Heyy Everyone! My Name is Samantha Lynn. I'm 13 years old. I wouyld like to be a Physcologist in the fiture so I can help people out with their problems so I'm starting with Advicenators! Ask me a question and you can garentee it will be answered! You can IM me on GaudQueen490 or email me at Batontwirlers_26@yahoo.com if you don't want it to appear in my coulum....Heres a little bit about me...I LOVE Music! I'm absolutly obsessed with Elvis Presley! I love Green Day, All American Rejects, Simple Plan, Fallout Boy, and many others! My favorite type of music is rock but i also enjoy rap, rock n' roll, a little country, a little gospel (( only Elvis Presley gospel )), and that's all. I'm in seventh grade and I do pretty well in school... I'm in gifted but I have no common sense haha...I LOVE my friends! theyre so frickin awesome... Kori, Jordan (( H )), Chelsey, Acacia, Taylor, Rachel, Karissa, Holly, Meghan, Emily, Domenique, Chelsea, Jordan (( B )), Ian, Eric, Joanna, Allyson, Erika, Joe, Tyler, Mike, Destinie, Rachel, Lindsay, Sabrina, Shelby, Maria, Courtney, Miranda, Jessika, Jessica, and many others
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Well there is one girl kathy that i have known for 3 years and were good friends you know were there for each other. And then there is this girl brittany. Well Brittany and me have a good bit in common. And i was talking to her and she said that tomorrow she is going to go to a birthday ball and dump the boy she is currently going out with and ask the boy she really likes out, which is me. Well the thing is it seems ALL my friends are enemies. not just say britaany and kathy. But i really dont know what to do. I dont think kathy will stop talking to me by no damn means cause of what all we been through together and the fact we have been there for each other. But i really wouldnt mind going out with brittany since we got a good bit in common. And also as far as me and kathy i have wanted to go out with her since like last october and feel like one day something could happen between me and kathy but really dont know when. So my question is should i go out with brittany since it seems we got alot in common or wait and hope something happens between me and kathy? Eithere way i really feel me and kathy will be there for each other i really do. (link)
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well there are a few things that you could do...you could go out with britany and maybe if it doesnt work out you could give it a shot with kathy or you could tell britany no and explain why and then maybe ask kathy out...its your choice here you just have to decide which one you like more ... you could try writing down all the good things about both of them and whoever has the most good qualities that you like you could go out with or you could listen to your heart...Good luck and I hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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okk my friend likes this guy. `nd i know for a fact he doesnt like her. me `nd him hung out the other night `nd she called me. `nd shes like oh hes wit u let me talk to him .. so she was talkin `nd stuff .. `nd he got off `nd he was all like "why did u make me talk to her shes so fuckin annoying", then he was goin on about that for a while.
`nd i kinda like him too .. but my friend would get mad at me but he doenst like her .. `nd shes like the kinda girl who juss gets over guys really quick .. but i dont know what to do .. b/c he doesnt like her .. `nd theres chance he might like me .. i juss dont know (link)
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try to hook her up with someone elswe...maybe tell her that you heard from someone that someone liked her((fill in that someone with a name!)) shell prolly forget all about him if this guy is decent! that will leave the other guy all to you! Good Luck and I Hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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well my ex boyfriend is always sitting next to this girl Kaitlin at lunch... and it really makes me mad! im so jealous that hes like basically in "love" with her when i cant get him to go back out with me! i guess im trying to say... how do i get him to like me again..? DONT say, talk to him or that kinda crap! im trying to win him over! ((will rate 5's)) (link)
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well maybe you can like someone else and try to get him jealous and get your mind off of him...you can also try to hook someone up with this kaitlin girl...one of those things has to work...Hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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how old do u have to be in order to get a tan from a tanning bed? (link)
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they wont let you in if you are under 12 but untill you are 18, you need a parents signature...Hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help (link)
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well maybe you should ask her brother first...try and get on his rly good side...i think that would work...Good Luck and I hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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My very very good friends birthday is coming up. We just started being friends a month ago, when I met him & he's super cool. I've been thinking of getting him some presents, will you tell me if you think it's okay: Headphones [for his ipod because his are broken & they sound crappy] & the exorcist [original movie, he really wants to see it.] then i'm going to buy him a card & balloons, and also I wanted to make him a small cake. I'm really tight on money, so i was also wondering do you think he'd be okay w/ just me making him a cake and decorating it all pretty? instead of buying a cake? thanks so much. (link)
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yeah making a cake woulds be so much more awesome and hed appriciate it way more...you seem like a really great friend! good luck and I hope I helped!=)
Samantha Lynn
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okay so theres this guy. him and my really good friend were going out but then she dumped him like a month or two ago. ever since then ive had feelings for him. while we were talking online once i asked him who he liked. he didnt want to tell me, because he didnt think she likes him back. im really starting to like him, but i dont know if we could ever go out because of my friend. so what do yall think i should do? (link)
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then same thing happened to me...go for it hun! if she dumped him then apparently she doesnt exactly have those feelings for him no more! go for it and dont worry...Hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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My boyfriend just asked me if it was alright for him to spend the night at his best friend's house. His four best friends are girls. there's gonna be two other guys, but I still don't really like the outlook on it; he's gonna be all night with 5-6 other girls.
