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Why would a guy chase after you for months and act REALLY interested, but then when you finally flirt back he cools off? This happened to me, so I cooled off back and now he's acting interested again! Can anyone explain this to me?

You should talk to him about it. It seems like he's playing hard to get. He can chase you & it'll be fun until you flirt. Once you do, he realizes he got you to flirt & then backs off. It's kind of immature but unfortunately a lot of people do it. If you feel comfortable with him & want something more than this flirting game, talk to him. Explain how you feel about it & see what you both want from each other. He could just want someone to flirt with.

-hope that helped!♥

anybody have a myspace layout stealer that actually works?
i know there are some casue i found one once
but i forgot what it was =/

There's actually a really good code for one on google-

http://www.spacemisc.com/tweaks/myspace-layout-stealer.php

You can also just try googling more if that one doesn't work.

-hope that helped!♥

okay so i wear a 32C now and i can barely find that size anywhere.
besides victoria secret, where can i find a 32C (preferably push up) bra that is reasonably priced ($25 at most).
don't say target or walmart. i'v looked :]

thank you :]

I actually just went shopping for bras & AE aerie has 32 C cups.

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/category_aerie.jsp?navroot=aerie&rcid=aerie

Go there & go to bras. Choose the bra you want & on the side there's a drop down arrow that says Sizes. They are reasonably priced. Most are around $24.50 but you can get some for $11.00. There's sales & what not. If you want to pay even less, you can also try Kohls.

www.kohls.com

There's a woman's & juniors section & bras are under the "Intimates" tab.

-hope that helped!♥

So I found out that when someone tries to add me as a friend on myspace, they need my email or last name. I don't want this. I went to my account settings and unchecked that box, however it still asks for my last name or email.
Is there something else I need to change?

No, as long as the box is unchecked in your privacy settings you should be good to go. If it still isn't working, send a message to Tom through his myspace account.

-hope that helped!♥

i saw this music video thing for high school musical 2, and idk what the song was, something about summertime? it was pretty gay lol but anyways, you know the shirt that vanessa hudgens is wearing? the white kind of lacy looking one, that she wore with the white pants? well does anyone have any idea where i can get that? also the shirt underneath it was cute.
thanks

Since Vanessa Hudgens is a celebrity, I highly doubt she got her outfit from a random store. It was probably designer & picked out for the music video. Forever 21 has a lot of shirts that are white lace. Here's a website-

http://www.forever21.com/Default.asp?cookie%5Ftest=1

They have white pants also. They aren't too expensive either. If you aren't concerned about money, here's another site-

http://www.bebe.com/gp/home.html

They have a lot of clothing like that also, but they're more expensive. I would suggest maybe freeze framing it [on youtube] & finding the shirt in malls around your area. It would be extremely difficult to find the exact outfit.

-hope that helped!♥

I am petite and have a size 32B chest. I just bought this dress for graduation and its a sundress with the stretchy fabric at the top if you know what i mean. I'm just worried that it will make my chest look bigger in an unflattering way. Whats your opinion. I absolutely LOVEEE the dress except im a little worried about the chest part.

I wouldn't worry too much about it. Most sundresses have that same material at the top. Basically it's so that nothing shows & everything stays together. If you're too worried about it, you may want to wear a bra, or if you decided to already, change into a different bra. There are all different types like strapless and clear straps. You should probably just leave it how it is though. You're most likely the only person that will notice. A lot of girls rather have their boobs look bigger even if it is unflattering on them. Since you aren't a C or D cup to begin with, it should be fine.

-hope that helped!♥

someone told me that i should upload my pics onto the comp from my phone using vz pix place...i got some pics on there but how do i just get them to my computer..not send them to another phone?

Verizon pix place is only for computers. I'm not sure what you mean by another phone. What you do is go into your pictures. Find the one you want & go to Options, To Picture Place. It will load. Then what you do is go to the website-

www.vzwpix.com

Sign up for a free account using your number & a password. After that, sign in & the picture you sent should be there. Go into the Gallery section & it will be larger. The gallery is found on the left hand side. There's a tab.

