what to be for holloween i want to be something cute and really sexy cuz i am going to a holloween party and the guy i like is gonna be there...any ideas??

You could be a belly dancer. Thats what im being. Heres a picture i managed to get off the internet if you're intrested.
http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDetail.aspx?ProductID=17541&PCatID=&ccatid=
^ thats how mine looks like.

You could also be a ...
*sexy nurse (sorry i dont have a picture)
*cat woman < http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDetail.aspx?ProductID=17439&PCatID=adultcostumes&ccatid=adultsexycostumes
*super girl < http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDetail.aspx?ProductID=18814&PCatID=adultcostumes&ccatid=adultsexycostumes
*sexy witch < http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDetail.aspx?ProductID=17906&PCatID=adultcostumes&ccatid=adultsexycostumes
*tinkerhell (haha it said hell) < http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDetail.aspx?ProductID=17237&PCatID=adultcostumes&ccatid=adultsexycostumes
*little bo peep < http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDetail.aspx?ProductID=19322&PCatID=adultcostumes&ccatid=adultsexycostumes
*bumble bee < http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDetail.aspx?ProductID=10655&PCatID=adultcostumes&ccatid=adultsexycostumes
*FBI girl (this ones hot) < http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDetail.aspx?ProductID=10259&PCatID=adultcostumes&ccatid=adultsexycostumes
*bat vixen < http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDetail.aspx?ProductID=19540&PCatID=adultcostumes&ccatid=adultsexycostumes

These are just some i saw on this website : http://www.buycostumes.com
Click Adult or Child on the left side depending on what size you are. But all of the costumes i listed are adult. The children section doesnt have any sexy costumes.

Check out the website and have fun!!

♥ Melissa
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I don't know what to do for halloween this year!!!I'm 13 and I'm over the whole trick or treating thing and the nearest bon fire to me has been abolished and there are other ones near to me but thats where all the bad crowd hang around and you'd be lucky enough not to get your ass blown up by fire-works.
Please help!!!

I see you're a "big kid" now aren't you?? Well, have a party and get drunk since you're a "big kid" now. Why not?? Hah, im funny. Just have a party and do what you "big kids" do out there.


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ok there is this guy. i talk to him on the phone every night. i really like him and i know he likes me too cause he said it to me on the phone yesterday. i had a secret i wanted to tell him which was that i liked him. he was trying to get the secret out of me for days. and everytime he would always say "you only have one life to live, so live it to the best," cause he didnt want me to be afraid of telling him the secret. so i told him and hes like, "well i like you too...where do we go from here?" and i said i dont know and there was silence for about 4 seconds lol. then he kinda chnaged the subject and after a while his mom was yelling at him to get off so we had to hang up. i can't help thinking about that "one life to live" thing though. should i ask him out? the only problem is that he isn't really allowd to talk to girls. he told me that if his mom answered then to pretend that he had the wrong number or just pretend to be a guy lol. but if his dad answered then it was ok. so i dont really know what to do. does this mean he won't ask me out? i really really really like him and i really want to go out on a date with him. what do you think, should i ask him out or wait until he asks me?

Ask him out !! Its better to be rejected than to not try!!
♥ Melissa ♥
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What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!

I'll rate honestly.

It simple. Just say sure. Unless you dont like the guy. If you're JUST looking for a boyfriend, and not because you like him, then dont say yes.

♥ Melissa ♥
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can anyone help me think of some love songs that are about knowing someone for a long time& then falling in love with them? I'm trying but I keep running a blank! thanks in advance! :D

Like You- Bow Wow & Ciara
My Boo- Usher & Alicia Keys
and
Dilemma-Nelly & Kelly Rowland

♥ Melissa
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ok i think im a horrible kisser i dont actually know i never asked anyone if i was so im just curious what is hmm how to explain this what is a good way to kiss someone like how would you do it that they would definetly like it and not be a bad kisser??

Nobody can tell you EXACTLY how.
Here are some good websites
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
http://www.virtualkiss.com
^ there are LOTS of tips right there
♥ Melissa
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i had a boyfriend for almost 3 years we did everything for eachother i thought he loved me but i guess not...i found out he cheated on me 3 times and he is in the military..he got stationed in germany met a girl and brought her home..wat should i do??

If he cheated on you the same thing is going to happen to the german girl. Move on. Unless you want to find him in bed with 3 other girls... again.
♥ Melissa
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