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Well there is one girl kathy that i have known for 3 years and were good friends you know were there for each other. And then there is this girl brittany. Well Brittany and me have a good bit in common. And i was talking to her and she said that tomorrow she is going to go to a birthday ball and dump the boy she is currently going out with and ask the boy she really likes out, which is me. Well the thing is it seems ALL my friends are enemies. not just say britaany and kathy. But i really dont know what to do. I dont think kathy will stop talking to me by no damn means cause of what all we been through together and the fact we have been there for each other. But i really wouldnt mind going out with brittany since we got a good bit in common. And also as far as me and kathy i have wanted to go out with her since like last october and feel like one day something could happen between me and kathy but really dont know when. So my question is should i go out with brittany since it seems we got alot in common or wait and hope something happens between me and kathy? Eithere way i really feel me and kathy will be there for each other i really do.
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i'm not exactly sure what the problem is here. you say that you and kathy will be cool no matter what. so the issue is weather or not you really want to go out with brittany. the fact that your friends don't get along is just how life sometimes is. if you really want someone, that shouldn't matter and your friends will have to get over it. i say go out with brittany if you want to. and if this makes kathy so upset, maybe you can finnaly have that discussion too. but if the fact is that you really just want to go out with kathy and you don't know how to say it, you should just get over it and say it soon. there will never be a perfect or "right" time to do it.
'Hey kathy, have you ever thought about us going out?" it goes something like that. if she says yes, then you're all good. if she says no, well maybe she might be that "just great friends" thing that most people aren't lucky enough to get. smile, thank your lucky stars and give that brittany girl a call.
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Well,It`s really your choice.There are a couple things you could do.You could go out with Brittany and see how it goes with her since you guys have some stuff in common,or you can say no sorry and explain why.You can also wait for Kathy but you never know when thats gonna happen and it might be a long time.If I were you I`d probably go out with Brittany and see how it goes and if it didn`t really work out I`d break up with her.Well good luck!♥
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If you have this gut feeling about Kathy, why not go with it? Isn't it better to wait a long while for something you feel you think you should have rather than just go out with the first person who likes you and have a bit in common with? I'll let you answer that yourself but if it were me in your position, I'll be sure to stay close to Kathy but still be friends with Brittany...
Best of luck!
x Steph x
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well there are a few things that you could do...you could go out with britany and maybe if it doesnt work out you could give it a shot with kathy or you could tell britany no and explain why and then maybe ask kathy out...its your choice here you just have to decide which one you like more ... you could try writing down all the good things about both of them and whoever has the most good qualities that you like you could go out with or you could listen to your heart...Good luck and I hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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