-hope that helped!♥

on a desktop for your computer is it possible to put two pictures up on the desktop because im trying to put two up there with the same size.

Yeah, what you can do is go into paint & put the pictures exactly how you want them in paint with the sizes you want them. Then right click on your desktop & go to properties. Then go to the Desktop tab at the top of the box. After you'll see a preview image & a section where you can choose desktops. If you look to the right of that, there's a button that says Browse. There you can pick out your picture that you saved.

-hope that helped!♥

which grade in high school is it usually required to read Great Expectations by Charles Dickens?

It depends on your high school. Mine doesn't require it, but I'd probably say either 10th or 11th because I know schools around mine that read other Charles Dickens books in those grade levels. You can always ask one of your teachers or other students in your school.

-hope that helped!♥

i recently had a sleep over and i asked my friend b4 bed if she was gunna take her bra off and she said no, she wears it to bed, and its bad not too. then my other friend said you shouldnt wear one to bed cuz its bad for you or something. should you? will it change anything if you dont?
thanks xx

You should not wear your bra all the time. Simply put it on the morning when you change into your regular clothes for the day or after you shower & take it off when you go to bed. You shouldn't wear it to bed. It can be extremely uncomfortable & cut off circulation. Here's a website-

http://www.all-natural.com/bras.html

That will give you a lot more detail into when you should wear bras & when you shouldn't wear bras.

-hope that helped!♥

does drinking milk and orange juice get you taller?

Nothing can help you grow taller automatically. Milk & orange juice are great for you. They won't stunt your growth either but they both help with the growth process. Drinking them will give you the nutrition you need to grow properly.

-hope that helped!♥

how do i stop thinking bout a guy whose a total player and start focusing on my studying for final exams?

Why would you want to date a player? All that would give you is trouble. You probably won't trust him enough to even keep a steady relationship with him. It would be extremely difficult to trust him going anywhere without you because girls would most likely be around. Your education is far more important than a guy that would play you. You will most likely not be with him in 10-20 years, but your knowledge will be. You need good grades & a career. You do not need a player.

-hope that helped!♥

My phone just broke, so I'm looking for a new, good quality phone from verizon. Anyone on here and have recommendations?

There are quite a few good verizon cell phones. I'm not sure the type you're looking for. I have a LG enV. It's the phone with the keyboard. It's great for texting, but if you aren't a texter I would not recommend it. I would suggest getting the LG VX8700 if you just want a standard flip phone with a camera. If you want a music phone, obviously go for the LG Chocolate in a variety of colors or the Nokia 6315i for VCast music. Go to www.Verizonwireless.com to search for plans/cell phones. You can also google any of the choices I gave you for more information.

-hope that helped!♥

i'm on verizon wireless and i'm not able to send pix or flix messages. when ever i try to a message comes up saying service is not availible in your area. Even when i hav full bars and can call people and send texts.

It's probably your cell phone, not the service. Call verizon up & ask customer service. Here's a website-

http://www.verizonwireless.com/b2c/contact/index.jsp

-hope that helped!♥

Hey.. im turning 16 on July 30th.. about a month and a half away and i needed ideas on how to make this a memorable birthday party. Its going to have both guys and girls (perhaps) and i was thinkin of havin a luau... but i have no idea how to make a birthday party like that. Any suggestions?

I think a Luau theme would be a good idea since your birthday is in the summer. Either that or maybe a beach/ocean theme. Here are a few ideas-

Luau Theme:
Hula dancer statues [small ones]
Decorated cups/napkins/plates/utensils
Hawaiin flowers
Lais
Hula skirts for the girls
Hawaiin shirts for the guys
Hawaiin music [google]
Fruit for snacks
Hawaiin pizza
Hawaiin cake

Beach/Ocean Theme:
Bathing suits
Dirt/Sand dessert [google]
Dolphin decorations
Real sand [party city]
Picnic

You can always go to party city [or another store like it] & ask an employee for some ideas. Tell them you're having a sweet 16 party & you want ideas for a Luau. Also, it would be a good idea to ask some of your closer friends what they would like to do at your party. That way your guests have fun & are entertained. They can also give you food ideas.