is this dumb of me? (link)
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tell him no...you may trust him but still... a night with 5-6 other girls!? thats crazy! dont let him go... ask him if he would let you go if you spent the night with 5-6 guys...Hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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Right well we got a swimmin pool built in our school last month and when the girls are on their periods they aren't allowed to sit out but are forced to use tampons!!!!!! I haven't been on since it was built but oomg. I am so scared. I have never used a tampon and I'm never GONNA so don't suggest I do. Isn't it like illegal to force us to use tampons or somethin? My friend even got her rents in about it and they still made her use tampons!! What can I do on swimmin days that I am on? I'm not using a tampon but I'm not standin in the changing room arguing bout whether to use one or not with the PE teacher its embarassing!! (link)
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eek thats rly sucks...well you should have your mom call and tell the school to frick off because tampons can cause cancer aand i kno that I dont wanna take those chances and no one else should have to! you should tell your mom to call or talk to the principle about it ... it may be a lil bit embarresing but dont worry itll solve it...Good Luck and I hope I helped! =)
Samantha Lynn (( P.S. if you need help with anything else drop me one in my inbox!))
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alright i need help..so i went to this halloween party and the guy i like was there and i hung out with him the whole time and over that times he kept kinda flirting like we were all cold and he was like lets hold hands and stuff and i was like my butts cold and he goes ill warm it up and he knows i get pissed when he talks about other girls cause he knows i like him and he kept doin that and being like just kiddding..i just cant tell if he likes me or not...
ill see him tomorrow so what should i do!!!
rate high for good answers! =) (link)
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i think he likes you...you should maybe have one of your friends ask him just to make sure though ... Hope I Helped ! =)
Samantha Lynn
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I am almost 15 and i have only had one real relashonship with a guy. it lasted about a year.
all of my friend have great boyfiend relashonships. but i don't, the only advice they can give me.(is to be the one to move first.) well i gess im a old fashion girl. i like the guy to ask first. (link)
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dont worry about it...just wait untill someone asks you...it doesnt matter what other people think...maybe you can flirt with someone you really like and you think they like you and maybe theyll finally gain enough courage to ask you out i mean thats what i did to get my first boyfriend...Good Luck!!! I hope I helped!! =)
♥Samantha Lynn ♥
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alright, i'm 14 years old and i'm around.. 5'3" or possibly 5'4" and im about 106lbs. I'm just asking.. is that really skinny? I mean, I have like, real high metabolism ( both my parents have it ) and all my friends say I'm too skinny and that I need to gain some weight. I'm just having some trouble. How would I go about doing that? Cause I'm not gonna sit there and like, pig out till' i die. I just don't want people thinking i'm anorexic or something. I mean I'm really not that skinny. I think I'm averagley skinny. =/ I don't know. Please help.
