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He Likes Me, He Likes Me Not
Why would a guy chase after you for months and act REALLY interested, but then when you finally flirt back he cools off? This happened to me, so I cooled off back and now he's acting interested again! Can anyone explain this to me?
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Some guys like the thrill of the chase. They want what they can't have, and when they can have it they don't want it anymore. These guys are usually very immature. If I were you, I would proceed with caution and keep my heart guarded. He sounds like trouble and probably isn't worth your attention. Consider focusing it elsewhere. Good luck. :)
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Okay, I'm not saying this for sure, since I dont know the guy, but I know this happened to me, and the guy turned out to be gay. He wanted to WANT togo out with a girl, but not really. So, when I showed interest back, he backed off. But, has he had any girlfriends before? Does he act a little gay? You can send me a private question if you want.
-Charleigh
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You should talk to him about it. It seems like he's playing hard to get. He can chase you & it'll be fun until you flirt. Once you do, he realizes he got you to flirt & then backs off. It's kind of immature but unfortunately a lot of people do it. If you feel comfortable with him & want something more than this flirting game, talk to him. Explain how you feel about it & see what you both want from each other. He could just want someone to flirt with.
-hope that helped!♥
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