-hope that helped!♥

k so me and my boyfriend have been dating a while k so a really long while. and just recently we have started arguing and it's like everyday. and i really love him. but i dont know what to do. because i am tired of arguing but not tired of him. and i dont want to lose him. because he means so much to me. but we argue over the tinniest stuff. it is soo stupid. sorry if i am going on and on. and sorry if its a stupid question i would just like somebody else's opinion. k thanks. :)

Why don't you talk to him about it? Tell him how you feel & you really don't want to argue with him anymore. You both can work it out. If you see/feel that an argument is going to start, stop what you're talking about with him & relax. Go over what you're talking about & say "well, I feel this way about this". If you think the conversation is going to get out of hand, stop it & start talking calmly. Maybe grab his hand or move closer to him. If you both are looking out for each other, you can stop arguments. I'm not saying you always have to agree with one another, that's impossible, but you can always stop & rethink what you're doing. If you've been dating for so long, it would be very stupid to let arguing get between your relationship.

-hope that helped!♥

Before i ask, i'd just like to say i never use this word and would never do because its racist, i'm just not sure why.
I'll have to write it in here so please dont take offence because its just for my question.

I'm just wondering, If you call the British "Brits" thats fine, no ones offended and they say it all the time on tv, but if you call people from Pakistan "Paki" it's really offencive and rasist. I dont understand why shortenening Paskistani is racist but shortening other Nationalities isn't.

It's all about their culture. Basically, to be safe, it would be in your best interest to not shorten up races. Not saying you do, but anyone in general. That way you won't have to offend anyone. That is an interesting question though. I don't think there's a correct answer to it either. Plus, everyones different. Not everyone gets offended when you shorten their nationality, but you're right, some do. It all depends on where they grew up & what their lifestyle is like. I've met many people who get offended & I also met many people who don't. I see it more as a personal preference. Some people get offended if you call them "Brits", some don't. Same with people from Pakistan, some get offended, some don't. I always say the whole name though. It's more respectful.

-hope that helped!♥

Does 93 pounds seem overwieght for a 12 year old female?

Are you kidding?! No, definitely not. 93 lbs is most likely underweight & average if you're 4'11. Usually 12 year olds [depending on their height] is anywhere between 100-120 lbs for females, but if they're taller, they will weigh more. Here's a website-

http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/

Fill that in according to your height/weight & it will give you your BMI [body mass index] to see if you're underweight, overweight, average, or obese. If you're 93 lbs though, you are definitely underweight.

-hope that helped!♥

14/f

i'm trying to break my caffeine addiction, i've been drinking a cup of coffee every morning for 2 years now, and since caffeine exhausts you i'm trying to stop. (i also drink things like green tea throughout the day but i don't drink it past 1 pm)

But I don't know whether I should just cut back to 1 cup of tea (30-55 mg of caffeine) daily, or just get off of it completely?

When trying to break an addiction, when you try to cut it out totally right away, it usually goes bad & a week or so later you're right back to your addiction. I would suggest by starting to drink one cup of tea in the morning. Try that for a few weeks. That way it isn't like you're having your regular cup of coffee. If you have a huge craving for it & don't want tea one day, which is normal, drink a half of cup of coffee. Try not doing that too often though. Maybe just once in awhile, only if you really want it. After a bit, try only drinking half a cup of tea then. A lot of caffine isn't good for you, especially since you're only 14 years old. Usually adults have addictions with coffee, so you're starting young. You want to get control of it now so later it won't be a problem.

-hope that helped!♥

ok.
so i'm 5'7
and a 15 year old female.
and I weight 123 pounds.
but I feel kinda chubby around my stomch/thighs.

am i under/over weight?
and if so, what is the normal range
for my height/age?

thnks

All you have to do is check your BMI. Your BMI is 19.3 which is average weight.

Underweight = 18.5
Normal weight = 18.5-24.9
Overweight = 25-29.9
Obesity = BMI of 30 or greater

Here's the website-
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/

Also, this may be helpful-
http://www.inch-aweigh.com/dcn.php

That will give you an estimate on how many calories you should intake daily.

-hope that helped!♥

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