Signed,
Sad to be skinny (link)
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well dont worry about it! Your pretty tall and its not your fault...maybe at lunch at school eat with your friends and other people so they know youre not anorexic...dont worry about it hun! Hope I Helped! =)
♥Samantha Lynn ♥
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hey does anyone know what the AIM virus does? I got it and I know it sends im's to everyone else on your buddy list, but is that it? please answer a.s.a.p NeLLiE x0x
P.S. Is it also true that you have to uninstall and then reinstall AIM? thats what my friend told me... (link)
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my sister had the same virus i think...you do not have to uninstall aim though...shut your computer down for an entire day and i think that should do the trick! Hope I Helped!!! =)
♥Samantha Lynn♥
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I just recently became a columnist and I went to go look at the list of the other columnists. I noticed that most of the others have rating stars next to their name. What are these for? Do I not have them because I'm relatively new? (link)
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these show youre rating...you get them when poeple rate your adivce that you give them...Hope I Helped! =)
♥Samantha Lynn♥
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Me and my friend are very close and we have been friends since first grade I get jealous when she hangs out with other people but yet I want to and I do hang out with other people. I feel bad and want to stop being like jealous of her having other friends. Please help me. Oh and I'll rate and give comments.
xoxpamela (link)
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well maybe she just wants other friends...thats not saying she doesnt want to hang out with you though...maybe you should try the same and become friends with other people...you wont be as jealous that way...Hope I Helped! =)
♥Samantha Lynn ♥
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I'm wondering, I'm only 14 at the moment, but girls my age seem to go for the bad guys and the biggest jerks. Why is that? I am a gentleman and I am as nice as can be and they always tell me that but why do they go for the jerks? (link)
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because some girls think that the bad boys are hawt...i think that its wonderful for people to be nice and looks dont matter...dont worry, girls will realize how nice you are and theyll start to like you and i mean actually like you for who you are and not because youre a jerk...Hope I Helped!!! =)
♥Samantha Lynn ♥
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17/m/lonesome
Ok there is a girl at work that i have feelings for, but I dont know if she likes me or not. I mean whenever I talk to her she alwasys gets a smile on her face, or starts to giggle. I will tell you this right now I'm not too good at reading the signs to tell you if someone likes you or not... no its more like i trip and fall into love., but I am a hopeless romantic at heart and I've alwasy treated women with the highest respect and dignity, and I think I could build a very long relationship out of this but idk, PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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well i think she likes you...when i like a guy then when he says something i laugh and smile even if its the dumbest thing ever! I think that you should tell her how you feel and see what she has to say...we girls get thrilled when guys tell us how they feel about us when theyre in love with us! i think youll get a positive answer! Hope I Helped!!! =)
♥Samantha Lynn ♥
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How can you tell if a guy likes you at school. Anyone who says "this isnt a dating service" will be given an automatic 1. But pleaz answer. (link)
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well you can flirt with them and if they flirt back then theres a sign that there might be a little spark there....or you can have a friend ask them if they like you and your friend can tell you....you can also be straight with the person and tell them you like then to see if they like you too... another thing you could do is ask one of their best friends (( but make sure you trust them!)) Hope I Helped! =)
♥Samantha Lynn ♥
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(I'm 16 and a girl) Okay three years okay I dated this guy for almost a year. Well ever since we dated and broke up my friend Jon will say stuff about my exboyfriend to make me mad. Jon would say stuff about him atleast 2 times a week last year. Does anyone have an Idea of why he is doing this? (link)
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maybe he's jeaous...maybe he really likes you and just wants to annoy you and doesnt want you to know he likes you so he makes fun of your ex boyfriend. He could also just be trying to annoy you or to get you mad just to play around...if you dont like it then tell him to stop or think of a way to get him back...Hope I Helped =)
Samantha Lynn
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Ok im 14/f and my brother is 18. thought that was a good way to start out. Well i always had a crush on my brother's friend. He is like 19 now which is way too old for me. But this weekend i was hanging out with because my brother was having a party for people who were home from college. And my brother's friend that i like is kinda hitting on me like say that when i turn 18 that we are going to date. Also he had like he around are my hips and on butt. I dont know if he was just messing around or serious?? I know that i am not going to date him like NOw because he is way too old for me. And this guy is not a jerk he is soo nice. Out of my brother's friends he is my favorite.
Thanks for the help (link)
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i think either this boy was trying to be RLY nice or theres something goin on here...he prolly likes you but he still knows that you are too young...i think you should play it cool and flirt back when he flirts with you...Hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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